“Why more black women should marry white men” - The New York Post

[Ashley Banks]

@Ashley Banks

Its not a bother but you took yourself out of the convo...

I can speak on ANY topic involving black women because I am a black woman as I said before, if it bothers you feel free to put me on ignore.

 

[Voice of Reason]

If you’re GMB, as the poster who I was responding to stated, you are part of the problem the author is highlighting.

Why not take a crack at my other post-what is the solution to this problem mentioned in the article/the authors book?

Decreasing racism so black men can achieve economic mobility and success just as easily as other races. Remove the structural barriers and this problem is solved.

 

[bubba scotch]

But this doesn’t explain why you guys are shaming BLACK WOMEN because of this mans article. “Black women are the least desired” “black women will never get a ring from another race” “black women can’t compete with other races”. Because this man made an article?? That’s what I’m trying to understand.

How do you guys have such low opinions of black women and obviously do not marry black women but you also ridicule bw for trying to date other races. I just want to know what you guys want bw to do since everything we do is wrong.

It's clear some of these fokls want black women miserable and alone. shyt crazy

 

[FukyourFort]

I can speak on ANY topic involving black women because I am black woman as I said before, if it bothers you feel free to put me on ignore.

Naw....you being married to Lamprit takes you out of this. You have nothing to stand on talking on this subject.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Naw....you being married to Lamprit takes you out of this. You have nothing to stand on talking on this subject.

like I said you’re gonna have to put me on ignore. Youre wasting you’re time.

 

[High Art]

People who date out tend to hold other groups in higher esteem and they have lower standards for them cuz they put them on a pedestal

This seems to occur due to some races not knowing what is attractive in another race. Like how some non-asians may find Lucy Liu attractive but asians, mostly men, especially FOBs and such would consider her less attractive and accuse her of having "aggressive eyes". They always mention this to me when she comes up in conversations.

For those who dislike the article-which points do you find particularly problematic?

Contents of the article aside, the very notion of an article telling someone to date a race that has historically and to this day, has many members that actively try and actually oppress, malign, attack, and destroy members of our community is kind of sick and insulting. It's like an article asking black women to date dogs. It's outrageous.

 

[FukyourFort]

like I said you’re gonna have to put me on ignore. Youre wasting you’re time.

Men or women who don't date black have no say...I will keep saying it and it's not a waste of time for me. Put me on ignore if that bothers you

 

[JLova]

It might be a location thing. In the south he might be mostly correct but out West I see black men with more attractive non black women when they date interracially.

I can see that...lookwise. But what are these women offering? Some broads are frumpy but may come from well off families or they themselves have well paying jobs. On top of that, no one is talking about successful women being able to put that ego aside. Asian women do it, white women do it. Do black women do it? Same can go for black men. Successful black men and women...can they put their egos aside? I guess they do for other races.

 

[JLova]

He doesn't need to marry a billionaire. The point is he married a woman that was known for posing topless on a magazine. That's a social downgrade no matter how you try to slice it.

He's a billionaire, so it doesn't really matter in the end. nikkas just look dumb rushing into these topics with the "they date down" when that can easily be reversed.

White Men: "Black Men get the trash we don't want."
Black Men: "Black Women get the WM that WW don't want. Also, WM don't want them."

Two sides of the same coin. Both genders of whites often hit out of their league when it comes to dating out.

Nikkaz look dumb using one example to prove whatever silly argument they're trying to push.

I disagree with the bolded.

 

[1LurkerChick9]

Decreasing racism so black men can achieve economic mobility and success just as easily as other races. Remove the structural barriers and this problem is solved.

I like your thinking but the problem is that black people didn’t create racism or these barriers. So we are still in a position of appealing to others. Your solution and the authors aren’t that different from that perspective.
I guess I’m more interested in what we as a people can do for ourselves - our babies shouldn’t have to view marriage as something for white people. But something has to give

 

[Houston911]

This seems to occur due to some races not knowing what is attractive in another race. Like how some non-asians may find Lucy Liu attractive but asians, mostly men, especially FOBs and such would consider her less attractive and accuse her of having "aggressive eyes". They always mention this to me when she comes up in conversations.

That’s absolutely not the case in what we’re discussing in here

 

[Leao2005]

The black guy that wrote this has no facial hair

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What does this mean as a breh who started being clean shaved the past month

 

[BlackJesus]

They always get a c00n to say what they actually want to say

 

[Jazzy B.]

Breh, consider that there are some 200+ million white people in this country and black people are what, 30,40 million? A black woman doesn’t need every white man to approve of her , just one. And the odds are in her favor IF she wants to try. Most be I know don’t trust white people like that tho

It's not and it's not because White Women exist.

This is the biggest thing that all these "go find you a white man" "date out" types never tell these Black Women.

Even if you decide to "expand your options" to White Men you are now also competing with White Women for those same White Men.

White Women who are held as the standard of beauty globally by none other than... white men.

If they choose not to go with conventional white women then it's Hispanic white women.

Black Women are the most educated and earn more than hispanic women, yet white men would rather marry hispanic, these are women with worse education and financial income.

 

[1LurkerChick9]

Contents of the article aside, the very notion of an article telling someone to date a race that has historically and to this day, has many members that actively try and actually oppress, malign, attack, and destroy members of our community is kind of sick and insulting. It's like an article asking black women to date dogs. It's outrageous.

I hear you and I feel you and that wouldn't be a problem if the entire black community were on the same page
Someone posted in here that what, 30% of black men who marry are marrying out- a good chunk of black men are already doing something you find sick and insulting and they didn't need an article to tell them to do it.