Why is it so hard for some Dudes to get laid

[Art Barr]

Art barr kept it the trillest

Preciate it, handshake!

Art Barr

 

[Pimp]

Go for the easy bytches breh..

 

[HookersandIceCream]

Porn is not a substitute for p*ssy

 

[Bless't]

I have confidence because I've been through it, lived and learned and I look young. Experience and eternal youth is quite the tag team.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Although it wasn't really my focus, in my teenage years getting p*ssy wasn't easy for me.........

until I realized you as man you really just win just for showing up for the job. By simply showing interest, being yourself and taking the lead you'll get a lot of p*ssy. If one girl doesn't like you someone will.


The thing is as well, the more you have going for yourself, the easier it will be. If you have money, if you're really attractive, if you're tall, if you're popular, a well known athlete/dj/rapper/musician, you have status, it's going to be easier and women will throw themselves at you and you won't have to hunt as hard, it'll come to you.....

 

[philmonroe]

Although it wasn't really my focus, in my teenage years getting p*ssy wasn't easy for me.........

until I realized you as man you really just win just for showing up for the job. By simply showing interest, being yourself and taking the lead you'll get a lot of p*ssy. If one girl doesn't like you someone will.


The thing is as well, the more you have going for yourself, the easier it will be. If you have money, if you're really attractive, if you're tall, if you're popular, a well known athlete/dj/rapper/musician, you have status, it's going to be easier and women will throw themselves at you and you won't have to hunt as hard, it'll come to you.....

All this is true and to make it simpler become the best you you can be and chances are p*ssy will be coming at you just like the other types of dudes the standard mentioned.

 

[DonFrancisco]

and what does that exactly say since so many men ain't getting any?

You got a large amount of women that would rather use a toy than have a real live dikk, so this kinda debunks your view on women wanting it as much as men, it's actually women wanting it with only a handful of men who fit their critera




A man has to learn how to deal with women, a man has to this.... that.....this ......that......

Some dudes have it naturally, some gotta aquire it, some gotta play a role (thug) to get something back in return. The coli white knights need to stop caping for hoes and come with the real, we're all not created equal some of us have to work twice as hard as others for the same results.




yep 80/20 is correct as well as 20/80 men who actually entice women.

Actually what I was implying just doesn't go for women, it goes for life in general. Do you want to be around a moppy ass individual with low confidence and few alpha male traits. Lets keep it 100, whether we admit it or not, we as a society usually walk all over guys with beta male traits. Men walk all over them and women just ignore them or string them along for attention.

 

[cam>]

besides looks or status,

usually it's due to low self esteem and social anxiety issues.

ie.

the guy is timid, or awkward, seems desperate or obsessive, doesn't pick up on social cues, is self-denigrating or self-aggrandizing, shows his insecurity, acts afraid, or is too intense etc.

things like that.

simply, guys that make social interactions awkward, or make women feel uneasy don't get laid.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

ten minutes.

the females you talembout are lame and how you talk.
You lame in bed, too.
what female who is a beast in the bed talks like this.
lemme answer that for you,.....
none of them...
you need to have sex more to become secure in your sexuality.
you, talk like a female who you fukk and because they are insecure in Their sexuality.
Has deep issues with fukking.
not knowing how to keep virtue and think it is lost every time you open your legs in standard fukking.
females like that are bushes status, or low ranking team members on the roster.
Never a committal,...
females like you get cheated on by cheaters looking for a beast in the bed.
to offset your lack of sexual maturity.


Art Barr

Lmao @ you. So much to unpack here...smh. Let me just keep it real. This ain't high school Monica. If your stroke game is that good then you don't have to take imaginary pot shots at women who don't feel like getting down with some wack azz jiving mofo who ain't got shyt else to offer than "muh dyck".

Women are emotional and sex is better for us when we feel safe, in a committed relationship with someone who gives a damn. Now you can fool some weak azz twerk butt with no father who is worried more about how her p*ssy feels to you than whether your a quality dude between her legs, but I ain't bout that 70% OOW no future having BS.

If you gon fuk, I don't judge. Be safe. Be responsible, and get it in. But don't throw shade on chicks who want love with their dyck. As adults people need to stop lying to themselves. Just fukkin ain't working. There's a disconnect and men AND women ain't satisfied with this nonsense. But just excuse me for callin out the buck azz naked emperor while the some of ya'll stay c00nin pretending his azz in True Religion jeans. Lmao!
I swear we're trapped in perpetual adolescence. Want love? Want respect? Gotta mean ur p*ssy ain't right...lmao! Logic....not even once...
And this is the shyt our young women internalize?! Wow.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

None of the above. I just believe that sex should be between a husband and a wife.

And just like there's nothing wrong if people get it in casually, there is absolutely nothing wrong with this either. It doesn't mean ur boring, it doesn't mean ur crazy. I know people who've been fukking their entire lives and still don't know shyt. That's b/c they're too scared to admit that the best sex comes from chemistry, and deep intense emotional connection. Some shyt that takes ur azz to the fukin moon and back... Have u on some crazy ish.
It's rare that u get that from fukin randoms. But to each his own.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

They lack the tools that gives them the ability to do so. It's like telling a man to go fish when he's never touched a fishing rod in his life and lives nowhere near a body of water. Some men learn from their fathers. Some learn from homies. Some learn from their mentors. Some learn from the Internet. Some learn through trial and error. And some never learn at all.

Thing is. You have to love yourself. And if you don't, you need to get on the road to getting there. You might have to sit this one out for a while, and that's okay. Don't worry about people who laugh at you because you get no buns, for those are the men and women who put value in the wrong things. They will be the very same ones who'll wind up depressed and struggling when the well dries up. An egotistical man's worst fear is failure; a truly confident man's worst fear is giving up. Cause if you fail, you just get back up. But if you give up, then that's it. You lose. But don't do it for the girls in the tight dresses and the hazy Instagram filters, do it for yourself.

Sinbad on the Breakfast Club

One of the best jewels was..."If you don't mind being the worst at something for a short period of time...you can do anything."

 

[WhodatWhoadi]

I think the availability of pornography in the high speed internet age has helped to blunt the pursuits of the modern male when it comes to the opposite sex. Nowadays a lot of men are lazy and resigned to just log on to xhamster and wack it, rather than expose themselves to the potential of rejection, emotional discomfort, financial considerations and the overall effort it takes to bag a nice looking girl and keep her:

http://yourbrainonporn.com/comedian-bill-maher-on-pornography

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Im telling yalll stay away from that filth, it does no good.

 

[LunaticVillage415]

Past a certain age as a man, you got to have something going on. Women get their shyt together quick. Women go to college and after four years, they're grown as fukk and making money. Be about something. Have a passion for something to which you can make a living. If you have no drive, no ambition, no passion, you ain't gone have no confidence because true confidence comes from achievement. And women can tell if you don't got your shyt together and aren't even trying to better yourself. Nah, you don't need ambition, passion and drive to fukk any old fat beezy, but you will get the girls you want if you focus on being somebody first. Either that or you can holler at a thousand bytches until one says yes. It's a numbers game too.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Porn is not a substitute for p*ssy

I'd rather have boring missionary sex with a 5 than jack off to a dime any day.

 

[acri1]

Honestly I'm at the age (23) where I'm a little too old to be inexperienced. So I imagine any encounter would be left with me getting some combination of and .

That's the biggest thing and having to potentially explain why I've never gotten that far

I've already pulled a Pete Carroll before so that's not something I want to do either.

It is what it is breh, I mean you gotta get it out of the way at some point. Just fake it till you make it, if the chick isn't impressed then don't take it personally.

And you don't have to "explain" anything. I lost my V-card at at relatively late age too (19 almost 20) and I didn't bother telling the chick it was my first time. Was slightly awkward at first but it worked out. A little alcohol can help ease the nerves...but not too much, trust me.