Why successful black men are a$$holes

[Wild self]

It's a dirty game.

Media creates an image of basic manhood and then creates barriers for Black men to attain the things needed to satisfy that image.

Media then promotes an image of Black manhood that is a the image of basic manhood on steroids. Most nikkas cannot attain the basic image of manhood, let alone the image on steroids.

The image on steroids is fed to our women and they eat it up.

When they cannot find a man who satisfies the "steroid" image, they claim there are no good Black men or they're all with non-Black women.

They overlook all the Black men who meet the basic idea of manhood in the process. Which is why Black men call them on their bullshyt when they say that. There are enough good Black men to match the number of good Black women. Good Black women are just looking for that "steroid" image. There are only a few of those nikkas around.

They want the Tupac in a business suit

What successful black man would spend his time running the office and board room meeting, but still be on the streets fukking bytches and hustling?

 

[Wild self]

he has "potential" and "swag"

the next nikka she messes with will need ot have a job, his own place, his own car etc.

even the dude that hit her raw had none of the above.

The other nikka boarded her flight just off his appearance and "aura" the next nikka is getting a cavity searched and being questioned in her guantomono bay

Its like the average black male is the most hated on in America. That is why I always have these females questioning shyt and say next to nothing bout myself.

 

[mamba]

Real talk. I see that shyt too. Compromising their entire existence just for hoes tto for them.

Do you know how many nikkas are rotting away in prison right now because they got caught up trying to impress these chicks, breh?

A lot of nikkas come from good families. They don't have to sell drugs or rob people. But, they want that fast money so they can wear Gucci, rock Js, flex with big rims, etc. All in an effort to impress the birds.

It doesn't have to be that way. White dudes don't have to jeopardize their freedom just to impress white women! Black men shouldn't have to do all that bullshyt just to impress a chick.

 

[MikelArteta]

But he was a good boy turning his life around

It was just a few grams of cocaine and just a .22

The fact that nikkas poisoning the community get celebrated in our culture by other Black men and are at the top of the totem pole in terms of dating by a lot of Black women is downright crazy. Show me any other community where a man who actually preys on the community is regarded highly. In Iran, such a man would be hung by his neck in public. In Saudi Arabia, he'd be beheaded.

We are too easy on the fukkups in the Black community, which is why our community is fukked up.

 

[Wild self]

Do you know how many nikkas are rotting away in prison right now because they got caught up trying to impress these chicks, breh?

A lot of nikkas come from good families. They don't have to sell drugs or rob people. But, they want that fast money so they can wear Gucci, rock Js, flex with big rims, etc. All in an effort to impress the birds.

It doesn't have to be that way. White dudes don't have to jeopardize their freedom just to impress white women! Black men shouldn't have to do all that bullshyt just to impress a chick.

Yeah, it seems like p*ssy's worth has skyrocketed and it is worth more than money nowadays. Dudes be acting like p*ssy will build generational wealth and it is worth endangering everything for. That is why dudes try to clown other dudes because he got no p*ssy but would never go that far over money.

 

[mamba]

Black women do this....ALOT. Because smart nerdy nikka don't get the coochie wet. Bad boys with swag do (yes, Bad boys can have 9-to-5s and degrees too). A lot of things that's corny to black women aren't corny to white chicks, so those smart nerdy nikkas get in where they fit in. When that smart nerdy nikka get a nonblack woman, nikkas say "you a lame/ugly, can't pull a black chick" not realizing that saying someone is too lame to get a black woman kinda corrobates the fact that most young black woman want a swagger up playa type, Trey Songz basically. The fact that these guys who were SO lame can go and all of sudden find willing non-black women means they must not be THAT ugly or THAT lame. They just were to black chicks.

A Black man just being "Black" is edgy enough for a lot of non-Black women. nikkas don't have to be on edge like that. He can just be.

That's not how it's supposed to be. Black men should be able to just "be" with his own women.

He should be on edge with non-Black women, considering all the shyt non-Blacks have done to us.

 

[Wild self]

i remember my thread on would you date a man who made 12.50 a hour and hte resounding result was

then stats show that 50% of americans make under 30k a year

and we all know black men have the least money out of any race

Yeah, that shyt opened my eyes and see how most women shyt on men in this economy.

 

[Wild self]

A Black man with a fresh haircut, rockin' a rented suit and driving a rented BMW can slay the vast majority of Black women the first night. They take what's on the surface and run with it.

But the sad thing is, the black man that has that super fresh image still gets shytted on by the average white male. The average black male with the regular man image is forgotten.

 

[Wild self]

Yes. They were. I speak from experience.

I pull black girls too (you've seen what I look like)...but they are a lot less realistic when it comes to the things they demand from men. I'll tell you straight up, men's actions are primarily driven by their desire to attain what they consider to be great women. That criteria differs between man to man. Some have the trophy look as their main priority, others have domestic-ability, and others want a girl thats career driven with whom they can build an empire with etc.. Each factor has a weight so to speak, but at the root...as pathetic as it may sound most of our actions come down to us wanting woma(e)n. The nice car, the nice job title, the six figures, the nice clothing, the jewelry, the nice crib, the popularity etc etc etc. After all, what is the point of making so much money when you have nobody to share it with? That's just depressing.

Now back to the original point (and I'm bolding this part because it is VERY important). I've noticed most black women are not ready to build with your regular square past the age of like 22. If youre above the age of 22 and dont have a your own place, your own crib, and some of the things that I mentioned in the 2nd last sentence of the previous paragraph most black girls ain't checking for you and you know it. Just look at that depression thread from a few days ago. This is why so many of them prefer to date older men which to me has always been a red flag. If you are open to dating older men sure, but to exclusively do it? It's narcissistic in my opinion considering that many of these same girls are your average Junior religious studies major at york university with a 2.6 GPA working in retail part time with student loans up the ass. So who are they to flare their nose at somebody going through something similar? The problem with this is it leads men to engage in stupid activities such as fraud/scams, drug dealing, get rich quick schemes, robbery etc. so they can have the money they need to project a certain image and attract the black women they covet so much. Again, tell me I'm lying . It gets to a point where dudes will engage in criminal activity to get money that they could use to build long term wealth by buying capital assets and shyt...but would rather buy materialistic things and short term/depreciating assets that will go out of style instead. They end up dead or in jail realizing how stupid they were as all the girls and fake friends evade. Thats the vicious cycle were looking at.

Meanwhile, the dude who was on the straight and narrow and worked hard through countless droughts, rejections and managed to save money and eventually reach his zenith has now developed a bitterness. He has reached a point where he cant trust the motivations of women because he thinks to himself, this girl is checking for me right now, but I'm sure if it was 5 years ago and rolled her neck at me and fukked with the dopeboy instead. He then shares his wealth with a woman of another race, moves out the neighborhood and dissociates with other blacks except his close friends and the wealth of the black community marginally decreases accordingly.

WOW @ how that shyt fukks up the wealth building of the black community. Sex really brought us to our downfall

 

[Arris]

you know i never actually came into this topic till now but judging by the title I always assumed he had something semi smart to say

but of course I was wrong

some of you dudes on here blame black women for everything I never see or hear this stuff in real life go outside and interact with your people

 

[Wild self]

One of my friends is going through this. Girls in our social circle always thought he was "nerdy" and "lame" because he'd rather wear old navy than follow the latest trends. He's the type to rather play computer games than go to the bar or club. Even the "nerdy" black girls didn't fukk with him because they're caught up in the superficial aspects too

Now dude is 24, makes over 200k, and is a leader in his community, those same chicks that shytted on him are . This shyt isn't uncommon in NYC either

NYC has too many entitled females. If he was in the ATL, he would have been swimming in p*ssy.

 

[Wild self]

Bullshyt. I never needed a dime. Cute always been good enough for me. Alot of good black men don't get women until AFTER they're successful and AFTER the woman has had her fun and her b*stard children. 70% of black children are born to single mothers. That's fact. I know 83% of black men are marrying black women. You're not teaching me anything. We know that. But I bet a good number of those men are putting up with hella baggage. Statistics say so. Don't bullshyt me. I'm 26. Most the (black) girls my age have baggage. Bytches hella ran through. Don't bullshyt me I can have one of them too if I wanted....they on me every time I go to church.....stop acting like BW are this rare commodity .....I just have no desire to raise your b*stard children or be a rest haven for a girl who would've acted like she was too good at 19/20. I'm open to meeting a good black chick though. The problem is finding an attractive black chick (that's not ran through) that's childless, not overweight, reasonably educated, isn't crazy, cooks/cleans, loyal and doesn't have unrealistic standards is like finding a fukking unicorn. Unless you're on a college campus. But you can easily find this in "other women"

You killing this thread. I prefer to go to foreign black women for all that.

 

[Wild self]

OP is dancing on the line of fukkboy but this is a real ass thread.

It's not just the women. (they are the main culprits tho) but black folk in general be on this bullshyt. Basically if it ain't tangible or material nikkas don't fukk with you. If you on the come up EVERYONE doubts you. If you aren't rich or wasting your money pretending to be rich then folks label you broke. Nobody respects the journey, most are hoping you fail or are trying to drag you down with them. This is why so many black folk turn their back on the "community" when they make it. nikkas asking you to "give back" to the community when the only thing the community gave you was hate.


As far as the women go, birds gonan chase the material shyt. Cause that's what they do. nikkas will on here heavy for their interests, but you know it's wrong and fake, I know it's wrong and fake. No point in trying to change em, just get rich and dog em out

 

[Wild self]

Gotta step out, this was a real ass thread... many cats can relate to this shyt alot of sisters do.

Truthfully average nikkas are better off dating non black, they'll appreciate you more since they socialize at a lower level, real talk let's keep it 100.

I go to a black event, everthing is about the grown and "established" whites and others just party to party, nikkas gotta show off to the world they got something.

Let's be blunt, we gotta get over that shyt, if you a average nikka, don't even bother

I love black women, but I gotta be real, this shyt is true.

That high level socializing shyt is very judgmental and bigotry-minded.

 

[Wild self]

Family oriented, ambitious, loving, faithful, humble, kind...shall I go on.

You never mentioned your weight.

Guess you fat.