Why successful black men are a$$holes

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:ohlawd: @ that flight analogy!
Nope. You haven't answered my question. I have seen black guys in college bash black girls with attitude to get with white girls/asian/persian/hispanic girls with attitude. I have seen dudes call black girls ugly to end up getting with an asian girl of equal attractiveness...I have seen black guys say they don't date black girls but asl black girls for favours(cooking for them, etc..) that their non black girlfriends wouldn't/couldn't do.
 
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I already said women are spenders

a single man is fine driving a honda civic, living in a bachelors with one couch a flat screen tv and a regular bed, with a small white fridge.


a woman needs the leather coach, mahogony bed head, stainless steel fridge, andy warhol pictures on the wall, coffee table and a fancy waterfront condo with a consinglere.

the car is to bland for her.


Even for travelling you think nikkaz care about 5 star resorts etc.?
I remember when I used to travel with a old brehette if the hotel/resort wasn't 4 or 5 stars it was :scust:

now I travel by myself and ill stay in a motel for all i care, its why most stores in the mall are for women, most ads marketed to women they are the spenders

Yep. When I travel, where I stay isn't a big concern as long as it's safe, secure and clean. I'm more interested in spending money as I travel around the city as opposed to spending it on a hotel.

I'm only going to spend a few hours in the hotel. Most of my time is going to be spend out and about.
 

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So now black women chasing bums the next thread they are gold diggers:mjlol:

Most of these coli brehs are in college and high school and don't have much interaction with legitimate women, only girls, so never read too much into what they have to say. They still have a lot to learn.
These dudes want to talk about how non-black women stick with them, but black men have the highest interacial divorce rate in the U.S. :mjlol:
 

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its true
I've said it before you can easily tell the men most women have messed with in the past by what they want now.

Sick of all the games - all dudes she messed with played games on her and it worked
You are not getting sex -every other dude got his nut off
Can't live at home - all the other men lived in mommys basement
Need a good career - all the other men worked at jiffy lube

Breh, you ain't never lied about that.

Like I've said in the past, when women start throwing up lists of what a man must have, it's usually shyt she doesn't have or lacks or the complete opposite of what the nikkas she's let beat and retreat have had.

It's easy to figure out what a woman's about. All you have to do is listen. They'll tell you everything you need to know without you really having to dig too much.
 

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Yep. When I travel, where I stay isn't a big concern as long as it's safe, secure and clean. I'm more interested in spending money as I travel around the city as opposed to spending it on a hotel.

I'm only going to spend a few hours in the hotel. Most of my time is going to be spend out and about.

travel with a woman
ew this room
can we get a upgrade to a ocean view etc.'
 

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Yes. They were. I speak from experience.

I pull black girls too (you've seen what I look like)...but they are a lot less realistic when it comes to the things they demand from men. I'll tell you straight up, men's actions are primarily driven by their desire to attain what they consider to be great women. That criteria differs between man to man. Some have the trophy look as their main priority, others have domestic-ability, and others want a girl thats career driven with whom they can build an empire with etc.. Each factor has a weight so to speak, but at the root...as pathetic as it may sound most of our actions come down to us wanting woma(e)n. The nice car, the nice job title, the six figures, the nice clothing, the jewelry, the nice crib, the popularity etc etc etc. After all, what is the point of making so much money when you have nobody to share it with? That's just depressing.

Now back to the original point (and I'm bolding this part because it is VERY important). I've noticed most black women are not ready to build with your regular square past the age of like 22. If youre above the age of 22 and dont have a your own place, your own crib, and some of the things that I mentioned in the 2nd last sentence of the previous paragraph most black girls ain't checking for you and you know it. Just look at that depression thread from a few days ago. This is why so many of them prefer to date older men which to me has always been a red flag. If you are open to dating older men sure, but to exclusively do it? It's narcissistic in my opinion considering that many of these same girls are your average Junior religious studies major at york university with a 2.6 GPA working in retail part time with student loans up the ass. So who are they to flare their nose at somebody going through something similar? The problem with this is it leads men to engage in stupid activities such as fraud/scams, drug dealing, get rich quick schemes, robbery etc. so they can have the money they need to project a certain image and attract the black women they covet so much. Again, tell me I'm lying :laugh:. It gets to a point where dudes will engage in criminal activity to get money that they could use to build long term wealth by buying capital assets and shyt...but would rather buy materialistic things and short term/depreciating assets that will go out of style instead. They end up dead or in jail realizing how stupid they were as all the girls and fake friends evade. Thats the vicious cycle were looking at.

Meanwhile, the dude who was on the straight and narrow and worked hard through countless droughts, rejections and managed to save money and eventually reach his zenith has now developed a bitterness. He has reached a point where he cant trust the motivations of women because he thinks to himself, this girl is checking for me right now, but I'm sure if it was 5 years ago and rolled her neck at me and fukked with the dopeboy instead. He then shares his wealth with a woman of another race, moves out the neighborhood and dissociates with other blacks except his close friends and the wealth of the black community marginally decreases accordingly.
@Asantehene you know I have a lot of respect for you. I know the type of girls you are talking about and truth be told these dudes chased them for superficial reasons 9 times out of 10.
 

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Nope. Yoy haven't answered my question. I have seen black guys in college bash black girks with attitude to get with white girls/asian/persian/hispanic girks with attitude. I have seen dudr call blavk girls ugly to get with an asian girl of equal attractiveness...I have seen black guys say they don't date black girls but asl black girls for favours that non black girlfriends wouldn't do.

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Most of these coli brehs are in college and high school and don't have much interaction with legitimate women, only girls, so never read too much into what they have to say. They still have a lot to learn.
These dudes want to talk about how non-black women stick with them, but black men have the highest interacial divorce rate in the U.S. :mjlol:

few black men get married anyways, and women file for divorce 3/4 of the time.

Secondly its typical black women rebuttal instead to look at the issues and come about a solution they will try to demean the black men who are on the front lines and dealing with these issues daily.

legitimate women? you mean the career orientated 30 plus black women who pollute the free agency and never get signed?
:mjlol:
 

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Most of these coli brehs are in college and high school and don't have much interaction with legitimate women, only girls, so never read too much into what they have to say. They still have a lot to learn.
These dudes want to talk about how non-black women stick with them, but black men have the highest interacial divorce rate in the U.S. :mjlol:

That's because once the money goes so do the women, this is especially true for black men, which is what I always said we are marginalized to fit into a certain sector of America, hence the mentality that everyone even black women tend to be against us, we literally have no safety net to come run back home too, we're attacted on all fronts.
 

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That's because once the money goes so do the women, this is especially true for black men, which is what I always said we are marginalized to fit into a certain sector of America, hence the mentality that everyone even black women tend to be against us, we literally have no safety net to come run back home too, we're attacted on all fronts.
:why: black mothers invest way more in their sins than their daughters. The problem is that they enable them.
 

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That's because once the money goes so do the women, this is especially true for black men, which is what I always said we are marginalized to fit into a certain sector of America, hence the mentality that everyone even black women tend to be against us, we literally have no safety net to come run back home too, we're attacted on all fronts.

Black women feel the same way.:mjcry:
 
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