@Houston911 this is spot on. The majority of people that marry out try to hide behind the idea, “that you can’t help who you fall in love with,” when in reality, they married out on purpose because they place other groups on a pedestal.
No, the reality is we are told to put black women on the pedestal just cause they are black women.
Most black women feel like they don't have to do anything to get us but be black women.