Why successful black men are a$$holes

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

Logic said it best
Btch you wasn't here a year ago why are you hear today

 

[mamba]

Let's keep it 100:

Black women don't assess a man's character until long after she's already knee deep in shyt with him.

After she's already popped out two kids by him, then it's "he's such a liar."
After she's already spent 8 years with him without commitment, then it's "he has no sense of direction, no ambition, no goals, etc."
After she gets pregnant out of wedlock by him, knowing he already has other kids out of wedlock, and he doesn't support, it's "he's such a deadbeat."

Black women rarely do character assessments early in the game so they can cut their losses. They do the analyses on the back end, after the damage is already done.

 

[MikelArteta]

 

[MikelArteta]

But he was so nice at first

Let's keep it 100:

Black women don't assess a man's character until long after she's already knee deep in shyt with him.

After she's already popped out two kids by him, then it's "he's such a liar."
After she's already spent 8 years with him without commitment, then it's "he has no sense of direction."
After she gets pregnant out of wedlock by him, knowing he already has other kids out of wedlock, and he doesn't support, it's "he's such a deadbeat."

Black women rarely do character assessments early in the game so they can cut their losses. They do the analyses on the back end, after the damage is already done.

 

[mamba]

That's a blatant lie @mamba!

It's not. Most Black women are materialistic. Some of the biggest consumers in America. Stats back this up.

 

[mamba]

But he was so nice at first

They know those nikkas were flawed from the jump, yet they continue to deal with them,

Then, when shyt hits the fan, they want to throw all Black men under the bus.

The nikka has 25 kids and has never been married to any of the mothers.

"He said he loved me. That he was going to marry me. He said I was different than all his other baby mamas."

"You know what? nikkas ain't shyt."

 

[Colicat]

That's a blatant lie @mamba!

Any man who is an a$$hole, is an a$$hole because that is who he is and decided to be.

Life fukks everyone over.... There is no external factor to blame.

 

[mamba]

That's a blatant lie @mamba!

"The vast majority of African-American consumer spending is done by females. Some marketers say 85 cents of every $1 spent by blacks last year was spent at the influence of black females. Others estimate black female buying power at upwards of $565 billion last year alone. Either way, the buying habits of this group of consumers could well decide the fortunes of many of the world’s largest corporations. - See more at: http://madamenoire.com/101510/the-black-female-misunderstood-super-consumer"

@Yup

Great comment in the comments section:

As a black woman, this article disturb me in many ways. Here's why:

1) Instead of encouraging black women to go into business,manufacturing and advertisement so that WE can become millionares/billionares off of black money (keep it circulating within Black America) we would rather BEG other races to advertise to us "better" so that we can give them OUR cash so THEY can profit?!?! IF these companies do not know how or don't care to avertise to the black female consumer then GREAT we can benefit! That's our profit. Let's create more businesses. Let's start manufactoring. Let's start investing in our own people. Let's have more business partnerships! Why wait for other races to think,create and sale EVERY.DAMN.THING. to us?!?!

2) If black women have that much economic power then why isn't our community showing for it?? Why is the black female's median wealth only $5?? Why are we the most disadvantaged in every area you can think of?? This tell me that black women as a whole need to get their minds' right!!

 

[Malik]

Even my family ain't immune my little cuz is 21 years old.....NO JOB.....hasn't had one since he dropped out of college two years ago. What he does with his time I don't know In these 2 years....he's made 3 kids. All by the same chick. The girl is bad too....cute thing. But she works, supports herself while my little cousin is a bum. She knew my little cousin wasn't doing shyt when she had his first kid. Yet she gave him newborn twins last week NO JOB breh....10 years from now....she'll be complaining all black men ain't shyt.....he does have swag though

 

[Colicat]

Even my family ain't immune my little cuz is 21 years old.....NO JOB.....hasn't had one since he dropped out of college two years ago. What he does with his time I don't know In these 2 years....he's made 3 kids. All by the same chick. The girl is bad too....cute thing. But she works, supports herself while my little cousin is a bum. She knew my little cousin wasn't doing shyt when she had his first kid. Yet she gave him newborn twins last week NO JOB breh....10 years from now....she'll be complaining all black men ain't shyt.....he does have swag though

Is she the same age as him?

Then she's young and dumb.... just like your cousin

And furthermore, your cousin isn't a successful Black man... why is he an example

 

[Yup]

But I love black women. Just ones with light skin and curly hair.

Beyoncé > Kelly





Nikka, you wouldn't holler at Michelle's man-faced ass if you put her in the club with a bunch of actual dime pieces.



Cute white chicks was giving me play when I was playing tennis in HS and in debate though.

The fine black chicks was into the dudes who was hooping or playing ball and was like At ya boy for playing tennis.

You live in California right? Arent you referring to biracial women?

 

[mamba]

Even my family ain't immune my little cuz is 21 years old.....NO JOB.....hasn't had one since he dropped out of college two years ago. What he does with his time I don't know In these 2 years....he's made 3 kids. All by the same chick. The girl is bad too....cute thing. But she works, supports herself while my little cousin is a bum. She knew my little cousin wasn't doing shyt when she had his first kid. Yet she gave him newborn twins last week NO JOB breh....10 years from now....she'll be complaining all black men ain't shyt.....he does have swag though

Yep. We'll be scrutinizing her POF account before you know it, breh.

 

[Raptor]

Exactly part of the reason why society has become so feminised is due to the buying power of women. Corporations know that women makeup the majority of their consumer base so everything, from shows to advertisements to even health issues is directed towards women. Men save money and invest, while women spend their money on superficial materialism and create profit for multi billion dollar companies

 

[Yup]

Even my family ain't immune my little cuz is 21 years old.....NO JOB.....hasn't had one since he dropped out of college two years ago. What he does with his time I don't know In these 2 years....he's made 3 kids. All by the same chick. The girl is bad too....cute thing. But she works, supports herself while my little cousin is a bum. She knew my little cousin wasn't doing shyt when she had his first kid. Yet she gave him newborn twins last week NO JOB breh....10 years from now....she'll be complaining all black men ain't shyt.....he does have swag though

So now black women chasing bums the next thread they are gold diggers

 

[MikelArteta]

coli black women will never just look at facts they always have to mention themselves anmd their girl that it ain't like that.

Black women are some of the most gullible women out there and its sad