“Why more black women should marry white men” - The New York Post

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@Houston911 this is spot on. The majority of people that marry out try to hide behind the idea, “that you can’t help who you fall in love with,” when in reality, they married out on purpose because they place other groups on a pedestal.

No, the reality is we are told to put black women on the pedestal just cause they are black women.
Most black women feel like they don't have to do anything to get us but be black women.
 

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I'll be honest...I'm black, a "high value male" and I don't feel this will affect me in the slightest. A lot of black women have fukked up views of masculinity or stay w/ aint shyt dudes, so maybe exposure to different races dating-wise will help round out the way they look at shyt. :yeshrug:

And a lot of you brehs been sliding by just off being black while not doing shyt anyway so :yeshrug:

I know for a fact black women cant take that matriarchal shyt to other communities, so let's see how it goes for them.

Clearly what's goin on now isn't working, so a shock to the system could be useful. It's whatever to me.
Also the powers at be have been trying to get black women to date IR for decades now. I'm guessing to use it as a weapon against black men. Yet sister's keep falling for it.
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Article hit all the divesment talking points.

This writer ain't a New Jack.

"A bit more than a decade ago I published a book, “Is Marriage for White People?” that examined the decline in marriage across American society and especially among African-Americans, and focused in particular on the predicament of black women. The book raises the possibility that black women — like Harris and Brown-Jackson — would do well to open themselves to partnering with men who are not black. After all, black men appear to have no problem marrying out: That same Pew report revealed they are twice as likely as black women to have a non-black spouse."




 

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All Ima say is this, for BM and BW that are interested in marriage and family formation, don't overlook your college/uni years in terms of finding a suitable partner / establishing a social circle of suitable partners. Especially now in the US where communities aren't as strong and social networks aren't as tight as before.

A couple of my boys (late 20's) that are married found their spouses in UG / grad school. Met in jr/sr year of college, kept in contact when they entered the workforce then dated properly for like 1.5-2yrs before then getting married. Not everyone in uni is on that party party time. Just gotta find the serious ones.
 

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It’s sick that these people are setting up a generation of black girls to become sexual playthings to white men. Of course some will marry or date them but the vast majority are just tying to get their dikk wet and sadly young black women are allowing them quick easy access to their bodies:francis:

I blame c00ns like this nikka, but the biggest issues have been from old usually single bitter black women women, and folks think I’m joking but the show Scandal contributed more to the problem of bedwenching than anything. Shonda Rimes normalized this bullshyt in current culture and it has caused irreparable damage. nikkas need to send the terminator back in time to take her out as a kid
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This is my main issue with this thing. We all know how whites get down and even more, we all know they have the backing of being white when it comes to the law. Even if a rape occurs, it won't go into the books because the police won't investigate it, let alone have a prosecutor actually do their job, and that's assuming the judge won't just throw it out. Hell, they do that to each other so imagine how much harder they will go when dealing with someone of another race.
 

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No, the reality is we are told to put black women on the pedestal just cause they are black women.
Most black women feel like they don't have to do anything to get us but be black women.

maybe to undesirable incel brothas with c00n tendencies like yourself

that ain’t the experience for all of us :hubie:
 

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Okcupid is a pay site. Only certain type of negros will be on that site.
The okcupid survey is what Brehs always use when they bring up how bw are rated the lowest by other men though.

What isn’t talked about is who bw rated the highest, and that bm were rated low by everyone but bw too. Bm are in the same boat as bw, in that most nonbw don’t prefer them and would rather be with wm but it doesn’t stop Brehs from using these studies as evidence of only bw’s low desirability to others while ignoring their own.
 

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I still wanna know how people are keeping track of who is having the most interracial sex

black women got private investigators? black women have secret intelligence agencies?

that was the most outrageous statement in this whole thread

I learned awhile ago it’s useless to try to have these types of convos, especially on here.

Rather than refute your points, nikkas will out their head in the sand and start saying shyt like

“You’re an incel who hates women!”
“This only exists on the internet!”
“You’re just looking for excuses to date out!”

Our community ignores obvious issues and then when it explodes in our face some of us sit back and act surprised.
 

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nikkas make me laugh with the fake concern.

The okcupid survey is what Brehs always use when they bring up how bw are rated the lowest by other men though.

What isn’t talked about is who bw rated the highest, and that bm were rated low by everyone but bw too. Bm are in the same boat as bw, in that most nonbw don’t prefer them and would rather be with wm but it doesn’t stop Brehs from using these studies as evidence of only bw’s low desirability to others while ignoring their own.

I peeped that as well. All of those women rated us the lowest but let's just focus on how low BW were rated instead.

Dishonesty.
 

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You can say what you want about the Negro Manosphere but they've pretty muched debunked a lot of the bs aimed at Black Men in that article.

Black Men can be high earners without having the formal education (college degrees), Black Men still earn more than Black Women, and Black Men do care about marriage and having families, not just leaving a string of baby mommas.

Kevin Samuels put the nail in the coffin without saying a word himself!

The women who call his show have said themselves how they did not care about marriage when in their earlier years, declined to marry their children's fathers and/or set their standards so high no man could meet them.
 
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