Why is it so hard for some Dudes to get laid

[Stone]

It is what it is breh, I mean you gotta get it out of the way at some point. Just fake it till you make it, if the chick isn't impressed then don't take it personally.

And you don't have to "explain" anything. I lost my V-card at at relatively late age too (19 almost 20) and I didn't bother telling the chick it was my first time. Was slightly awkward at first but it worked out. A little alcohol can help ease the nerves...but not too much, trust me.

I feel you man, growing up I wasn't bad looking but I just sort of stayed to myself. Growing up folks would sometimes talk about how this or that girl liked me but I never believed them due to not knowing just what the hell they saw in me.

Then there's the time in college where I was pretty much on the 1 yard line and pussied out because of me not having done it before.

Since then I've had to deal with depression due to not succeeding at college, porn addiction and my own laziness and here I am. I'm just now really starting to win the fight against these things so I'm heading in the right direction I guess. Performance anxiety is gonna be a whenever I do get that far though.

Can't get out of my own head.

 

[street heat]

80/20 rule

 

[aboss4real24]

80/20 rule

only lame nikkas in denial actually think that rule exist

the worlds population would low as hell if that was true

 

[MenacingMonk]

I'm a recluse so that's my reason.

I'm not rough on the eyes, nor am I Brad Pitt. I got self-confidence, know how to have a conversation, charming, charismatic, witty, among other things. I just don't go out a lot.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I think the availability of pornography in the high speed internet age has helped to blunt the pursuits of the modern male when it comes to the opposite sex. Nowadays a lot of men are lazy and resigned to just log on to xhamster and wack it, rather than expose themselves to the potential of rejection, emotional discomfort, financial considerations and the overall effort it takes to bag a nice looking girl and keep her:

http://yourbrainonporn.com/comedian-bill-maher-on-pornography

Of course you have cats that just arent good looking or outgoing enough to pull, but that goes without saying.

What about findtubes.com?

 

[Wild self]

Past a certain age as a man, you got to have something going on. Women get their shyt together quick. Women go to college and after four years, they're grown as fukk and making money. Be about something. Have a passion for something to which you can make a living. If you have no drive, no ambition, no passion, you ain't gone have no confidence because true confidence comes from achievement. And women can tell if you don't got your shyt together and aren't even trying to better yourself. Nah, you don't need ambition, passion and drive to fukk any old fat beezy, but you will get the girls you want if you focus on being somebody first. Either that or you can holler at a thousand bytches until one says yes. It's a numbers game too.

Those same women got extra help from simps, society, and their parents, and STILL BE IN DEBT. Don't let that shyt fool you. Most of these bytches that "have it going on" are riddled in debt. Some of these educated hoes even sell p*ssy when money runs real low.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Those same women got extra help from simps, society, and their parents, and STILL BE IN DEBT. Don't let that shyt fool you. Most of these bytches that "have it going on" are riddled in debt. Some of these educated hoes even sell p*ssy when money runs real low.

You're not lying. I know chicks with masters who are barely making 40 a year.

There's plenty of struggling educated joints out there. Don't get it twisted.

But yeah, he's right in some ways......at some point chicks are simply looking for a provider so you have to have something going for yourself.

 

[Wild self]

You're not lying. I know chicks with masters who are barely making 40 a year.

There's plenty of struggling educated joints out there. Don't get it twisted.

But yeah, he's right in some ways......at some point chicks are simply looking for a provider so you have to have something going for yourself.

Well then, I ain't gonna play that game of tricking on a woman. That is why I am attracted to women outside of America.

Don't fall for their games. They want a man to trick on them and have infinite amount of money, not for "safety" for their shortcomings.

 

[Swirv]

Fear of approaching a woman. Talking themselves out of p*ssy. Trying too hard.

If you're ugly that makes things hard.

 

[street heat]

only lame nikkas in denial actually think that rule exist

the worlds population would low as hell if that was true

Marriage helps even it out, but it's still real. Women want alpha males, and obviously every man isn't one. It's not an equal playing field for all men. Sure women will settle for less eventually, but this is why studies show most feel they can do better than their current partner.

How are you going to say it doesn't exist when it's prevalent all throughout nature? Without societal rules like marriage/ monogamy things would be even worse.

 

[BaggerofTea]

I just smoke a lot weed and make money, that gets me through the droughts

 

[Hyperion]

You clearly don't have options. I'm sorry to have offended you. Since u post like a bytch maybe you should start fukking men.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Some dudes REALLY just have it easier.

 

[Mowgli]

They don't know brazillian jiujitsu

 

[eufemism]

I feel you man, growing up I wasn't bad looking but I just sort of stayed to myself. Growing up folks would sometimes talk about how this or that girl liked me but I never believed them due to not knowing just what the hell they saw in me.

Then there's the time in college where I was pretty much on the 1 yard line and pussied out because of me not having done it before.

Since then I've had to deal with depression due to not succeeding at college, porn addiction and my own laziness and here I am. I'm just now really starting to win the fight against these things so I'm heading in the right direction I guess. Performance anxiety is gonna be a whenever I do get that far though.

Can't get out of my own head.

sounds almost exactly like me


stay strong breh i know how it feels