“Why more black women should marry white men” - The New York Post

[filial_piety]

It is fascinating how people are always overlooking these facts when they write these articles. It is like they don't even consider white and other non black women as potential obstacle.

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They, (and black feminists who push this narrative) purposely leave this out

WM with all of this perceived status and desirability don't live on a planet with just BW....they have options with WW, Asian Women, and White-Hispanic women who are statistically in a better position than BW are, with less stigma, and more to their physical liking.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

so black women choosing a white man is win for white women ? sine they are the one that birth and raise white men right. of course you and no black women would ever say that dumb shyt

this chick really is trying spin some bullshyt talking point she got from some mentally ill darkskin (youtube femcel ) that white men don't even believe

Travis Scott/Reggie Bush looking nikka with a little cute looking pawg and two little molto brats in toe walking into the olive garden middle age cac see's looking on with combination of
chalk another up for the white man








this lipstick ally hoes are some of the crazy is bytches posting on the net

Yes. Both groups place white people on pedestals, seeing them as a solution or escape. I see Brehs even in TLR saying they date out because bw are xyz and WW aren’t. Bw do the same when they say that wm are the answer to their dating woes.

It’s giving them more credit than they deserve, and it’s weird. Every time a brehette lusts after a wm or says he’s the better man she is praising the product a ww helped make. Every time a breh lusts over a ww, he is praising the Wm’s seed—something a wm made.

It’s what makes these arguments about racism and how much we hate cacs silly, when some of us be in other spaces lusting, dating, marrying and have kids with them.

 

[blase_chic]

Yes. Both groups place white people on pedestals, seeing them as a solution or escape. I see Brehs even in TLR saying they date out because bw are xyz and WW aren’t. Bw do the same when they say that wm are the answer to their dating woes.

It’s giving them more credit than they deserve, and it’s weird. Every time a brehette lusts after a wm or says he’s the better man she is praising the product a ww helped make. Every time a breh lusts over a ww, he is praising the Wm’s seed—something a wm made.

It’s what makes these arguments about racism and how much we hate cacs silly, when some of us be in other spaces lusting, dating, marrying and have kids with them.

All of this.

 

[Will Ross]

Yes. Both groups place white people on pedestals, seeing them as a solution or escape. I see Brehs even in TLR saying they date out because bw are xyz and WW aren’t. Bw do the same when they say that wm are the answer to their dating woes.

It’s giving them more credit than they deserve, and it’s weird. Every time a brehette lusts after a wm or says he’s the better man she is praising the product a ww helped make. Every time a breh lusts over a ww, he is praising the Wm’s seed—something a wm made.

It’s what makes these arguments about racism and how much we hate cacs silly, when some of us be in other spaces lusting, dating, marrying and have kids with them.

Name the white woman that we have put on the pedestal? We are pretty much equal in our treatment of women.

 

[Still Benefited]

My point is the average Black Man who looks like the average Black Man has a better shot of getting married to a non Black Person than the Average Black woman who looks like the average Black woman does.

It's low key fukked up but it's the literally talking point for colorism, That phenotypical Black women aren't seen as beautiful to non Black people (and some Black People)

I only said that because say what you want Candance Owens looks like the average Black woman. In Fact there's a good chance that she'd be wifed to a Black dude if she had the appropriate 50 inches of ass.

That's the main reason women are running down to my location to see surgeons. My IG is flooded with Surgery ads.

Not really a fair statement because we havent seen if black women are willing to stoop as low. Could the average black woman pull the male equivelant of a white beach whale? I dont think they would have any problem.

My question ie why do these divestor convos always skip over latino men? When they would be the most adjacent to black men. A black woman is more likely to find a mexican or peurto rican attractive than a white man. But these convos always jump to white which is just odd. As odd as it all is in general.

Lets you know there is an agenda specefically aimed to guide black women towards white men. Probably either directly related to resources,or because they know thats what would piss black men off the most.Or these divestors dont feel they can go toe to toe with latinas.

I dont condone any of it regardless,male or female. But at least black men dont look as desperate with campaigning. And we dont duck any race of men. We have the confidence we can take them all their women if given the chance

Maybe divestors will build their confidence on the backs of the white man. Or should I say on their backs for the white man#IfYourNotAlreadyMarriedItsTooLate

 

[Hitchens]

Wm and ww have the lowest IR marriage rate according to stats. They overwhelmingly marry each other more than any other group.

Whites have a lower ir rate because they are the largest racial group. Meaning even if every Latina and Asian woman were to marry a white men, white men would still have one of the lowest ir rate. Whites are a large group they have the ability to absorb multiple minority groups and still maintain majority status.

 

[blase_chic]

Whites have a lower ir rate because they are the largest racial group. Meaning even if every Latina and Asian woman were to marry a white men, white men would still have one of the lowest ir rate. Whites are a large group they have the ability to absorb multiple minority groups and still maintain majority status.

You can reference stats that measure which race and gender marry out as a whole, or the percentage of wm/ww who marry ir and in both cases, yts are still more likely to marry their own.

Legacy, race, and yt supremacy is paramount to their existence.

 

[Piff Perkins]

I thought this was an April Fools day joke until I initially clicked and saw that the author has been on this wave for a minute. We talk about this on a weekly basis and yes I am going to preface this (again) by stating MOST black women don't hate black men, and most don't even know what "divest" even means because it's such an online thing.

We've gone from deliberate social attempts to dissuade black marriage to returning to supporting marriage, but only with white men. Pretty interesting shift, and the only surprising thing is that this isn't coming from a black woman or gay black man. It's coming from a straight black man, who is married to a black woman. A successful black man, married to a successful black woman (she's a Stanford professor of psychology). You know who has a decent marriage success rate? Successful people, economically. Like this author and his wife. You know who has bad marriage success rates? Poor and working class people - two classes black people are disproportionately members of.

It's important not to pathologize blackness IMO because it often comes from a one sided perspective. In reality, poor and working class white people have high divorce rates too. Not to say poor or struggling people shouldn't get married, or that there are benefits to marriage. There are a LOT of benefits and more black people should get married. But we need to be smarter about who we date. Who we're allowed to nut in us (if you're a woman), and who we're nutting in (if you're a man). Who we're marrying. Because right now a lot of people are making idiotic decisions that ruin them economically and socially.

 

[filial_piety]

Not really a fair statement because we havent seen if black women are willing to stoop as low. Could the average black woman pull the male equivelant of a white beach whale? I dont think they would have any problem.

My question ie why do these divestor convos always skip over latino men? When they would be the most adjacent to black men. A black woman is more likely to find a mexican or peurto rican attractive than a white man. But these convos always jump to white which is just odd. As odd as it all is in general.

Lets you know there is an agenda specefically aimed to guide black women towards white men. Probably either directly related to resources,or because they know thats what would piss black men off the most.Or these divestors dont feel they can go toe to toe with latinas.

I dont condone any of it regardless,male or female. But at least black men dont look as desperate with campaigning. And we dont duck any race of men. We have the confidence we can take them all their women if given the chance

Maybe divestors will build their confidence on the backs of the white man. Or should I say on their backs for the white man#IfYourNotAlreadyMarriedItsTooLate

Interestingly enough...you never see think-pieces, advocacy groups and recruiting efforts by sociologists, psychologists, and dating experts to discuss why hispanic women should seek out white men, when hispanic men are pretty much the same boat that black men are with little statistical difference.

I never see anyone trying to convince more of them to date interracially...not by outsiders, or upwardly mobile women of their own race...I only see it amongst blacks and black women.

 

[HARLEM AL]

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr113.pdf


This is a Five-Year study (by 3 women) of Fertility in people ages 15-44.

It is 17 pages, so I’ll cut to the chase:

On page 3 you’ll see a graph of Women’s Birth Rate by race and Men’s Birth Rate by race.

Black Women are the only race of women in this country who have more babies than the men of their race.

Does that mean Black women are having more IR sex than Black men?
Not necessarily...but it makes you think...

DON DEMARCOOOOO

 

[MisterMajesty]

I agree.

Gen Z black women have this weird schizophrenic thought process where they feel they can be pro-black while also fukking & marrying white people.

They think they can rage against the white power structure while also bowing down to it & joining forces with it

in 30 years - theres gonna be "black men" in America that look like Alexandre Pato

Of all things. The batman illustrated this best with that catwoman scene .

 

[HARLEM AL]

I’m going to say this….. I think BW would marry WM. The issue is would white men date them.

I’m all for BW dating who they want.

 

[Jazzy B.]

Huh? I actually said more or less that yes wm do have to propose to bw, in order for more marriages to take place. That doesn’t necessarily mean that if more wm and bw did date each other that wm wouldn’t propose—maybe more would but on the other hand maybe some would and some wouldn’t, or most wouldn’t. I don’t know.

We know it aint happening like that because the highest intermarriage group is white and Hispanics.

Statements like "expand your options" "date white men" are disingenuous because it's always from a position that Black Women are the only group of women available for white men and as if White, Hispanic and Asian women don't exist and aren't also in competition for the same men.

For this to work Black Women have to hold the highest value for their buyer (white men) compared to other currencies (white, Hispanic, Asian women)

Black Women are the weakest compared to the others. So finding marriage is still going to be difficult regardless.

White Men deciding not to marry Black Woman isn't happening because Black Women say "no I'm only interested in brehs". It's happening because The Average white man is not interested in Black Women in the first place.

This is more likely to still leave black women alone, single and without a marriage.

 

[filial_piety]

We know it aint happening like that because the highest intermarriage group is white and Hispanics.

Statements like "expand your options" "date white men" are disingenuous because it's always from a position that Black Women are the only group of women available for white men and as if White, Hispanic and Asian women don't exist and aren't also in competition for the same men.

For this to work Black Women have to hold the highest value for their buyer (white men) compared to other currencies (white, Hispanic, Asian women)

Black Women are the weakest compared to the others. So finding marriage is still going to be difficult regardless.

White Men deciding not to marry Black Woman isn't happening because Black Women say "no I'm only interested in brehs". It's happening because The Average white man is not interested in Black Women in the first place.

This is more likely to still leave black women alone, single and without a marriage.

they hate to hear the facts

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

A black, heterosexual looking man wrote this btw.

He's bisexual. I actually know someone who went to school with him at Harvard.

Huh? I actually said more or less that yes wm do have to propose to bw, in order for more marriages to take place. That doesn’t necessarily mean that if more wm and bw did date each other that wm wouldn’t propose—maybe more would but on the other hand maybe some would and some wouldn’t, or most wouldn’t. I don’t know.

I do wish that dating/relationship stats were measured more so that we could see how many bw date wm and how many of those relationships lead to marriage, and same for bm. It would at least make these discussions more solid. The only relationships being tracked are marriages. Who’s having sex with who isn’t being tracked either.

truthfully I don’t like wm being advocated as the ultimate solution anyway. And I detest articles that say as much. I think the author is Gen x. He came up in a time where Gen x bw were making those abc specials about not being able to find a good bm. So he offered that as a solution then, and he offers it as a solution now. But bw now are on other stuff tbh.

as i said in another post, research has shown that a lot of bw are choosing to remain single. They would rather be single than marry men they don’t want (black or white).

But if a Brehette really wants to get married and have kids, I advocate for her to make that a priority, but I do think she needs to marry a man who she is compatible with, attracted to and they should be equally yoked. If they can’t marry under those circumstances then I advocate for them to stay single and be okay with that.

Can you show me an article like this for any other communiy? Do you know the outrage that would ensue if a white man wrote an article saying "why white women should date black men" for a major news paper like the new york times. They would have thrown a riot. Actually, something similar happened during the willmington riots of the late 1800s. Alexander Manley (who was mixed) said that he had a white girlfriend, these white men encited a whole riot over it and burned the town to the ground. We lost a prospering city because of that.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Interestingly enough...you never see think-pieces, advocacy groups and recruiting efforts by sociologists, psychologists, and dating experts to discuss why hispanic women should seek out white men, when hispanic men are pretty much the same boat that black men are with little statistical difference.

I never see anyone trying to convince more of them to date interracially...not by outsiders, or upwardly mobile women of their own race...I only see it amongst blacks and black women.

We actually make more money than them AND a lot of gangs on the west coast are mostly Mexican. You don't see no one telling Mexican women to divest though. Real interesting right?