Why is it so hard for some Dudes to get laid

[Crayola Coyote]

pretty much

if Betas simply learn to accept this life would be easier for them

There isn't always "someone" for everybody, unless you're a female...then your odds increase. (because women are the pickers, not the pursuers...this is why ur more likely to see a fat ugly chick with a man than a fat ugly dude with a chick)

Life cold like that, don't believe none of the bullsh1t ya momma told u bout the world as a kid

Disney movies got these kids thinking they can acheive anything they want when they become adults

then they grow up and reality smacks them right in the face

You are a beta and there's simply no p*ssy for you sir.

This is some Cac shyt right here. Don't tell black folks is on this fukkery.

 

[Killer Instinct]

For most guys, it's legit a confidence issue. You can't score if you're afraid to shoot.
My boy in college was a reserved guy. Women would eye fukk him when we walked in the cafeteria or lobby but breh couldn't even make eye contact or approach.
So many instances where guys could eat but fear of failure stops them from trying or even being aware of their surroundings and the indicators of interest being thrown in their direction.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Alot of u south nikkas cant get p*ssy cuz ya swagless

Ya need to learn from the Eastcoast gz

Listen to sum 50 , cam, fab, jada, sheek louch

Baggy clothes ain't coming back in style, Papoose, cut it out.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

@Colicat i'm thinking there might be a good book here..
but aight so i completed a review of every post in "most daps"
some people listed multiple reasons so i tried to pick out 1-2 main points from each post
i excluded humor, personal attacks, rants about Dubai, cryptic answers, off-topic, braggadocio, etc.
(i also discarded the theory i posted..haha)
here are the remaining answers given by 79 posts in "most daps"
(i apologize if i mis-characterized anyone's answer..)

Why is it so hard for some Dudes to get laid??

1. Accept being sexless – maybe it just wasn't meant to be? (121)
2. Acting excessively needy/desperate (47, 35, 163)
3. Approaching wrong type of women for casual encounters (7)
4. Dealing with mental health issues such as depression (84)
5. Discouraged by seeing other men easily succeed while they struggle (11, 153, 53)
6. Either you have the ability to easily connect with women or you don't (105)
7. Evolution/biology/nature – not every man is intended to mate (158, 97, 159)
8. Excessive competition, long-shot odds (83)
9. Excessive thirst from some guys makes it harder on other guys (9)
10. Failure is part of finding your true lane (185, 184)
11. Geographical limitations/restrictions (52)
12. Insufficient experience and knowledge (26, 27)
13. Lack of charisma (28)
14. Lack of confidence (27, 14, 28, 148)
15. Lack of self-love (26)
16. Men feel like failures, are broke, or have nothing else to offer (160, 232, 154)
17. Men isolate themselves or become reclusive (25, 123, 118)
18. Men self-sabotage by lack of effort because they fear rejection (25, 23, 120, 83, 35)
19. Men should wait until they are successful before approaching women (45)
20. Need to pursue other goals in life and don't want the distraction (80)
21. Poor conversation skills (147)
22. Porn and internet-induced misconceptions (15)
23. Reach exceeds their grasp and they have unrealistic expectations (2, 15, 190, 184, 62, 57)
24. Socializing is an undue burden (123, 129)
25. Wanting to avoid the excessive headaches and/or wasted effort (41, 134)
26. Women have excessive expectations (32, 153, 81)

Number 26 is the main issue and everything else is bullshyt to be honest.

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

if you ugly or gotta little dikk the game ain't for you that's natural selection

 

[chabvongaBlackus]

ANY1 can get Pu$$y but the quality varies....I have seen buddies of mine, good looking tall mascular fuxkin' average 4's on a regular or I should say everytime....This is coz the game was distorted by SIMPS/SOFTIES who put p*ssy on a pedestal now you got an average chixk offering nothing than p*ssy thinking she deserves a relationship with a top dawg
Also most guys even if they can talk to girls they don't know how to escalate....I used to pull a good amount of good looking chixks but never really pounded any of them coz I would be takin' it easy approach( I didn't know to escalate) so e.g if you jus wanna fuxk a girl that gave you her phone number -- Tell her straight up to come see you!! don't give her options or ask her if she's free or that other extra shyt..Pass her your address.....Take the p*ssy I'm not saying rape

 

[Dreamzeedream]

pretty much

if Betas simply learn to accept this life would be easier for them

There isn't always "someone" for everybody, unless you're a female...then your odds increase. (because women are the pickers, not the pursuers...this is why ur more likely to see a fat ugly chick with a man than a fat ugly dude with a chick)

Life cold like that, don't believe none of the bullsh1t ya momma told u bout the world as a kid

Disney movies got these kids thinking they can acheive anything they want when they become adults

then they grow up and reality smacks them right in the face

You are a beta and there's simply no p*ssy for you sir.

 

[Phoenix Hoely]

I live in Detroit...
But I started getting p*ssy in dallas and Austin... I capitalized on a brainwashed community of hoes who gave a young teen p*ssy based on features. I didn't know about c00n hoes back then , I just thought I was pimpin.

Anyway, I had a father sorta in my life...

Plus I came back up north to school and none of my friends had an issue getting p*ssy... it never was something I knew about until

I joined the military.... man.... did you know some men go months maybe even a year and don't get p*ssy??


Did you know its mainly their own fault??

Did you know you should never hype up an ugly female because that is disrespectful to ur father, yourself, all other men who have to deal w hoes, and in the end you are ruining that woman??

Did you ever hear that blackking once got drunk after never drinking before and this demon sinful ugly thot took advantage of him....

And he went to work the next and gave her a 15 min lecture about how that was a mistake and listened off all the reasons why and even told her... you may have slept with decent men but you are busted.. but you have a p*ssy so your perception is off.

Peace

Why they had to ban my dude? #Freehim

 

[MidniteJay]

I'll be honest. I'm in a long ass drought right now because I don't know how to spit game or flirt or maybe I'm too lazy to. I'm also not that interesting when I think about it. All of the girls I've slept with I already knew for a while. I think the first one gave it up out of pity

Makes me wonder why I'm even fukking with #NoFap sometimes. I'm fukked unless I can make myself hard for those ugs that give me attention.

 

[semicko82]

You try to lower your standards but the low tier chicks even have high requirements

 

[chabvongaBlackus]

Go for the easy bytches breh..

This Vid deserves an AWARD ....Salute breh

 

[Neuromancer]

Cuz they dont try....

I dont know any brehs who actually try who can't get laid.

Most brehs take themselves out of the game and out of contention based on their personal beliefs of what is attainable

Can't lie, this is mostly true now a days. No one wants to admit they're a 4 or a 5 but will go for 8's or better. You gotta know that life's unfair and the cards you were dealt need to be worked to your advantage. I'm a 6, my girl is around a 6 so we match up. Simple

 

[Lo-Co]

i believe that i can get laid. i have before. i just need better conversation skills. im autistic but ive slowly pulled women before. im just not a heat seeking missile like some dudes.

 

[aboss4real24]

Baggy clothes ain't coming back in style, Papoose, cut it out.

Only south nikkas wear baggy shyt

4X T Shirts and football jerseys like its 1999

ny set the trends

Got all ya nikkas rocking vnecks polo trues

had ya rocking ed hardys back n da day too foh

we still going down south and fukkn ya hoes

 

[Ronnie Lott]

For most guys, it's legit a confidence issue. You can't score if you're afraid to shoot.
My boy in college was a reserved guy. Women would eye fukk him when we walked in the cafeteria or lobby but breh couldn't even make eye contact or approach.
So many instances where guys could eat but fear of failure stops them from trying or even being aware of their surroundings and the indicators of interest being thrown in their direction.

I know nikkaz that have never backed down from a fight, but get scared then a MF to holla at a bytch