why is getting laid such an impossible task for the avg guy

[Versa]

No idea if someone else hasn't mentioned it, but there is a way to get guaranteed sex with almost any kind of woman, at any time, and you don't need to be great looking, have confidence or have a happening social life,if all you want is to get laid. Prostitution. Iam not talking the skanks on the street corner,although some girls at these nightclub aren't all that much of a step up in the STD a personal hyigene stakes. Iam talking escorts, and you will be surprised how cheap it is, especially in the UK now all the eastern europeans and their pimps have saturated the market .

It eliminates all the angst about trying to impress girls , one upmanship , and financial risk (you might take her out and get fukk all out of her) personal risk (girl could want more than a quick fukk and get angry when you don't call, starts to feel used causing you no end of problem , girl could have a boyfriend she hasn't told you about ,starts to feel guilty blames you, boyfriend will almost certainly blame you despite his slut for a girlfriend, etc etc) .The escort respects your confidentiality unless you are some politician or other powerful person , because it's in her interests to get a good reputation.

I think the reason prostitution is either on the fringes of legality or illegal depending on where you are, and is certainly seen as immoral still in society, is because if more guys especially young guys saw it as an option and didn't go down the more complicated route because they somehow felt less of a man if they have to pay for it , prices would be driven down even more, and then more and more guys would do it, and you would end up with women losing quite a bit of power in relationships, and also there would be less need for men to want to be in relationships. You might even find women treat their men better in relationships knowing full well there is an alternative option ,that is cheap, has plenty of variety , and will do almost anything to please and wont' be on your case all the time.

I'm looking at any of you nikkas who dap this post funny forveva.

 

[TheArchitect]

one chick was like "I have a friend but we can talk". I got up like have a nice day. I'm really not into bullshyt. I had enough of it. I just want to live the rest of days as peaceful as possible.

EXACTLY. This is the kind of shyt I be talking about. It's quite sad, but it's as if I've been played with and bullshytted so much along the years that I really have no tolerance, and I'd rather be alone. My ex was the last straw on the camel's back, I have ZERO morale when it comes to females.

But then.....but fukking then....I go to work....and I see all the ass,.....like R. Kelly said, my minds telling me no but my bodys telling me yes...my libido is too strong, so I'm between a rock and a hard place on this one....

I need to hurry up and exit the States.

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

The avg girl demands too much. They don't want to be used for sex. Can never find the right guy.

80/20 rule.

Its difficult cuz its a domino effect. First of all you got set them all up. Then knock the first one down and they all fall into place. Unless our ass doesn't know how to set it up right. Then u just look like an idiot.

 

[Rack4K]

The average guy gets laid so I don't think it's 'impossible'. Most men on the planet have some girlfriend of some sort, some means of sex.

That's because getting sex from women isn't a skill, necessarily...it's hard wired. We're put on earth to have sex and procreate.

The problem is, in our modern western society, we have two opposite phenomenons clashing against each other; the first one is the digital/information age and the second one is pop culture's obsession with men who aren't average, the so-called alpha male.

99 percent of all men can find a girl that's perfect for them. Girls who love them, who'll suck the skin off their dikk, cook for them, laugh at every corny joke, everything. But that's not enough in our culture. A couple average girls who love you throughout the course of a life doesn't cut it in this culture anymore. We wanna be PUAs, players, pimps who bag 'bad bytches' effortlessly. The problem is, everybody can't be no player, so you have a certain segment of average guys who are disappointed in themselves which hurts their self esteem further to the point where they can't even talk to the girls who would love them if they were just themselves.

And then you have all the porn on our smartphones, the thirst trapping broads on instagram and cam models which foster a culture of pornography instead of intimacy. So now you got dudes in the prime of their lives (18-24) sitting in front of laptops, tablets and smartphones jacking off to idealized images instead of exercising the muscles they naturally have in the real world, which are the muscles of charm and pursuit. All men have those two things naturally but you have to work on improving/maximizing it.

Elliot Rodgers was the perfect example. He could have got some cute girls who liked him but he was entitled. He wanted the baddest blonde and he wanted her to walk across the room to bag him. A lot of these incels wouldn't exist if they were just happy with themselves, worked on themselves and let their nature of pursuit take over.

 

[Maddmike]

No idea if someone else hasn't mentioned it, but there is a way to get guaranteed sex with almost any kind of woman, at any time, and you don't need to be great looking, have confidence or have a happening social life,if all you want is to get laid. Prostitution. Iam not talking the skanks on the street corner,although some girls at these nightclub aren't all that much of a step up in the STD a personal hyigene stakes. Iam talking escorts, and you will be surprised how cheap it is, especially in the UK now all the eastern europeans and their pimps have saturated the market .

It eliminates all the angst about trying to impress girls , one upmanship , and financial risk (you might take her out and get fukk all out of her) personal risk (girl could want more than a quick fukk and get angry when you don't call, starts to feel used causing you no end of problem , girl could have a boyfriend she hasn't told you about ,starts to feel guilty blames you, boyfriend will almost certainly blame you despite his slut for a girlfriend, etc etc) .The escort respects your confidentiality unless you are some politician or other powerful person , because it's in her interests to get a good reputation.

I think the reason prostitution is either on the fringes of legality or illegal depending on where you are, and is certainly seen as immoral still in society, is because if more guys especially young guys saw it as an option and didn't go down the more complicated route because they somehow felt less of a man if they have to pay for it , prices would be driven down even more, and then more and more guys would do it, and you would end up with women losing quite a bit of power in relationships, and also there would be less need for men to want to be in relationships. You might even find women treat their men better in relationships knowing full well there is an alternative option ,that is cheap, has plenty of variety , and will do almost anything to please and wont' be on your case all the time.

nikka any single man that fukks prostitutes because he can't get p*ssy is a fukking creepy weird ass nikka

 

[Colicat]

If a chick doesn't give me a signal, then i'm not going to bother trying to talk to her. It just so happens that I don't get any signals at all

... You get signals boo... You just haven't learned how to pick up on them... Until you learn, you should take the direct approach for a young lady you are interested in (whether she is sending signals should be an after thought)

EXACTLY. This is the kind of shyt I be talking about. It's quite sad, but it's as if I've been played with and bullshytted so much along the years that I really have no tolerance, and I'd rather be alone. My ex was the last straw on the camel's back, I have ZERO morale when it comes to females.

But then.....but fukking then....I go to work....and I see all the ass,.....like R. Kelly said, my minds telling me no but my bodys telling me yes...my libido is too strong, so I'm between a rock and a hard place on this one....

I need to hurry up and exit the States.

I agree with the rest

 

[Dooby]

It's not impossible but it's not easy either. You have to go through the motions and jump through a lot of hoops just for p*ssy.

 

[hypo666]

nikka any single man that fukks prostitutes because he can't get p*ssy is a fukking creepy weird ass nikka

'can't' or 'can't be bothered with all the bullshyt that can be involved'?,that is the point I am driving at ,at worst a man who does it for that reason could be called lazy.

And with other men, what is wrong with pumping a prostitute if you are inept with women ? that in my view is the least creepy reason for doing it.Should a man,who is either completely socially retarded or ugly, just rely on internet porn? I don't begrudge a man such as that some time with a woman,perfectly healthy in my view. What would be creepy is getting off specifically on using prostitutes,there are men who are often married and otherwise respectable who see them just to abuse them or enjoy the whole paid sex thing , or asking for strange shyt from the prostitute, wanting her to have sex with a dog, ,asking her to pretend to be your mother/sister etc etc.

 

[Maddmike]

'can't' or 'can't be bothered with all the bullshyt that can be involved'?,that is the point I am driving at ,at worst a man who does it for that reason could be called lazy.

And with other men, what is wrong with pumping a prostitute if you are inept with women ? that in my view is the least creepy reason for doing it.Should a man,who is either completely socially retarded or ugly, just rely on internet porn? I don't begrudge a man such as that some time with a woman,perfectly healthy in my view. What would be creepy is getting off specifically on using prostitutes,there are men who are often married and otherwise respectable who see them just to abuse them or enjoy the whole paid sex thing , or asking for strange shyt from the prostitute, wanting her to have sex with a dog, ,asking her to pretend to be your mother/sister etc etc.

Breh, i see what you are saying but p*ssy is not hard to get. My wife's cousin is mildly retarded and he pulls mad chicks (although they aren't the best looking sometimes) Dude's need to stay off the damn Internet and go out and learn some damn social skills.
You see want happened to dude that went on the killing spree. And that nikka had money (no homo but he wasn't a bad lookin cat either)!!! He was a just a creepy dude. He creeped women out. That's what I mean by a single dude that fukks prostitutes because he feels like he CANT get no puss.
As far as married men I understand that, that's why I was stating that single men only.

 

[Ain't That Something]

p*ssy is the easiest commodity to acquire, I don't know any nikka that struggling to get btiches in real life so I can't relate to O.P.

But I will say that the shyt being so easy makes me weary of smashing bytches especially on the first night. I am glad that I'm out the game bc now a days you got trannies looking like legit bytches, all type of STD's out there it's almost not worth it. nikkas better off saving themselves until they find the right bytch that is clean and get with and even that can be an impossible tasks bc just like nikkas want p*ssy bytches want dikk too

 

[old_timer]

i curated a list of answers from posts #1-130 so no one in the world will ever have to ponder this question again

1. unsuitable personality - inability to hold a conversation - "weak game" - poor communication skills - "no personality"

2. social antipathy - unrealistic expectations - thirst - too much ego - live in fantasy world - hate

3. fear - being psyched out - procrastinating due to lack of confidence - waiting on her to do everything

and honestly?? i strongly suspect #2 and #3 are a byproduct of #1
so "unsuitable personality" is the answer- there you go

 

[PhonZhi]

Girls are more picky. And the majority of men are not only ugly and overweight, but also timid. So its not that they can't get laid at all, they just can't get laid when they want to lol.

I'm above average and bytches gravitate towards me lol. I could fukk a different bytch every night if i wanted to. They wouldn't all be 8's, probably a lot of 6's, maybe some 5's, but i could easily get a girl right now. And any dude could put himself in my position by simply working out. I'm tall too which helps, but if you have a nice body you can pull pretty much any girl whose shorter than you, and insecure girls will literally be cake.

and its not about being buff and shyt, just workout. Play a lot of basketball, do pushups, hit the gym a little bit, go for runs. You don't wanna be bulky you just wanna look athletic.

And groom yourself. Learn to dress nice and conservative, but also look fresh and like you have money at the same time.

And learn how to approach women. Girls like dudes who intimidate them, not dudes who are intimidated by them. When you approach a girl you have to treat her like you're doing her a favor by even taking the time out of your day to talk to her. Don't be rude, be polite, but just act superior to her at the same time. Don't act like you want to please her or like she would have any reason not to be totally attracted to you. Act like you're the shyt and shes a groupie basically.

so damn true

 

[360dagod]

p*ssy is the easiest commodity to acquire, I don't know any nikka that struggling to get btiches in real life so I can't relate to O.P.

But I will say that the shyt being so easy makes me weary of smashing bytches especially on the first night. I am glad that I'm out the game bc now a days you got trannies looking like legit bytches, all type of STD's out there it's almost not worth it. nikkas better off saving themselves until they find the right bytch that is clean and get with and even that can be an impossible tasks bc just like nikkas want p*ssy bytches want dikk too

how do you resist testing the waters??

 

[Ohene]

Not quite, people in general have lost the ability to communicate with each other.... Thanks to mobile phones and the internet, people especially younger people,who are most likely to be wanting to date, have the lost the art of communicating with people outside their social circle, if your social circle is limited, well.... Internet dating is a fukking joke, weirdos, serial killers, people cheating, people frauding their pictures, work? some workplaces really dislike employee's getting in a relationships for one, second, it isn't all that wise to shyt on your own doorstep, nightclubs? They get old real fast, and sex is only easy to obtain there if you like that lifestyle, I for one ,when single certainly didn't, I am like a fish out of water in them.I far preferred a quiet country pub drinking a pint of warm beer, even in my late teens, because Iam boring and think clubbing and all that goes with it,is very stupid.


Once you leave school ,university etc etc, if some of your friends get hitched, and stop going out as much, and their idea of a 'night out' is a dinner party with other families on a saturday evening, I believe men just focus on it more, because we think about in sex in a different way to women, but I know for a fact many young women are in the same position, hell most people don't even talk to their neighbours anymore... Women might be able to get sex easier than men, but an actual relationship? especially as the years advance?

society is fukked.

good post

 

[PhonZhi]

It's too easy

Just be in good physical shape, know how to talk, and dress yourself appropriately to the situation. Also, keep your hair right, I shave my head bald so that's always easy. Eye contact like a sociopath. Also, as said prior, make the bytch feel you are doing her a favor by interacting with her. Men are the superior gender after-all. Present yourself like you give a damn about yourself as well, sell yourself. Ask her more questions than you tell her about yourself. Don't give out any compliments either.

I agree with everything but the bolded. I personally compliment and let her know I find her sexually attractive within the first 5mins. that's just how I do it.