Yeah, I might make a thread on it later, but black men are by far the most blue pilled delusional race of men when it comes to women. A lot of black men(maybe majority) lie on their dikks as well. That is something I have realized over the years.
Why is it so hard for some Dudes to get laid
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Yeah, I might make a thread on it later, but black men are by far the most blue pilled delusional race of men when it comes to women. A lot of black men(maybe majority) lie on their dikks as well. That is something I have realized over the years.
DallasTxRep
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better question would be, why is it so important to get laid
But nah seriously if you're not getting laid you're either not attractive (fat and or ugly), socially awkward, lack confidence, don't get out enough or just simply need to lower your standards. Women these days, the young ones in particular are basically throwing p*ssy to dudes nowadays....don't have to take them out or anything
NolivesMatters
involuntary celibate since 2006
It's hard to get laid if you don't have a social life. Living in plano it's mostly middle aged white people & Indians. The only time you see black women is when you go shopping and running errands. Plus that cold approach shyt rarely works
I'd be interested in such a thread as I'd like to hear your reasons for stating that black men are the most delusional when it comes to women.
As for the original topic, the reason some guys find it hard to get laid is because the avenues for casual encounters have become extremely narrow. Clubs and bars are basically where non-single people hangout. Online dating doesn't depict accurate representations of anyone. And work should be off limits. So what does one do? If you want to be proactive then the answer is to fail a lot in order to learn what works and where. If you want to know what actually works in the modern era it is to do you and be the best you can be, then let the woman show you that she's interested (this doesn't necessairly have to be explicit).
The biggest weapon against men today is the word "creepy". "a$$hole" is fine though, so long as you represent something greater.
Devil Plisken…CMS
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Aside from keeping yourself palatable for women (workout, manner of dress, clean white teeth) You have to give off the aura that you're good either way. Girls don't like feeling of you relying on their p*ssy as a last hope
I know I will get called a cac or c00n but these are the main reasons
1. Black men have a skewed perception of women because the black community is in a unique position.
2. Black men talk a lot of shyt about GMB/HOH but still don't really understand how evil and soulless women really are.
3. Black men deny the importance of looks and genetics when it comes to attracting women.
4. Black men's minds have been warped by the porn/media and they think all women desire them. Most don't.
5. Black women are not as sought after as other races of women, so they have less opportunities and are "stuck" with black men. They are not "loyal" to black men.
6. If they had the option black women would swirl just as much as Asian women.
7. Black men think they have game, but most black women are just desperate and have to share a man, or starve.
8. Also a black men's idea of game is really beta providing or tricking if you want to use black terms. Having to get your money and woo women with expensive clothes, gadgets, and cars is not game. It's soft prostitution. Men with good genetics fukk for free.
Fani Willis fan
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that was the old me
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and that's what i said
if you don't have that, you need to get that... or get left behind.. plain and simple
if i don't have money... the why's don't matter.. i need to get out there and look for a fukking job.
if you don't have any confidence to approach women, you need to build up some however it may come. hit the gym, practice on some women, see a shrink, read a self help book, something.. cause you ain't gonna get none by not getting out there and talking to them
Yeah people can easily tell when someone is desperate as hell. That can be a huge turn off.
I will give u the ones I bolded above...and part of #8...but I donno about the rest.
Yes the black community is unique and women have more power when it comes to attraction because they are the ones allowing men to fuk/date them. However, when it comes to commitment...men may have more power.
Yes definitely looks play a bigger part than some men on here admit. Just working out and getting a haircut and new outfit may not be enough. One still have to have attractive facial structure and body built that attracts a woman naturally. And personality plays a part...but she still need to be attracted to u physically enough to wanna sustain a monogamous relationship with u.
But to say black women aren't as sought after is not true. Now, I will say white men as a whole aren't as accepting to obese women and they prefer submissive women (one of the reasons why a lot date Asian women). So most sistas who date interracially or bedwench have to be more submissive naturally or tone down their attitudes.
AndYouKnowTHIS
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It's a either because dudes don't have a mouth piece, have bad logistics, or have little to no friends. I have non whatsoever
. Some time soon I'm just gone take my ass to different spots and cold approach. It's the only and best way. Rejection might hurt and I'm gone stutter
. But if I stay consistent and develop the skill the possibilities are endless
. Some time soon I'm just gone take my ass to different spots and cold approach. It's the only and best way. Rejection might hurt and I'm gone stutter. But if I stay consistent and develop the skill the possibilities are endless
choc_cardigan
Squad
Alot of alt right lingo in this thread...
Focus on your money and hit the gym/exercise. But do it for YOU! The extras like females will start to fall in place. Life is hard, not everybody is confident and outgoing all the fukking time but learn how to turn on the charm once in a while when the situation arises. Get your shyt together and play the numbers game. Laugh off rejection(cause it will happen) and just say fukk it and spit/holla at all the chicks you like.
TransJenner
Banned
Some dudes are just Fakkits , just tell them what you want straight up