“Why more black women should marry white men” - The New York Post

[1LurkerChick9]

All Ima say is this, for BM and BW that are interested in marriage and family formation, don't overlook your college/uni years in terms of finding a suitable partner / establishing a social circle of suitable partners. Especially now in the US where communities aren't as strong and social networks aren't as tight as before.

A couple of my boys (late 20's) that are married found their spouses in UG / grad school. Met in jr/sr year of college, kept in contact when they entered the workforce then dated properly for like 1.5-2yrs before then getting married. Not everyone in uni is on that party party time. Just gotta find the serious ones.

Well that's the entire point of the article
Black men have no trouble meeting black women in college...there are more BW enrolled,period.
The other black women,well...

 

[MollyGalaga]

Mods got TLR nikkas in a chokehold

 

[Henri Christophe]

He just sat there and acted like people like Emmett Till do not exist. I was too disgusted to even give him a proper response.

Emmitt Till was killed by white men tho - so my point still stands.

There have been mothers of african kings who encouraged their sons to conquer other nations and then collected the skulls of defeated kings as trophies.

Did the African women kill those men? or was it the men who carried out the warfare? It was the MEN.

also if we count sex workers - do you still think BM are having more IR sex?

I know black female sex workers who have said they havent had sex with a black client in over a year

BW are having more IR sex - its a fact

 

[MollyGalaga]

This is really a sad state of affairs for black people in general. Online arguing about being desired by yts.

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[Hazel Brown]

I hear you.

shyt... just counting sex workers - black women are literally having interracial sex everyday multiple times a day.

BW are having wayyyyy more IR sex

I was just looking for the data

Very intelligent of you to get your sample size from literal prostitutes instead of normal women.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Emmitt Till was killed by white men tho - so my point still stands.

There have been mothers of african kings who encouraged their sons to conquer other nations and then collected the skulls as trophies.

Did the African women kill those men? or was it the men who carried out the warfare? It was the MEN.

also if we count sex workers - do you still think BM are having more IR sex?

I know black female sex workers who have said they havent had sex with a black client in over a year

BW are having more IR sex - its a fact

No it’s not. You have no published evidence to verify that it’s a fact. You only have you taking the word of prostitutes and social media bw. Brehettes could easily say the same about Brehs as much as they see y’all dating and lusting after other women.

There’s been nothing published verifying who dates who more and who has sex with others more. The only thing being tracked are marriage rates.

It’s also a silly talking point anyway, because Brehs are not anymore loyal to brehettes. Y’all be fukking, dating and marrying ww. No amount of facts pulled out of your butts and Kevin Samuels talking points can be the deflection yall need to offset the notion that only bw are disloyal in our community. We got enough bedbucks in our community to throw this notion out the window.

 

[DrBanneker]

lol Comeback with some stats and then ill reply for real

I can't find it right now but below is the bachelor degree disparity by race. Note the White woman gap has surpassed the Black one and the Black disparity has had the sharpest decline in recent years. The lats five years have been weird though so I expect all races to see a rising gap in favor of females partially due to COVID

 

[Wiseborn]

only two tribes now for real

the wealthy tribe

the broke tribe

ha

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So which Tribe are you in?

 

[Henri Christophe]

There’s been nothing published verifying who dates who more and who has sex with others more. The only thing being tracked are marriage rates.

so why are BW going around saying BM have 3x more IR sex?

so you admit this is a fake stat to push propaganda and slander black men?

 

[Henri Christophe]

Very intelligent of you to get your sample size from literal prostitutes instead of normal women.

sex is sex

and yall having more of it

Im sure we got some white tricks on the coli that can verify my statements

 

[CarmelBarbie]

so why are BW going around saying BM have 3x more IR sex?

so you admit this is a fake stat to push propaganda and slander black men?

I don’t know who is going around saying that. Not I. they are wrong.

the only stat we have is the marriage rate.

 

[Wiseborn]

Most mixed race people have black fathers.

No they don't. Now if you're saying that most mixed people who are products of marriage have Black fathers that might be true.

Frankly you can't really quantify it because you got a lot of Black women since the beginning of out time in the states popping up with random lightskinned kids.

 

[phcitywarrior]

Yeah this is one of the top 5 things I'd tell myself if I could go back in time. I feel like my dating prospects w/ women have skyrocketed as I've entered my 30s (and they have), but my prospects of ending up with a black woman have plummeted. I just didn't realize it before living in a place like Los Angeles where there are more progressive black women, in-shape black women, etc.

Trying to find a 25+ yo attractive, stable, gym-going black woman with no kids for DATING feels like searching for a needle in a haystack as a breh who's not in the church like that and not in LA or the DMV area. Let alone wifing.

Idk where you're at but I feel you on this. Just left the DMV for the West Coast and it's night and day. I'm a Naija breh and I feel a little lucky in that worst comes to worst, I can work my family networks either here in the US or back in Nigeria (especially with remote work) when I'm ready to settle.

 

[bubba scotch]

As far as desirability goes, dating studies have also indicated that every women but bw rate bm low, but that doesn’t stop bm from marrying, dating and sexing ww. So I’m sure if a bw really wanted to be with a wm, those surveys and studies would not stop her from it, the same way it ain’t stopping y’all from proposing.

finally, a bm wrote this article, not a bw, yet within pages Brehs started focusing on bw and blaming bw for what this man wrote. If some of you think that bw are undesirable to nonbm, that bw are disloyal, picky, etc etc, then him advocating for bw to marry out shouldn’t matter to y’all since as y’all have said wm won’t choose brehettes anyway.

You was cooking up until this point. The idea that women can pick and choose who they marry in a patriarchal society is contradictory. You can want a white man all you want but it's them that have to ask BW out and pick BW as wives. Men are not in that position because of the volume of people we pursue.

 

[010101]

So which Tribe are you in?

ha*