“Why more black women should marry white men” - The New York Post

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I saw the writer's presentation on the topic on YouTube. The other panel member said that there is research that shows many Blsck women are pretty content with being single if they don't have a mate.

I may find it later.
Ironically, something nikkas love to shame black women for.

Stay single? "You'll die alone!"

Only seek 'High Value Men'? "BW always have unrealistic standards"

Entertain 'Low Value Men'? "BW love thugs"

Demand Marriage? GMB!

Date/Marry out? Wench!

Feels like black women are constantly put in no-win situations.
 
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It’s sick that these people are setting up a generation of black girls to become sexual playthings to white men. Of course some will marry or date them but the vast majority are just tying to get their dikk wet and sadly young black women are allowing them quick easy access to their bodies:francis:

I blame c00ns like this nikka, but the biggest issues have been from old usually single bitter black women women, and folks think I’m joking but the show Scandal contributed more to the problem of bedwenching than anything. Shonda Rimes normalized this bullshyt in current culture and it has caused irreparable damage. nikkas need to send the terminator back in time to take her out as a kid
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I'll be honest...I'm black, a "high value male" and I don't feel this will affect me in the slightest. A lot of black women have fukked up views of masculinity or stay w/ aint shyt dudes, so maybe exposure to different races dating-wise will help round out the way they look at shyt. :yeshrug:

And a lot of you brehs been sliding by just off being black while not doing shyt anyway so :yeshrug:

I know for a fact black women cant take that matriarchal shyt to other communities, so let's see how it goes for them.

Clearly what's goin on now isn't working, so a shock to the system could be useful. It's whatever to me.
 

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Now can someone point me to an article telling black men to date outside the race? The tragically hilarious part is that even with all of these articles/commercials/tv shows spotlighting BW/WM in relationships, the black community still wants to focus on who black men are sleeping with.:mjlol:
Well the issues in the article are pretty specific to black women so the reverse wouldn't apply

Do you have any solutions to the problems raised by the author?
 

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Now can someone point me to an article telling black men to date outside the race? The tragically hilarious part is that even with all of these articles/commercials/tv shows spotlighting BW/WM in relationships, the black community still wants to focus on who black men are sleeping with.:mjlol:

black men are marrying out twice as often as black women, and the gap gets even larger with education and higher income.

I hate to see what them numbers look like if folks started to encourage it :russ:
 

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Well the issues in the article are pretty specific to black women so the reverse wouldn't apply

Actually they are specific to BM too. I can't find the stats right now but at the highest level of education (MBA, law, doctorate degrees, etc.) BM and BW don't have a huge disparity like people think but both have a small population so finding another Black person in your educational and income bracket can be hard outside of school, networks etc. Now it may seem in some settings that there are more BW since BW may outnumber BM in law, advanced nursing, etc. but in engineering, hard sciences, and I think even medicine, men still outnumber women so it balances out.

Also some of the education gap is overstated since details aren't given. If a breh has a college education and his girl has a masters in education, stats will say she is 'dating down' and more educated but if we are honest, it's not the same kind of gap as a PhD sister marrying a guy out of community college.

The biggest gap for Black women is between Black women with some tertiary (college) education and Black men with only a HS degree.
 
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