“Why more black women should marry white men” - The New York Post

[Bossino]

What I found interesting about the OKCupid poll was that Black men view Black/Asian/Latina women as being more or less the same and then looked at WW as a little bit worse.

That makes the most sense to me. Brehs don't actively prefer any single group to an overwhelming degree while every other demographic DOES have really strong likes and dislikes. Basically, we don't reward or penalize race...except a slight penalty to white women.

I'm curious why brehs are race neutral while everyone else is not.

Because a lot of black men seek acceptance/care from a partner, in a world that is against you, a partner that is an emotional refuge is invaluable to many bm.

For me it's always been bw or bust. But living in SoCal all my life as a conscious black men with a wider degree of tastes/interests, I've realized I'm not the bulk of bw chosen archetype of bm. The only way I up my chances of finding a bw of similar mindset actually seeking a bm is to go to places with larger black populations, and I'm not really willing to live in the south.

Once I have more downtime, I'll try to hit black events and get into more upscale/intellectual black social spaces. But I've accepted being alone, with the possibility of adoption

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

This is becoming more and more mainstream. But dumb nikkas gonna say "just ignore them" and "where are yall finding this?" all the same.

You can't make someone want something they don't want.

The women who are pro black will be unmoved by articles such as this and will continue having their preference for black men. People who want to date white men because they think that they are going to have less problems in those relationships are going to get their wakeup call and either rethink their thought process and decisions or double down on the wenching.

 

[Coolin']

The thing that really disturbs me about this entire subject is how easily we can find literature of our people bashing/condemning our own people. No other minority group does that.

 

[Wiseborn]

Honestly it’s not really a good look. Most people of all groups have more preference toward their own. Its natural. I suppose it makes more of a case why the author tells bw not to show a dominant exclusivity/preference toward bm, when bm
aren’t doing the same. He’s telling bw to be as equal opportunity as y’all are. And if y’all see bw the same as y’all do other women, there’s not much of a case for why bw should show that preference to you.

Now, I’m not one to mince my words. I do think it’s a weakness for Brehs to see other races the same as your own, especially when those others actually rate you low. Like y’all are just as unliked as brehettes to those others.

I don't think that's true.

For example you take the average Dark skinned IG model type chick Like a Bria Myles or a Six de goddis and they appeal to Black Men not saying that other races wouldn't fukk with them but the colorist argument is basically that they aren't being felt by other races generally and somehow they Blame Brehs for this.

In theory a Black women is basically only really felt by Black Men unless you're an undenaible 10 or Lightskinned.

I think brehettes main issue is the 5,6. & weak 7's get bushed by most dudes wheras a 5,6,&7 non Black chick get wifed all the time.

Not hating but someone posted a Emma Watson thread it's not that shorty is ugly but she's the most random looking white chick in the world. Low key I can see why an average looking Black chick with a narrow behind doesn't get as much love as a random ass non white chick even by Black Men.

 

[Wiseborn]

What I found interesting about the OKCupid poll was that Black men view Black/Asian/Latina women as being more or less the same and then looked at WW as a little bit worse.

That makes the most sense to me. Brehs don't actively prefer any single group to an overwhelming degree while every other demographic DOES have really strong likes and dislikes. Basically, we don't reward or penalize race...except a slight penalty to white women.

I'm curious why brehs are race neutral while everyone else is not.

I think the answer is Black Men are trying to get p*ssy whenever and however you can.

When you really think about it Average gang Black Men and Average gang Black women have probleming getting partners. Handsome gang and clouted Black Men just like really fly Black women can always eat, But average gang has problems which is why #bothsides are down with IR.

You really never see white people or anyone bigging up even Fly Black people as a whole. If white people say that a Black women is beautiful 9 times out of 10 it's a lightbrite or mixed person.

 

[Wiseborn]

Is it possible.......

Brehs are wearing condoms when they smash WW.

BW are less like to casually swirl. If they date out, there's going to be kids/wedding. Haven't seen as many BW just fukk around with a white dude for fun. They can find better looking brehs for that.

It's not really quantifiable but the fact that they have more children outside of their race (and the only ones to do it) shows that Black women ar fukking cacs and either bushing them (doesn't show in the divorce rates) or being bushed.

Again every breh had a curious white girl come around select them to smash smashed then went on their way. (Shout out to Sarah Palin) It's probably the same way for Black women they go to the PWI be the only Black girl at the party get smutted out and sent on their way.

Again not much difference between Men and women.

 

[Wiseborn]

Ww take birth control. Bw actually need to do better and act like other women and get on birth control more often too, especially if they have unprotected sex. Our high OOW numbers with both groups of men, indicate that we aren’t protecting ourselves enough during sex with anyone.

Why is that?

I don't want to get too personal but Condoms is optional with Black women ( I really don't fukk with white women enough to make a comparision) i think I herd chicks say it feels better to them too.

I legit think that shooting up a club doesn't defenitely get chicks pregnant. I know that it does but again I was brought up to beleive that if you shoot up the club that she's almost defenitely getting pregnant based on my experience I think that if you shoot up a club you might get her pregnant.

I never heard a chick say Go Crazy I'm on BC It just happens and usually they're surprised when you actually shoot up the club.

Now I can say that that pull out game can be on point but it's an age thing and it's annoying.

 

[cole phelps]

The thing that really disturbs me about this entire subject is how easily we can find literature of our people bashing/condemning our own people. No other minority group does that.

Yeah they do Asians especially do this all the time

 

[Nikki_04]

Just a bunch of uninformed generalizations being thrown around to see what sticks and gets daps.

 

[Wiseborn]

I appreciate your response. I’ve had that same observations and experiences, in that I noticed at an early age that Brehs do have a mentality to fukk with whoever fukks with them. Bw don’t have that mentality—they want their men and they want their men to show that same exclusivity to them. But it’s out of bw’s control—some probably need to adapt a similar mentality, others can keep focusing primarily on bm. Offline Brehs have always showed me love. Always preferred me and even the ones who were into pawgs wanted me over the pawgs, so I can’t say that bm in my offline life have shown me personally any real disloyalty or praised ww over me. Of course when I was younger I knew Brehs would smut out the white girls, it was what it was. Most of them ended up with bw.

But unfortunately I do think it’s embarrassing the way both sides bash each other in public spaces, it gives ammo to other groups to use against us. White women and white men know the negative shyt Brehs say about us and our desirability and our hair. Just like they know the stuff bw say about Brehs being conquered, weak and not shyt.

we do the job of racists for them—and it’s sad and disgusting on both ends. I was disappointed by comments in this thread but at the same time I had to let Brehs know the reality is that they are in the same boat as us in others eyes. Those others don’t prefer them or us. Now regardless, Brehs can still keep being neutral to those women, but if brehettes take that same attitude then it is what it is. I think both groups should date whoever they want at this point. I actually encourage Brehs and brehettes who have negative experiences or have negative beliefs about their counterparts to date out and be done with it.

I see the writing on the wall for our community. Gen z bm and bw date out far more than any other generation on both sides, and I cant fault them for it because they see the disrespect and unpleasant feelings between both groups just like we do. I’m no longer on the black love shyt I used to be on when I first was posting here. I do only date Brehs and my man is a breh but I no longer police who my girls date or care if Brehs I don’t know, date out.

now I do have a son, and he has shown a preference for white, Latina’s, and light skin/biracial girls. I’m okay with him getting with a biracial/light skin girl. But, I have some financial accounts setup for him when he gets older and I’ve already decided that if he chooses to marry out, he ain’t getting that money and passing that on to an “other”. Foh.

When he gets older let Lil Man know this. He marries a toubob no harm no foul but that bread stays in the Black community. The bread will be donated to some Black charity or given to a cousin.

If I have a kid I'm doing the same thing especially if a have a Son a Man has to make his own way regardless.

 

[Wiseborn]

I don’t know, I can see it, but bw receive negative attention all their lives too. They still are most attracted and mostly prefer bm over other men. I honestly think Brehs just don’t care whether those women care for them on the same level or not. I also don’t know if Brehs are truly aware. All this thread I saw Brehs speaking on how bw are rated lowest and most undesirable, almost as if y’all didnt see yourselves in that equation too. When the reality is that bm are in the same boat, but the focus is often only on bw’s low desirability. It leads me to believe Brehs aren’t aware as much of how these women see them as a group or they don’t care as much.

and my argument is if most see you negatively, including your own, but whereas those other groups don’t prefer you, and rank you last, but your own prefers you and ranks you first, what exactly are Brehs getting out of just seeing everyone as a viable mate even those that really don’t fukk with you like you think they do? Lol. Especially being that bm/ww have the highest divorce rate of all unions anyway.


Honestly I really just think that most other groups also are interested in preservation and we aren’t as much. I think that is one area where there is clear weakness in our community. Even without financial and cultural inheritance to pass on, the fact that there is not a strong interest in wanting to preserve blackness by seeking mates that are black like us is a weakness. We don’t care if we breed ourselves out. Whites do. You can see it in the policies they enact, the strategies, etc, etc. that’s missing in us.

Like I said I’m not one to mince words. Black people as a whole tend to be more passive, accepting, and don’t have as much sense of preservation as other groups. And it shows. I do blame black parents for this partially. Other parents aren’t as accepting of IR marriages, they pressure their kids into marrying those who are like them. Black parents may talk shyt, but we open our homes and our arms to other kids other race spouse. It’s mind boggling because we know no one fukks with us, everyone hates us, and we know our status in this country, and yet we mixing and matching with individuals of the very groups that don’t even care for us? It’s weak. And you don’t get ahead or get what you want by being weak. We don’t have the savagery that we need. And that’s why I’ve given up on our community ever progressing. It is what it is.

The most we could do at this point is put more pressure and standards on keeping it black, so that perhaps our kids will. But even that won’t happen so….

I talked about that upthread. The Haitians slaughtered everyone who opposed them during the revolution. They stopped too soon. they massacred white people who were not slave owners in Santiago Dominican Republic then stopped.

They also spared the half cac c00ns who sold them out several times before, The Asians and white would've slaughtered them. But the merciful forgiving Black people let them live then them same c00ns turned around and made a deal with the French who they just deaeated.

Time and Time again Black people did kick some ass but they always always gave passes to cacs and c00ns then got surprised when they turned on them again.

 

[Wiseborn]

Because those black women want more black women to date out. they see wm as the solution. I can’t really explain the rationale other than they see other women dating out with wm at much higher rates, and they want that for bw too, because they believe there are benefits that bw are missing out on that those other women get. I also think black women talk too much and make our issues public whereas other groups are more private.

Now, I don’t know what’s taking place behind closed doors in Hispanic households. As a collective group, they are big on family and culture, they likely want to preserve it even with the short comings observed in their own.

I don’t think black people have the same sense of preservation as other groups. And with our status in this country, I think Bw are trying to jump ship and latch on to wm, hoping that it lifts them up. But it won’t. Like I said in another post, I don’t see our community ever progressing or more healthy functional relationships developing between bw and bm in the future so it just is what it is.

Exactly, Turns out there's an Asian manosphere, never heard about till a Black dude in the white manosphere posted an Asian girl responding a clowning Asian Manosphere dudes.

The Asian bedwench used the same talking points that Black wenches use. The point is had dude not posted that I wouldn't know that there was beef between Asians and that they had a problem with Asian wenching and that Asian chicks were wenching out of spite and definance just like Black wenches.

All that shyt is kept quiet.

 

[mamba]

Why is that?

I don't want to get too personal but Condoms is optional with Black women ( I really don't fukk with white women enough to make a comparision) i think I herd chicks say it feels better to them too.

I legit think that shooting up a club doesn't defenitely get chicks pregnant. I know that it does but again I was brought up to beleive that if you shoot up the club that she's almost defenitely getting pregnant based on my experience I think that if you shoot up a club you might get her pregnant.

I never heard a chick say Go Crazy I'm on BC It just happens and usually they're surprised when you actually shoot up the club.

Now I can say that that pull out game can be on point but it's an age thing and it's annoying.

In my experience, I’ve never been asked to wrap up by a Black woman.

 

[Wiseborn]

In my experience, I’ve never been asked to wrap up by a Black woman.

I don't either. Maybe every once in a while a chick will ask for a condom for the first time but that's it.

That being said I'm over 40 and I don't think 40 year old dudes wear condoms generally.

 

[blase_chic]

Black women aren't loyal yall say... The only reason why black women aren't marrying wm is bc wm don't want us yall say...

Hmmm... let's compare the opinions of BW on this topic (LSA) to the bs being spewed here and see where the truth really lies.

NY post: Why more black women should consider marrying white men



Pawgers need to stop projecting their worship of white skin on to us. Bw still overwhelming prefer to keep it black and don't think the wm and his offspring is anything worth chasing after. That's on yall.