“Why more black women should marry white men” - The New York Post

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

The okcupid survey is what Brehs always use when they bring up how bw are rated the lowest by other men though.

What isn’t talked about is who bw rated the highest, and that bm were rated low by everyone but bw too. Bm are in the same boat as bw, in that most nonbw don’t prefer them and would rather be with wm but it doesn’t stop Brehs from using these studies as evidence of only bw’s low desirability to others while ignoring their own.

What I found interesting about the OKCupid poll was that Black men view Black/Asian/Latina women as being more or less the same and then looked at WW as a little bit worse.

That makes the most sense to me. Brehs don't actively prefer any single group to an overwhelming degree while every other demographic DOES have really strong likes and dislikes. Basically, we don't reward or penalize race...except a slight penalty to white women.

I'm curious why brehs are race neutral while everyone else is not.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

What I found interesting about the OKCupid poll was that Black men view Black/Asian/Latina women as being more or less the same and then looked at WW as a little bit worse.

That makes the most sense to me. Brehs don't actively prefer any single group to an overwhelming degree while every other demographic DOES have really strong likes and dislikes. Basically, we don't reward or penalize race...except a slight penalty to white women.

I'm curious why brehs are race neutral while everyone else is not.

Honestly it’s not really a good look. Most people of all groups have more preference toward their own. Its natural. I suppose it makes more of a case why the author tells bw not to show a dominant exclusivity/preference toward bm, when bm
aren’t doing the same. He’s telling bw to be as equal opportunity as y’all are. And if y’all see bw the same as y’all do other women, there’s not much of a case for why bw should show that preference to you.

Now, I’m not one to mince my words. I do think it’s a weakness for Brehs to see other races the same as your own, especially when those others actually rate you low. Like y’all are just as unliked as brehettes to those others.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr113.pdf


This is a Five-Year study (by 3 women) of Fertility in people ages 15-44.

It is 17 pages, so I’ll cut to the chase:

On page 3 you’ll see a graph of Women’s Birth Rate by race and Men’s Birth Rate by race.

Black Women are the only race of women in this country who have more babies than the men of their race.

Does that mean Black women are having more IR sex than Black men?
Not necessarily...but it makes you think...

Is it possible.......

Brehs are wearing condoms when they smash WW.

BW are less like to casually swirl. If they date out, there's going to be kids/wedding. Haven't seen as many BW just fukk around with a white dude for fun. They can find better looking brehs for that.

 

[Voice of Reason]

they been at it all night
BLACK MEN LITERALLY Have NO VALUE IN SOCIETY

Most of them are foreign flags I guarantee

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Is it possible.......

Brehs are wearing condoms when they smash WW.

BW are less like to casually swirl. If they date out, there's going to be kids/wedding. Haven't seen as many BW just fukk around with a white dude for fun. They can find better looking brehs for that.

Ww take birth control. Bw actually need to do better and act like other women and get on birth control more often too, especially if they have unprotected sex. Our high OOW numbers with both groups of men, indicate that we aren’t protecting ourselves enough during sex with anyone.

 

[BushidoBrown]

Most of them are foreign flags I guarantee

I cycled thru the speakers bios. Saw one nigerian flag and two american flags in their bios. One of them repping AKA sorority + cherokee creek muskogee

 

[High Art]

they been at it all night
BLACK MEN LITERALLY Have NO VALUE IN SOCIETY

These very same women will wonder why no one wants them or want a serious relationship with them. They seriously risk turning the idea of a black women dating out being equated with divester shyt, which in turn, will make everyone not only side the lady but the guy as well (as black man hating racists - the only good thing to come from this).

 

[CarmelBarbie]

the rate has nothing to do with it. They are still much more likely to date and marry one another more so than anyone else. Hispanic women could easily cite the same stats that black feminists cite word for word about hispanic men, but they never do. I never see educated Hispanic women pushing the "must marry and date white to elevate our status" narrative that black women parrot to the world. If its out there, it's news to me, but I've never seen it.

Does anyone remember any Hispanic women suggesting that SCOTUS Sonia Sotomeyor needs to marry a white man to get to the Supreme Court like we’ve heard from black women with Kitaji Jackson?

you must not comprehend my point. Why would Hispanic women push more Hispanic women to marry out/date out with wm to elevate their race, when many Hispanic women already are dating and marrying out with wm. bw date and marry their own too more than they date out just like Hispanic women. The difference is that Bw have the lowest IR rate of women and minorities, and Hispanic women have a high IR rate, they don’t need to advocate for what they are already doing.

Now I do think it’s silly for bw to do the seminars, books, and articles encouraging bw to date and marry out more. And it’s correct that no other group does it. Asian women don’t have to say a word about marrying/dating wm—they just do it. Hispanic women don’t have to say a word to each other about dating/marrying wm, they just do it. Bw feel the need to talk about this and it’s embarrassing, trust me I don’t like it or agree with it either, it’s not a good look for us and comes off as desperate and silly. But a bm did write that book and this particular article, so I’m not accepting responsibility for his decision lol.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

If you paid attention, I pointed out that he was bisexual earlier in the thread. It's fairly obvious that this bisexual black man isnt FOR straight black men (neither is his wife judging from her background). As we ALL know, leftist black women are currently in an alliance with LGBTQ black men to ruin straight black men's reputation. Lil Nas X is getting more airtime than anyone. This man's music video where black men are twerking in the shower naked is being lauded by black women as "pure art". You got white supremacists laughing at the whole situation. Anyone who calls it out gets accused of "misogynoir" or "toxic black male masculinity".

edit: He was probably asked to write it by some think tank or someone anti BM. The point is that he's not a straight BM so he doesnt care what happens tbh.

your really throwing this allegation out there with no proof? And we’re supposed to just take your word for it because someone told you that? Without receipts I don’t just believe anything y’all say. Sorry.


And Whether he is or isn’t, a bw didn’t write this article, he did. I’m not accepting responsibility for his decision.

This is false. Latinas dont really date out that much despite the fact that overall hispanic men dont make much(black men actually make more money than hispanics). Hispanic men are also heavily involved in crime and gang activity (go to California and see for yourself. There's a Sureno or Nortenos gang everywhere). Despite all this, you don't see a "hispanic men are bums, so let's divest movement". They know that if their men win, they win as well. This is why you're seeing the white house starting to cater to them more on top of their population being large now.

This is why I don’t take y’all word for things. Y’all just say your opinions like it’s fact.

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

We’re posting the New York post as if that isn’t a propaganda arm of Rupert Murdoch’s empire?

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Is it a win for sistas when a white chick is thirsting over a black dude. I mean are we really having this weird ass convo right now wtf

Yes it is. She’s lusting after the product a bw and bm made. You think he’s cute, well he looks like his mommy and daddy, your welcome.

my son looks like the perfect blend of me and his dad. So when people compliment him for being handsome, hell yeah I see it as a win, because my looks and genes contribute to why he looks the way he does.

 

[Turlast]

Honestly it’s not really a good look. Most people of all groups have more preference toward their own. Its natural. I suppose it makes more of a case why the author tells bw not to show a dominant exclusivity/preference toward bm, when bm
aren’t doing the same. He’s telling bw to be as equal opportunity as y’all are. And if y’all see bw the same as y’all do other women, there’s not much of a case for why bw should show that preference to you.

Now, I’m not one to mince my words. I do think it’s a weakness for Brehs to see other races the same as your own, especially when those others actually rate you low. Like y’all are just as unliked as brehettes to those others.

Honestly, I really don't like the idea of a thinkpiece like this being posted on a news site. It just seems like it's asking for trouble.

Outside of that, I don't really care anymore. Growing up, none of us were so called "race loyal". We tried to fukk with every type of girl that we could. From our teens to adulthood. I've been in enough BM spaces/circles to know that most brehs were never preaching race loyalty. Most of them definitely weren't on that SYSBM, "anything but a BW" fukk shyt. It was more of a "I fukk with the women that fukks with me. Black, Asian, Latina, White, whatever" mentality.

I don't vibe with the "white is right" point of view on both ends. I also won't pretend this is a one way street like some either.

All my life, BW have been the most loving women to me. This is why I've never felt comfortable going in on them like a lot of brehs do. I understand that not everyone can say they've had the same experience. I understand that your environment plays a huge role in how you see things. I also understand that some hard truths have to be touched upon when having a discussion.

Now having said that, seeing nikkas tell our own counterparts that they aren't wanted will never not be some weirdo shyt. I don't care what the topic of discussion is.

I've had white people (that I knew) ask me about this. White girl asking me why are BM "always talking shyt about BW" when trying to talk to them. Or how they're always hearing BM declare how they don't fukk with BW. That shyt is deadass embarrassing because I usually didn't know how to answer.

Whenever you see a Cac or another race going back and forth with a BW, what's the insult that they know will often cut deep?

"Your own men don't even want you".

Most people believe something like that comes out of nowhere. It actually comes from them hearing BM say this. Most of us have seen this as well. It's no surprise that other communities see the same shyt and assimilate it into their talking points. Simple to understand.

Between the mentally ill BW that have podcasts saying BM are worthless, as well as the effeminate BM that be having 5-6 hr lives talking about BW's hair, it makes you realize how far gone a lot of Black People are. It's sad...but not worth thinking about.

Some people can have a balanced perspective when speaking on these things as a whole, while many will choose to play the obtuse role instead. Like that OKCupid study you posted. nikkas will focus on the fact that the BW were rated low all while ignoring everything else the study showed.

In the end, both BM and BW need to do what's best for them. If you don't believe your own counterpart is worthy of forming a lifetime commitment with, then those are issues you have to deal with. If you just so happen to find someone that checks all the boxes that happens to be a non black, man or woman, then that's perfectly fine.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Honestly, I really don't like the idea of a thinkpiece like this being posted on a news site. It just seems like it's asking for trouble.

Outside of that, I don't really care anymore. Growing up, none of us were so called "race loyal". We tried to fukk with every type of girl that we could. From our teens to adulthood. I've been in enough BM spaces/circles to know that most brehs were never preaching race loyalty. Most of them definitely weren't on that SYSBM, "anything but a BW" fukk shyt. It was more of a "I fukk with the women that fukks with me. Black, Asian, Latina, White, whatever" mentality.

I don't vibe with the "white is right" point of view on both ends. I also won't pretend this is a one way street like some either.

All my life, BW have been the most loving women to me. This is why I've never felt comfortable going in on them like a lot of brehs do. I understand that not everyone can say they've had the same experience. I understand that your environment plays a huge role in how you see things. I also understand that some hard truths have to be touched upon when having a discussion.

Now having said that, seeing nikkas tell our own counterparts that they aren't wanted will never not be some weirdo shyt. I don't care what the topic of discussion is.

I've had white people (that I knew) ask me about this. White girl asking me why are BM "always talking shyt about BW" when trying to talk to them. Or how they're always hearing BM declare how they don't fukk with BW. That shyt is deadass embarrassing because I usually didn't know how to answer.

Whenever you see a Cac or another race going back and forth with a BW, what's the insult that they know will often cut deep?

"Your own men don't even want you".

Most people believe something like that comes out of nowhere. It actually comes from them hearing BM say this. Most of us have seen this as well. It's no surprise that other communities see the same shyt and assimilate it into their talking points. Simple to understand.

Between the mentally ill BW that have podcasts saying BM are worthless, as well as the effeminate BM that be having 5-6 hr lives talking about BW's hair, it makes you realize how far gone a lot of Black People are. It's sad...but not worth thinking about.

Some people can have a balanced perspective when speaking on these things as a whole, while many will choose to play the obtuse role instead. Like that OKCupid study you posted. nikkas will focus on the fact that the BW were rated low all while ignoring everything else the study showed.

In the end, both BM and BW need to do what's best for them. If you don't believe your own counterpart is worthy of forming a lifetime commitment with, then those are issues you have to deal with. If you just so happen to find someone that checks all the boxes that happens to be a non black, man or woman, then that's perfectly fine.

I appreciate your response. I’ve had that same observations and experiences, in that I noticed at an early age that Brehs do have a mentality to fukk with whoever fukks with them. Bw don’t have that mentality—they want their men and they want their men to show that same exclusivity to them. But it’s out of bw’s control—some probably need to adapt a similar mentality, others can keep focusing primarily on bm. Offline Brehs have always showed me love. Always preferred me and even the ones who were into pawgs wanted me over the pawgs, so I can’t say that bm in my offline life have shown me personally any real disloyalty or praised ww over me. Of course when I was younger I knew Brehs would smut out the white girls, it was what it was. Most of them ended up with bw.

But unfortunately I do think it’s embarrassing the way both sides bash each other in public spaces, it gives ammo to other groups to use against us. White women and white men know the negative shyt Brehs say about us and our desirability and our hair. Just like they know the stuff bw say about Brehs being conquered, weak and not shyt.

we do the job of racists for them—and it’s sad and disgusting on both ends. I was disappointed by comments in this thread but at the same time I had to let Brehs know the reality is that they are in the same boat as us in others eyes. Those others don’t prefer them or us. Now regardless, Brehs can still keep being neutral to those women, but if brehettes take that same attitude then it is what it is. I think both groups should date whoever they want at this point. I actually encourage Brehs and brehettes who have negative experiences or have negative beliefs about their counterparts to date out and be done with it.

I see the writing on the wall for our community. Gen z bm and bw date out far more than any other generation on both sides, and I cant fault them for it because they see the disrespect and unpleasant feelings between both groups just like we do. I’m no longer on the black love shyt I used to be on when I first was posting here. I do only date Brehs and my man is a breh but I no longer police who my girls date or care if Brehs I don’t know, date out.

now I do have a son, and he has shown a preference for white, Latina’s, and light skin/biracial girls. I’m okay with him getting with a biracial/light skin girl. But, I have some financial accounts setup for him when he gets older and I’ve already decided that if he chooses to marry out, he ain’t getting that money and passing that on to an “other”. Foh.

 

[Buck Seventy]

Some of you be mad confusing at times.

People talk about how the media is setting up BW to get their hearts broken by the WM. Cool. It does overly glamorize the union. I can agree with that.

Let's assume all of that was put to a halt tomorrow.

What exactly would change? What are we generally promoting? I'd be lying if I said thecoli is the only GMB section of the net because it's not true. I'm in a lot of BM oriented groups. The ones specifically about dating are all about fukkin, going overseas to fukk, and more fukkin. Marriage gets laughed at. These groups are comprised of BM.

Now granted, this is not a BM only mentality. Plenty of other races only care about that as well. The difference is the degenerates of our race have the louder voices and are almost never shunned. On top of that, those men of other cultures are known for marriage...while we're viewed as the group who won't marry. I can't keep pretending it's only a minority of us with that mentality because it's simply not true.



Whenever I see certain weirdo nikkas say shyt like, "White Women and other women are naturally more feminine than Black Women", I laugh because nikkas really don't understand how they sound. It's saying their parents do a better job at raising their daughters than Black parents do as a whole.

It's like when they say white women and other races of women make better wives, then must mean other races of men make better husbands. Also BM and WW marriages has the highest divorce rates out of all interracial marriage pairings. Whose fault is that if white women make better wives.

 

[CarltonJunior]

Honestly it’s not really a good look. Most people of all groups have more preference toward their own. Its natural. I suppose it makes more of a case why the author tells bw not to show a dominant exclusivity/preference toward bm, when bm
aren’t doing the same. He’s telling bw to be as equal opportunity as y’all are. And if y’all see bw the same as y’all do other women, there’s not much of a case for why bw should show that preference to you.

Now, I’m not one to mince my words. I do think it’s a weakness for Brehs to see other races the same as your own, especially when those others actually rate you low. Like y’all are just as unliked as brehettes to those others.

I think in general we take what we can get. A lot of it has to do with where you were raised and what's the demo there. What's missing in the equation is culture. Asian, hispanic, etc men have the advantage of speaking a different language, and a completely different family dynamic.

If you grew up in poverty in a predominantly black area you're more likely to prefer bw. If you grew up middle class around all white people you're more likely to prefer ww. They don't live that much differently than you do at home usually and speak the same languages

Meanwhile if a spanish speaking man, better yet let's say puerto rican man, was to grow up middle class around white people, he's still more likely to prefer a spanish speaking/puerto rican woman, they have a completely different culture and way of life, and a different language.

Because we speak the same language, it's easier for cacs to infiltrate our culture, and because of this it encourages swirling. Most cacs couldn't infiltrate puerto rican culture if they wanted because theres a language barrier.

Anyway, that's my little 2 cents about that particular issue.