“Why more black women should marry white men” - The New York Post

[bubba scotch]

Not seeing how this is controversial. If you're not happy with your current dating pool, go expand it. That goes for everybody.


And y'all agenda nikkas act like people have no agency in their actions. If black women are dating more white men , it ain't because of some article

 

[FukyourFort]

Not seeing how this is controversial. If you're not happy with your current dating pool, go expand it. That goes for everybody.


And y'all agenda nikkas act like people have no agency in their actions. If black women are dating more white men , it ain't because of some article

Yeah its because more bw are becoming femcels. They be dating interracially out of spite or to prove some sort of point. Its kind of sad actually

 

[1LurkerChick9]

That math would make sense if white women didn’t exist. The reality is, you’d still have to compete. There’s no way around it. And this idea of just finding “one” is based on the assumption that she’ll find her social and economic equal that she claims that she can’t find amongst black men. For some odd reason, black women, and the author of the article are under the assumption that dating “white” is automatically an upgrade just based on his race

I’ll amend my stats :
117 million white men vs 21 million Black women.
Still good odds

I don’t know where you’re getting the idea that the important thing is that they’re white. That’s not the author’s MO. It’s just a numbers game and the pool of white men is greater.

Care to take a crack at my other post? No one seems to want to touch it. I’ll quote it

I remember reading his book many many years ago- the title “Is Marriage for White people?” actually came from the lips of a little black boy(iirc) in a classroom from a conversation they were having (sorry, don’t remember the context)think how sad that is our children are receiving the message that only white people can have intact, married families.
For those who have actually read the article and/or his book- what do you propose is the solution? The author clearly thinks it’s to marry white or other men but there has to be something besides.

It would be nice to see actual discussion about the article instead of attacking black women’s attractiveness and sexuality

What do you propose is the solution to the problems stated in the authors article/book?

 

[High Art]

The thing that is not taken into consideration is the quality of the non-black men these black women are apparently supposed to end up with. I wonder this because I don't see this ending well for black women if not because I just don't see all these other races abandoning all the things that drive them to keep in their respective races.

Consider: the general ubiquitnousness of eurocentric beauty standards, logic that would indicate that they must hate their momma if they date out, pressures from their own communities to date within their race, the possibility of seeming as if they are dating down in the eyes of others if they date a black woman (this exists in these non-black communities), general views about the black community derived from either crime or other mischaracterizations of black people and black women (attitude and all that- I know you've heard them all). Then the willingness that society has to confer all things negatives on blacks, it makes me wonder. When black women point out that men have it easier in attracting non-black women (used unfortunately to downplay issues of colorism and so forth towards men), they do have a point somewhat, since masculinity and femininity are appreciated differently.

I guess my point is this, and I've seen this myself: It seems that the average black women that partakes in this will end up pulling a lower end non-black guy than a high end non-black guy. Examples of the ones who pulled higher ends (celebrities/models) will be paraded about to quell any internal issues these women will have. Moreover, I can't help but feel that they will conform harder to eurocentric beauty standards which will cause some sort of fuss and problems going forward. Moreover, how often are accusations of colorism and other issues that effect the black community ever leveled at non-black men? It feels like such issues quite literally die at the feet of non-black men. In the end, it feels like a recipe for disaster, even more so for some black women.

 

[GoPro]

Thecoli is still filled with hoteps, I see

 

[ORDER_66]

no response?? Y’all sit here and tear black women down for EVERYTHING were the least desirable, least married, delusional to think anyone could ever be interested in us, laugh at single black women, judge bw that are in IR relationships but can’t even put together a proper solution to the problem. What do you guys want black women to do?

Just Because we have issues with the current dating pool of black women we don't have a problem with all of them why you talking in absolutes... this man's article is trash and you as a female should ask yourself why this man MARRIED to a black woman himself but telling other black women to date white men that agenda shyt is blatant and it's not helping us as a whole...

Agents will be questioned and ostracized

 

[ORDER_66]

Dbl*

 

[goatmane]

Yeah its because more bw are becoming femcels. They be dating interracially out of spite or to prove some sort of point. Its kind of sad actually

Women can't be incels

 

[Ashley Banks]

One of the women in here married to an east Asian cat..she needs to chill in these discussions

a black woman in an IR relationship should chill on the topic of black women in IR relationships? Just put me on ignore if it bothers you so much.

 

[FukyourFort]

@Ashley Banks

Its not a bother but you took yourself out of the convo...

 

[1LurkerChick9]

For those who dislike the article-which points do you find particularly problematic?

 

[Voice of Reason]

Super successful black men are wifing average white women

People who date out tend to hold other groups in higher esteem and they have lower standards for them cuz they put them on a pedestal

Lies, Most black men under 40 who are attractive and successful themselves date equal white women when they decide to date out. This is especially true on the West Coast.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Just Because we have issues with the current dating pool of black women we don't have a problem with all of them why you talking in absolutes... this man's article is trash and you as a female should ask yourself why this man MARRIED to a black woman himself but telling other black women to date white men that agenda shyt is blatant and it's not helping us as a whole...

Agents will be questioned and ostracized

But this doesn’t explain why you guys are shaming BLACK WOMEN because of this mans article. “Black women are the least desired” “black women will never get a ring from another race” “black women can’t compete with other races”. Because this man made an article?? That’s what I’m trying to understand.

How do you guys have such low opinions of black women and obviously do not marry black women but you also ridicule bw for trying to date other races. I just want to know what you guys want bw to do since everything we do is wrong.

 

[bubba scotch]

Yeah its because more bw are becoming femcels. They be dating interracially out of spite or to prove some sort of point. Its kind of sad actually

Same shyt different day. We shouldn't care who they date, just do you breh

 

[Voice of Reason]

This is shyt you hear from people who are against interracial relationships.

Successful black men are wifing average black women, what's your point? And what do you mean by average? Average looks? Successful black men are hitting up the trailer park?

It might be a location thing. In the south he might be mostly correct but out West I see black men with more attractive non black women when they date interracially.