“Why more black women should marry white men” - The New York Post

[CarmelBarbie]

This is one of the most indigenous sayings going around right now.

It assumes that White Men on average are propositioning and proposing to Black Women but Black Women are saying no out of "race loyalty" to Black Men.

When in truth and reality white men on average aren't doing that with Black Women in the first place.

The same White Men who label Black Women as "angry"
It's funny whenever you see a Black Woman use that that term/saying they never have a visible white husband

Huh? I actually said more or less that yes wm do have to propose to bw, in order for more marriages to take place. That doesn’t necessarily mean that if more wm and bw did date each other that wm wouldn’t propose—maybe more would but on the other hand maybe some would and some wouldn’t, or most wouldn’t. I don’t know.

I do wish that dating/relationship stats were measured more so that we could see how many bw date wm and how many of those relationships lead to marriage, and same for bm. It would at least make these discussions more solid. The only relationships being tracked are marriages. Who’s having sex with who isn’t being tracked either.

truthfully I don’t like wm being advocated as the ultimate solution anyway. And I detest articles that say as much. I think the author is Gen x. He came up in a time where Gen x bw were making those abc specials about not being able to find a good bm. So he offered that as a solution then, and he offers it as a solution now. But bw now are on other stuff tbh.

as i said in another post, research has shown that a lot of bw are choosing to remain single. They would rather be single than marry men they don’t want (black or white).

But if a Brehette really wants to get married and have kids, I advocate for her to make that a priority, but I do think she needs to marry a man who she is compatible with, attracted to and they should be equally yoked. If they can’t marry under those circumstances then I advocate for them to stay single and be okay with that.

 

[blase_chic]

Here's the thing :

All these forced arguments about wm not marrying bw only reinforces the notion that wm as a collective believe in the preservation of their race and legacies as a means to uphold their supremacy as opposed to the bm who proudly boast about marrying the white man's daughters.

It's a loss for bm no matter how you slice it because it all leads back to the idea that the wm's DNA is superior (since wm are the only ones able to produce the pawgs yall fawn over).

 

[Wiseborn]

Huh? I actually said more or less that yes wm do have to propose to bw, in order for more marriages to take place. That doesn’t necessarily mean that if more wm and bw did date each other that wm wouldn’t propose—maybe more would but on the other hand maybe some would and some wouldn’t, or most wouldn’t. I don’t know.

I do wish that dating/relationship stats were measured more so that we could see how many bw date wm and how many of those relationships lead to marriage, and same for bm. It would at least make these discussions more solid. The only relationships being tracked are marriages. Who’s having sex with who isn’t being tracked either.

truthfully I don’t like wm being advocated as the ultimate solution anyway. And I detest articles that say as much. I think the author is Gen x. He came up in a time where Gen x bw were making those abc specials about not being able to find a good bm. So he offered that as a solution then, and he offers it as a solution now. But bw now are on other stuff tbh.

as i said in another post, research has shown that a lot of bw are choosing to remain single. They would rather be single than marry men they don’t want (black or white).

But if a Brehette really wants to get married and have kids, I advocate for her to make that a priority, but I do think she needs to marry a man who she is compatible with, attracted to and they should be equally yoked. If they can’t marry under those circumstances then I advocate for them to stay single and be okay with that.

The one thing I'd say is that for women living that single understand that you will have equality with Men meaning You will work until you die like a Man does.

Also a chick who is married to a dude that she;s "not in love" won't fukk him much.

But that same brehette will fukk many dudes that she doesn't like that much.

Like all singles you date, get horny and smash a people that you find out that you don't actually like or respect.

I think a big part of marriage is women not wanting equality. because just like a 50 year old 50K a year 50 pounds overweight dude might end up spending signficant time in Sosua that same 50/50/50 chick will spend significant time in Caberete.


I remember seeing a Veteran chick hanging around Paco's (a restaurant in a tourist area of Santo Domingo) chopping it up with brehs a lot who were on the prowl for Dominican whores. She's a cool chick but it was low key sad at the same time.

 

[Taadow]

Here's the thing :

All these forced arguments about wm not marrying bw only reinforces the notion that wm as a collective believe in the preservation of their race and legacies as a means to uphold their supremacy as opposed to the bm who proudly boast about marrying the white man's daughters.

It's a loss for bm no matter how you slice it because it all leads back to the idea that the wm's DNA is superior (since wm are the only ones able to produce the pawgs yall fawn over).

^This is “the thing”, everybody.

Lol

 

[Coolin']

I think we have to accept things for what they are. Neither group feels incentivized to marry/commit.

There is a lot of white pedestal placing for both groups. A lot of competition between both groups. And honestly a lot of unfortunate feelings about the other, while seeing whites as a savior/better alternative. This is what cacs intended to happen.

It’s interesting how, and I quote Kevin Samuel’s, in the 1960s, our marriage rate was around 60%. Every other race, today, is around 50% or above, while we’re sitting at 30. It’s embarrassing.

 

[Turlast]

Some of you be mad confusing at times.

People talk about how the media is setting up BW to get their hearts broken by the WM. Cool. It does overly glamorize the union. I can agree with that.

Let's assume all of that was put to a halt tomorrow.

What exactly would change? What are we generally promoting? I'd be lying if I said thecoli is the only GMB section of the net because it's not true. I'm in a lot of BM oriented groups. The ones specifically about dating are all about fukkin, going overseas to fukk, and more fukkin. Marriage gets laughed at. These groups are comprised of BM.

Now granted, this is not a BM only mentality. Plenty of other races only care about that as well. The difference is the degenerates of our race have the louder voices and are almost never shunned. On top of that, those men of other cultures are known for marriage...while we're viewed as the group who won't marry. I can't keep pretending it's only a minority of us with that mentality because it's simply not true.

Here's the thing :

All these forced arguments about wm not marrying bw only reinforces the notion that wm as a collective believe in the preservation of their race and legacies as a means to uphold their supremacy as opposed to the bm who proudly boast about marrying the white man's daughters.

It's a loss for bm no matter how you slice it because it all leads back to the idea that the wm's DNA is superior (since wm are the only ones able to produce the pawgs yall fawn over).

Whenever I see certain weirdo nikkas say shyt like, "White Women and other women are naturally more feminine than Black Women", I laugh because nikkas really don't understand how they sound. It's saying their parents do a better job at raising their daughters than Black parents do as a whole.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

The one thing I'd say is that for women living that single understand that you will have equality with Men meaning You will work until you die like a Man does.

Many women (even those married) are doing the bolded, especially brehettes.

Also a chick who is married to a dude that she;s "not in love" won't fukk him much.

But that same brehette will fukk many dudes that she doesn't like that much.

Like all singles you date, get horny and smash a people that you find out that you don't actually like or respect.

I think you’re looking at this from the lens of a man. Women don’t operate like y’all. Outside of sex workers, women aren’t having sex with men they don’t sexually desire or like, in big numbers. Women are more likely to be celibate and use their toy than they are to have ons with a man who they don’t want/sexually desire when they get horny. Which is why some women go long stretches without fukking despite the numerous men who want to fukk them.

I think a big part of marriage is women not wanting equality. because just like a 50 year old 50K a year 50 pounds overweight dude might end up spending signficant time in Sosua that same 50/50/50 chick will spend significant time in Caberete.

I remember seeing a Veteran chick hanging around Paco's (a restaurant in a tourist area of Santo Domingo) chopping it up with brehs a lot who were on the prowl for Dominican whores. She's a cool chick but it was low key sad at the same time.

I don’t disagree but that’s only when marriage provides benefits/incentives to said women. As the author indicated in the article, many times black women are marrying men they are mismatched with, so they aren’t getting the benefits/incentives that often comes with marriage. So they end up getting a divorce because of it. In our community bw nor bm see enough benefit/incentives to marry just anybody. That probably is why our marriage rate is low.

 

[Xavier]

Was trying to post them but idk how to upload

LSA transplants and their beta cosigners are on here doing S.I.G.N language jujitsu and Simone Biles mental gymnastics when stats are right in front of them. 30 seconds to Google search

Black women have more biracial children than black men by birth, yet we’re supposed to believe they engage in less interracial sexual interactions than black men. Ok

Black men are MEN. Men do the proposing, mostly, which is why our marriage rates appear higher. Non black men are not proposing, they’re using black women as FWB, jump offs and making them single mothers too

Black women appear to be the most race loyal only because they have the worst outcomes (a higher difference in children with men outside their racial group compared to other women, despite having the least number of marriage proposal from any men).
Black men need to take their head out the sand, too much data out there to be ignorant and obtuse.

 

[Hitchens]

Here's the thing :

All these forced arguments about wm not marrying bw only reinforces the notion that wm as a collective believe in the preservation of their race and legacies as a means to uphold their supremacy as opposed to the bm who proudly boast about marrying the white man's daughters.

It's a loss for bm no matter how you slice it because it all leads back to the idea that the wm's DNA is superior (since wm are the only ones able to produce the pawgs yall fawn over).

This isn't true. Just because white men are very discriminating against black women when it comes to dating doesn't mean he discriminates against non white women in general. A significant portion of white men are open to dating Asian and Latina women.

 

[Hitchens]

your math still doesn't add up, because it's purposely absent of the white women that black women would have to compete against. To put it mildly, black women are not the only women on the planet. In this type of environment, white men still have more options than just dating, marrying or baby mommying (yes this happens as well) BW.

Besides, there isn't a surplus of available, economically viable astute single white men hanging around waiting to get married. Now there might be some white men available to them, but outside of their perceived social status based on their race, they really don't have much of anything to offer anyone.

And there are still more white women than men in the US, and then add to boot the number of Asian and white-hispanic women that are also in competition for their affections that are socially and aesthetically more to their liking than black women and it's an uphill battle for them imo.

Now, I'm not trying to dissuade anyone--date and fuk who you want...I know i have and will...but the facts are the facts.

As for suggestions as to what black women should do...I'll say this...this isn't really a serious problem because despite what the news is saying, most black women do not have a college degree, and most make significantly less than the average black man.

There is a very small number (I wouldn't even call it a percentage) of BW who are even close to Kataji's level.

impo you can find someone of the same race if you put the effort into doing so...I keep hearing black women outnumber this...and black women outnumber that...and blah blah...but I'm in grad school now (at an ivy that is very WASPy) and YES, I'm the only black man in there...but my wife is black....reason being that I went looking in black spaces for them...I didn't go to work looking to wife up a white woman (nothing wrong with that btw) and I didn't go seminars and engagements conferences looking for them...I took the time and went into black spaces to congregate and hang out with other black people and it worked.

Usually when I hear BW say that they can't meet BM in their social spaces it's because they aren't looking for black social spaces to begin with.

It is fascinating how people are always overlooking these facts when they write these articles. It is like they don't even consider white and other non black women as potential obstacle.[/QUOTE]

 

[CarmelBarbie]

LSA transplants and their beta cosigners are on here doing S.I.G.N language jujitsu and Simone Biles mental gymnastics when stats are right in front of them. 30 seconds to Google search

Black women have more biracial children than black men by birth, yet we’re supposed to believe they engage in less interracial sexual interactions than black men. Ok

Black men are MEN. Men do the proposing, mostly, which is why our marriage rates appear higher. Non black men are not proposing, they’re using black women as FWB, jump offs and making them single mothers too

Black women appear to be the most race loyal only because they have the worst outcomes (a higher difference in children with men outside their racial group compared to other women, despite having the least number of marriage proposal from any men).
Black men need to take their head out the sand, too much data out there to be ignorant and obtuse.

Actually, I’m not sure if your talking about me or not, when you talk about agents, considering I don’t fukk with LSA. But what I’ve said is that neither group is loyal to the other. The birth rate only measures how many babies are being born. Not how much sex is being had. But Babies do indicate that one is engaging in unprotected sex.

Sex rates between bw and wm, and bm and nonbw aren’t measured. The same way bw use the marriage rate to point out how many of you date out, even though marriage is not the same as dating, and dating doesn’t always lead to marriage (take a look at our marriage rates for instance) you all are using the birth rate to determine who is having sex with who more, despite the fact that sex doesn’t always lead to babies.

Your argument that men do the proposing and that’s the only reason bw aren’t married to wm more even though they sleep with them a lot, could also be applied to the babies: women do the birthing. They can take birth control to prevent pregnancies from happening. They can also decide to keep or terminate pregnancies if they do get pregnant. One could argue that just because bw are more likely to have a wm baby OOW and WW are not as willing to have biracial babies OOW does not mean ww aren’t having just as much sex with bm, the ww just don’t want to have half black babies as much as bw. See how that works?

Really we can’t verify who has sex with who or who dates who more, because neither rate is being measured. What we can determine from your marriage rates to ww and from bw’s birth rates to wm, is that neither group is loyal. The fact that bm propose to ww is indicative of that, and the fact that bw birth wm babies is indicative of that.

What y’all choose to do with that information is on you. If y’all decide that because some bw are disloyal wenches there’s no need to feel guilt about dating out yourselves that’s fine, likewise if brehettes decide that because some Brehs are disloyal bucks, there’s no need to feel guilt about dating out that’s fine.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

This isn't true. Just because white men are very discriminating against black women when it comes to dating doesn't mean he discriminates against non white women in general. A significant portion of white men are open to dating Asian and Latina women.

Wm and ww have the lowest IR marriage rate according to stats. They overwhelmingly marry each other more than any other group.

 

[Yzak]

LSA transplants and their beta cosigners are on here doing S.I.G.N language jujitsu and Simone Biles mental gymnastics when stats are right in front of them. 30 seconds to Google search

Black women have more biracial children than black men by birth, yet we’re supposed to believe they engage in less interracial sexual interactions than black men. Ok

Black men are MEN. Men do the proposing, mostly, which is why our marriage rates appear higher. Non black men are not proposing, they’re using black women as FWB, jump offs and making them single mothers too

Black women appear to be the most race loyal only because they have the worst outcomes (a higher difference in children with men outside their racial group compared to other women, despite having the least number of marriage proposal from any men).
Black men need to take their head out the sand, too much data out there to be ignorant and obtuse.

When we point out how non-BM use them for sex, they twist our words like we're mocking them. A lot of them genuinely think Black men just want to screw Black women over.

 

[GR13]

Here's the thing :

All these forced arguments about wm not marrying bw only reinforces the notion that wm as a collective believe in the preservation of their race and legacies as a means to uphold their supremacy as opposed to the bm who proudly boast about marrying the white man's daughters.

It's a loss for bm no matter how you slice it because it all leads back to the idea that the wm's DNA is superior (since wm are the only ones able to produce the pawgs yall fawn over).

^This is “the thing”, everybody.

Lol

so black women choosing a white man is win for white women ? sine they are the one that birth and raise white men right. of course you and no black women would ever say that dumb shyt

this chick really is trying spin some bullshyt talking point she got from some mentally ill darkskin (youtube femcel ) that white men don't even believe

Travis Scott/Reggie Bush looking nikka with a little cute pawg and two little molto brats in toe walking into the olive garden middle age cac see's looking on with combination of
chalk another win up for the white man








this lipstick ally hoes are some of the crazy is bytches posting on the net

 

[blase_chic]

so black women choosing a white man is win for white women ? sine they are the one that birth and raise white men right. of course you and no black women would ever say that dumb shyt

this chick really is trying spin some bullshyt talking point she got from some mentally ill darkskin (youtube femcel ) that white men don't even believe

Travis Scott/Reggie Bush looking nikka with a little cute looking pawg and two little molto brats in toe walking into the olive garden middle age cac see's looking on with combination of
chalk another up for the white man








this lipstick ally hoes are some of the crazy is bytches posting on the net

To answer your question, yes, the reverse is indeed a win for ww. White supremacy reigns... supreme.

The rest of your post is a bit too emotionally charged for me so I won't bother addressing the remaining rant.