“Why more black women should marry white men” - The New York Post

[BossMobb]

Super successful black men are wifing average white women

People who date out tend to hold other groups in higher esteem and they have lower standards for them cuz they put them on a pedestal

@Houston911 this is spot on. The majority of people that marry out try to hide behind the idea, “that you can’t help who you fall in love with,” when in reality, they married out on purpose because they place other groups on a pedestal.

 

[High Art]

I hear you and I feel you and that wouldn't be a problem if the entire black community were on the same page
Someone posted in here that what, 30% of black men who marry are marrying out- a good chunk of black men are already doing something you find sick and insulting and they didn't need an article to tell them to do it.

Just centuries of eurocentric beauty standards not only being normalized but pushed on them especially, even more so with the idea of the dynamics being different.

 

[#1 pick]

LSA even starting to move from this after 6 years of piss poor experiences.

 

[1LurkerChick9]

It's not and it's not because White Women exist.

This is the biggest thing that all these "go find you a white man" "date out" types never tell these Black Women.

Even if you decide to "expand your options" to White Men you are now also competing with White Women for those same White Men.

White Women who are held as the standard of beauty globally by none other than... white men.

If they choose not to go with conventional white women then it's Hispanic white women.

Black Women are the most educated and earn more than hispanic women, yet white men would rather marry hispanic, these are women with worse education and financial income.

Another breh using this discussion to shyt on black women instead of being constructive.

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Even if you decide to "expand your options" to White Men you are now also competing with White Women for those same White Men.

White Women who are held as the standard of beauty globally by none other than... white men."

By your logic, all white men should be married to white women. Surely i don't need to explain why reality says you're wrong.

"If they choose not to go with conventional white women then it's Hispanic white women."

I guess you thought about it some and realized your previous comments made no sense so you threw in Hispanic women?



So you are essentially saying that in all circumstances , a white man will choose a white woman- but sometimes a Hispanic woman?

Then how do you explain the black women married to white men?

 

[Turlast]

Nikkaz look dumb using one example to prove whatever silly argument they're trying to push.

I disagree with the bolded.

nikkas look extremely dumb constantly using Serena as an example. Yet it doesn't stop them from doing it.

Using those in the public eye to gauge who does the better of the genders results in both coming out on par with another. You can find an equal amount of BM and BW who marry down when out. It's not hard to do. We do it more and statistically our marriages fail with WW just as much as they do with BW. So it can't be all that great.

Both BM and BW believe the other gender does better than they're actually doing with non blacks, so it's no surprise that you disagree.

 

[#1 pick]

I’m getting ready to go out—so I didn’t read that article. But skimming these comments, I might just have to read what the author said to get a gauge on what he’s advocating and why. Especially if this is a breh who wrote the article.

But this is where y’all always disconnect me—why is it always about who wm want and about wm not wanting bw, when in reality most bw don’t want wm—they prefer bm.



Based on those surveys y’all talk about, brehettes want Brehs more than anyone else. Nonbm don’t show a particularly high preference for brehettes either but it’s mutual. Brehs are also rated low too, by everyone but brehettes. And it doesn’t stop Brehs from dating out even when other women prefer other men over Brehs:

But I’ll be back on tomorrow and will probably read the article then too.

Okcupid is a pay site. Only certain type of negros will be on that site.

 

[JLova]

nikkas look extremely dumb constantly using Serena as an example. Yet it doesn't stop them from doing it.

Using those in the public eye to gauge who does the better of the genders results in both coming out on par with another. You can find an equal amount of BM and BW who marry down when out. It's not hard to do. We do it more and statistically our marriages fail with WW just as much as they do with BW. So it can't be all that great.

Both BM and BW believe the other gender does better than they're actually doing with non blacks, so it's no surprise that you disagree.

If I'm having a debate with you, why are you bringing up what other people are saying? At the end of the day men do the picking so that pretty much shuts down the bolded.

 

[JT-Money]

It's not a competition. Men compete with MEN. And like I said, bm are resigning their fate to white MALE supremacy when you chase after their daughters since last time I checked, black men can't reproduce pawgs from their seed. Which must mean the white male seed is superior?

And btw, it's ALL desperate.

Aren't the vast majority of black men who pursue IR relationships due to black women rejecting them?

 

[1LurkerChick9]

Just centuries of eurocentric beauty standards not only being normalized but pushed on them especially, even more so with the idea of the dynamics being different.

I agree and A lot of this "marry white" feels like exotification
But there are economic realities to the issue too

 

[Asicz]

I saw the writer's presentation on the topic on YouTube. The other panel member said that there is research that shows many Black women are pretty content with being single if they don't have a mate.

I may find it later.

 

[YouMadd?]

I think they should too…. Only fans will need a new roster in the future…

 

[delnegro]

When these subjects come up, I always read how Black women are the most race loyal, etc.
But are Black men holding seminars on how to meet & date non Black women?
Are there genres of books about interracial romance between BM & ww? Forums and sites dedicated interracial dating by Black men?
I call bullshyt on that…if they could, they would…

 

[BushidoBrown]

there was an ill clubhouse room i was listening to about this yesterday
the divestors were going HAM
calling us conquered, useless, toxic, detriment to the community, and everything else under the sun. n word with the hard R, you name it they said it
dam i wish i could find the replay but they prob buried it on purpose

 

[JT-Money]

Why do people keep bringing up GMB in an IR discussion?

 

[UpNext]

When these subjects come up, I always read how Black women are the most race loyal, etc.
But are Black men holding seminars on how to meet & date non Black women?
Are there genres of books about interracial romance between BM & ww? Forums and sites dedicated interracial dating by Black men?
I call bullshyt on that…if they could, they would…

Lol they already do and try they just aren't getting wifed like that. None of these single black women claiming race loyalty is saying no to an investment banker with the Jon B swag. They just ain't getting wifed by them like that