I believe a lot of successful black men are a$$holes because when they were broke or average most black women never gave them the time of day and looked at them in disgust. But now that they're successful these same women come in flocks. They didn't want to build a future with these men, they wanted the finished product. It's kind of like payback for black men and plus black men have way more options when they're successful.
I was making $500/wk in high school in the late 90s, always been a get money type of dude
Went to prom with a black chick. I'm still an azzhole
Some of the azzhole sh*t of done (including the race)
- stood up a white chick at her sorority dance after she told her friends I was her man just 'cause she blew me
-kicking a white farm chick out my crib after she broke down to me after blowing me about how her man was abusive and was looking for a change in her life. Didn't even allow her to stay for breakfast
-picking up a new chick in front of my viet main, then breaking up with here while she was trying to save the relationship
-f*cking a chick right after f*cking my dominican main the same night, and do my best Eddie Murphy impression the next day when she saw the condoms in the whip
-kicking out a dominican steady (not my main, but a regular) because she gained approximately 15 pounds since the previous time I f*cked her, and this is her in doggy with the panties pulled down
I could go on and on. It's not about payback, it's just too many options. It makes you not give a f*ck. I regret all of it, especially with the Viet main, she was a good one. But at times I was f*cking 3-4 chicks on rotation a week, I be randomly remembering one night stands I've had
Especially as a black male, when you're at the top, all the women you come across at your level generally has flirted with the idea of being with a black man, and all the black chicks at your level want you because there aren't too many brothers at your level that aren't entertainers/pro athletes (talking six figures, not millions). So like the saying goes, power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. The more options a dude has, generally the more of an azzhole he usually is