Why successful black men are a$$holes
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Most Black women get mad when they see a nikka with money with a non-Black woman. Chances are, the Black woman didn't want that nikka in the first place. She's mad that she doesn't get to enjoy his money.
They'll say, "that non-Black woman is only with him for his money." But, that same Black woman also only wants him, now, because of his money.
If that same Black woman wanted him because he has the potential to be a great father, husband, is a leader, etc., I'd empathize with Black women.
But, most hate on successful Black men who date out only do so because they didn't get to enjoy his money.
They'll say, "that non-Black woman is only with him for his money." But, that same Black woman also only wants him, now, because of his money.
If that same Black woman wanted him because he has the potential to be a great father, husband, is a leader, etc., I'd empathize with Black women.
But, most hate on successful Black men who date out only do so because they didn't get to enjoy his money.
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black mothers invest way more in their sins than their daughters. The problem is that they enable them.
Real nikka shyt, that fact cannot be overlooked either. But at the same time the most superficial reason is typically attraction which REGARDLESS will always be the first thing that sparks an interest between two young individuals...unless one is famous/rich. Perhaps when black males grow up they too realize that the big ass, titties and smile are not to be trusted and treat them accordingly
...thus dashing away the superficial criteria.I can even elaborate with some personal stories even regarding the types of things that women do that foster bitterness. I've shared a story or two with reincar. What's crazy is when it does happen to a man, people will call him sensitive, get at him for being bitter, butthurt or whatever when really in my opinion he's just living off experience and seeing through translucency. You really cant blame a person for getting on some "fukk these hoes
" shyt when he's been nothing but dissed in the past. 
To be honest and im sure @Asantehene cam vouch for me I see this mentality more engrained with black diasporans than african men. In canada, it is black carribeans who are like this the most, ironically thieir women fare better financially.
I meant son.Neither can you do a woman. But women will be called bitter for it. There needs to be passes on both side...I have no problem sympathizing with a man as long as he is not selfish.Real nikka shyt, that fact cannot be overlooked either. But at the same time the most superficial reason is typically attraction which REGARDLESS will always be the first thing that sparks an interest between two young individuals...unless one is famous/rich. Perhaps when black males grow up they too realize that the big ass, titties and smile are not to be trusted and treat them accordingly
I can even elaborate with some personal stories even regarding the types of things that women do that foster bitterness. I've shared a story or two with reincar. What's crazy is when it does happen to a man, people will call him sensitive, get at him for being bitter, butthurt or whatever when really in my opinion he's just living off experience and seeing through translucency. You really cant blame a person for getting on some "fukk these hoes
it's true
don't want to be there when the car is being assembled just when it's ready to hit the road.
I would love to know the track record of these guys before theor fame and money and see which girls they were attracting.
MooseMouthMthafuga
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Me and that brotha on the same page....I've peeped some of the same shyt
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/is-t...to-date-married-or.207119/page-2#post-8097210
The "Polarity" is real IMO
But an asian/white/etc...doesn't. Come on @mamba if anything based on the way the media manipulates inrerracial couples including bm/ww id think non black women would feel more entitled to black man's money.
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So now black women chasing bums the next thread they are gold diggers
Nope, ya'll never wanted too chase bums, some of ya'll especially in lower income areas for the most part didn't have much of a choice, nothing decent was around you. These bums, no matter how broke had swag and still appeared as leaders so some sisters fukk with them but like I always said, especially to c00ns who think blacks lack intelligence, if that's the case why area broke BLACK MEN getting married? They're not and not seen as marriagable material. So that mentality is a lie, a broke nikka may get some p*ssy but he ain't walking down the isle no time soon.
Yes, this is one of the biggest complaints when you around white men when they start bytching about western women, they seen the writing on the way 20 years ago, hence why so many white guys are into asian women, asian culturally live very conservative.... hence rich white dudes cupcaking them over their own women, feminism has destroyed equality to a sense and more women feel they deserve this and that from men.
No one is fukking with broke black men on a serious level not even black women outside of some dikk that they may assume is good, still in 2014, we're still considered entertainers and people who make good jokes, good sex partners, we're still seen as people of style, not people of stability, black women know black men got issues and many choose to date out or to remain single till Mr. Right comes along, I got 38 year old females with law degrees who wouldn't look at a nikka not on her level period. You act like black women are loyal but you're wrong very wrong, this sisters throw nikkas on child support and go back out their with multiple kids looking for a "mature minded" nikka to take her, when she can't find one she blames black men.
Yes
It's real in your head but keep thinking white asians are there for you. You guys are delusional at best but whatevs