Why successful black men are a$$holes
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They know those nikkas were flawed from the jump, yet they continue to deal with them,
Then, when shyt hits the fan, they want to throw all Black men under the bus.
The nikka has 25 kids and has never been married to any of the mothers.
"He said he loved me. That he was going to marry me. He said I was different than all his other baby mamas."
I've seen it I've seen it, "you don't know him like I do", "So he loves me"
messing with a drug dealer or known player and thinking their puzzy can tame him or change him.
So now black women chasing bums the next thread they are gold diggers
@Malik laid it out clearly in his post. Black women, especially the young ones, play in terms of extremes.
A lot of young black women....at least majority of the attractive ones have a type....the same way men like pretty girls with curves, breasts and booty....they like bad boys/swagged up dudes. I have a theory that BW don't care for the middle guys. They want one end or the other end. Extreme polarity. On one end is the rich ballers. They can be rappers, athletes, actors, doctors, lawyers, the lames they dissed before who are now successful. Any black dude with money. On the other end are the broke dudes. They broke as fukk but, they fulfill a physical requirement they crave. They have a big dikk. They're a bad boy. They have the arrogant swag they love. They're handsome. These dudes are broke but, fulfill one of those requirements. BW deal in polarity....rich nikka or poor bad boy. Now........the middle guys. The average guys. The nikkas who don't fit the status quo for what a black man is supposed to be is shyt out of luck. He's a lame. He doesn't have the natural physical qualities black women crave (thugs, bad boys, pretty boys, swag boys). The only chance he has is to come up financially but, that's years away. My theory is ALOT of black men fall into "the middle guy" zone which is why you hear so many successful black guys say the same story.
As others have said, it's much much easier for that average middle guy to get a woman of another race. She sees your potential. She's not tryna to date the next Wiz Khalifa. A lot of things that's lame to our women is normal to them. I'm rambling now but, I want to add this, I remember one of my roommates had a girl. Let's call him Lamont. The girl he was seeing looked like Victoria Allure (porn broad). My roommate was the kinda cat a lot chicks would love. Player. Arrogant. Swag. Anyway, girl was head over heels for him. She'd come over and cook all us (4 suite mates) dinner. She'd vacuum clean the spot. She'd buy that nikka shiit all the time. I remember asking him where his girl was at once and he was like "don't call that bytch my girl nikkaWe just cool". This broad would bend over backward for duke and obviously thought they were in a relationship while this nikka could care less. I looked at her with disgust eventually cuz I know she gonna be that chick that says nikkas ain't shyt or there's no good men 10 years from now when she spent her prime chasing dudes like him. No shade being thrown at my roommate. I ain't want her. I forgot her name already. It just made me disgusted nonetheless. And I hate when chicks lie online like we don't be around y'all everyday and see how y'all move.
I used to be like that when I was younger, buying expensive clothes and shoes to "impress", thankfully now that I'm older I don't give a crap, i'd rather spend my money on travelling.
Nikkaz in the hood driving benz and beamers rocking 100 dollar jeans and 250 dollar jodans but no equity no investment, no pension, but black women fall to perception over and over again
Even my family ain't immunemy little cuz is 21 years old.....NO JOB.....hasn't had one since he dropped out of college two years ago. What he does with his time I don't know
he has "potential" and "swag"
the next nikka she messes with will need ot have a job, his own place, his own car etc.
even the dude that hit her raw had none of the above.
The other nikka boarded her flight just off his appearance and "aura" the next nikka is getting a cavity searched and being questioned in her guantomono bay
Black women on average are the least materialistic women out of all the women listed. No one is going to convince that an asian woman would give a broke black man a chance before a black woman...no one.
@Timeis$ broke it down well and @Draje has shown the mentality that many young black men posess in regards to women of their own race as well as my own experience.
@Timeis$ broke it down well and @Draje has shown the mentality that many young black men posess in regards to women of their own race as well as my own experience.
Who are are these dudes going after? Nobody ask the question.
Who are these black men chasing? What type of black women are they looking out for?
I already said women are spenders
a single man is fine driving a honda civic, living in a bachelors with one couch a flat screen tv and a regular bed, with a small white fridge.
a woman needs the leather coach, mahogony bed head, stainless steel fridge, andy warhol pictures on the wall, coffee table and a fancy waterfront condo with a consinglere.
the car is to bland for her.
Even for travelling you think nikkaz care about 5 star resorts etc.?
I remember when I used to travel with a old brehette if the hotel/resort wasn't 4 or 5 stars it was
now I travel by myself and ill stay in a motel for all i care, its why most stores in the mall are for women, most ads marketed to women they are the spenders
Mr.Forte
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Yes. They were. I speak from experience.
I pull black girls too (you've seen what I look like)...but they are a lot less realistic when it comes to the things they demand from men. I'll tell you straight up, men's actions are primarily driven by their desire to attain what they consider to be great women. That criteria differs between man to man. Some have the trophy look as their main priority, others have domestic-ability, and others want a girl thats career driven with whom they can build an empire with etc.. Each factor has a weight so to speak, but at the root...as pathetic as it may sound most of our actions come down to us wanting woma(e)n. The nice car, the nice job title, the six figures, the nice clothing, the jewelry, the nice crib, the popularity etc etc etc. After all, what is the point of making so much money when you have nobody to share it with? That's just depressing.
Now back to the original point (and I'm bolding this part because it is VERY important). I've noticed most black women are not ready to build with your regular square past the age of like 22. If youre above the age of 22 and dont have a your own place, your own crib, and some of the things that I mentioned in the 2nd last sentence of the previous paragraph most black girls ain't checking for you and you know it. Just look at that depression thread from a few days ago. This is why so many of them prefer to date older men which to me has always been a red flag. If you are open to dating older men sure, but to exclusively do it? It's narcissistic in my opinion considering that many of these same girls are your average Junior religious studies major at york university with a 2.6 GPA working in retail part time with student loans up the ass. So who are they to flare their nose at somebody going through something similar? The problem with this is it leads men to engage in stupid activities such as fraud/scams, drug dealing, get rich quick schemes, robbery etc. so they can have the money they need to project a certain image and attract the black women they covet so much. Again, tell me I'm lying
. It gets to a point where dudes will engage in criminal activity to get money that they could use to build long term wealth by buying capital assets and shyt...but would rather buy materialistic things and short term/depreciating assets that will go out of style instead. They end up dead or in jail realizing how stupid they were as all the girls and fake friends evade. Thats the vicious cycle were looking at. Meanwhile, the dude who was on the straight and narrow and worked hard through countless droughts, rejections and managed to save money and eventually reach his zenith has now developed a bitterness. He has reached a point where he cant trust the motivations of women because he thinks to himself, this girl is checking for me right now, but I'm sure if it was 5 years ago and rolled her neck at me and fukked with the dopeboy instead. He then shares his wealth with a woman of another race, moves out the neighborhood and dissociates with other blacks except his close friends and the wealth of the black community marginally decreases accordingly.
@ that flight analogy!
its true
I've said it before you can easily tell the men most women have messed with in the past by what they want now.
Sick of all the games - all dudes she messed with played games on her and it worked
You are not getting sex -every other dude got his nut off
Can't live at home - all the other men lived in mommys basement
Need a good career - all the other men worked at jiffy lube