why is getting laid such an impossible task for the avg guy

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Some guys set their standards too high. For example, my homeboy does not keep himself up, so he is like a 3 on a scale of 1-10. Yet he expects to pull dimes. Sometimes you have to overlook a cocked eye or a funny-looking nose.lol.
 

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On one side it could be this:


On the other side it could be that even the average women are being gassed up by men thanks to facebook, instagram and public events as well to where they make themselves harder to get at.

True, either way, with p*ssy stock at a record high due to social media allowing for attention whoring thots to easily reach their simp audiences, it's not gonna change anytime soon. Just gonna lead to more depressed Elliot Rogers types. shyt, even here at the coli you can see the frustration of not getting laid in some of these nikkas posts. Half of these nikkas psychological problems can be solved with p*ssy.
 

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Lol. Women are pretty much the same everywhere. U will be the same dude wherever u go, its not gonna get easier. If u do go somewhere where the women are easier, it will probably be in a third world country. So you are trading one difficulty for another. Why not just work on not being lame, so u can pull broads of the caliber u feel u deserve in whats probably the best country in the world? Running away won't solve the problem because you are the problem.
Actually it's Better to get a mail order bride
 

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On another note...getting p*ssy is all about your ability to make a woman feel comfortable, special in some way, and to make them laugh. Do all three and the woman will make the move, you won't even have to put yourself out there.

If you need to improve your skills at talking to women, your only choice is to talk to A LOT of women--on the phone and in person. Don't text! Call them and have real convos using your voice. At the beginning it'll be awkward if you're not a natural, but over time you get comfortable and you're able to talk to any woman with ease. Don't have an exciting life to talk about? Watch the news, ask the girl a lot of questions about her life, interests, and be engaged in the stories she tells you, and be witty and make jokes based on her conversation. Search for common interests and latch onto those. If you're an a$$hole, search for her insecurities and help her feel better about them.
 

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Lol. Women are pretty much the same everywhere. U will be the same dude wherever u go, its not gonna get easier. If u do go somewhere where the women are easier, it will probably be in a third world country. So you are trading one difficulty for another. Why not just work on not being lame, so u can pull broads of the caliber u feel u deserve in whats probably the best country in the world? Running away won't solve the problem because you are the problem.

sorry your wrong, ive been to nearly 20 countries and its ludicrous to think women are pretty much the same everywhere. Hell I live in toronto and last month I went to vancouver same exact country and the women are totally different.

Hell women in small towns etc. are not the same as women who grew up in big cities.
 

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not even bragging or boasting because im just a average guy, skinny dark and big nose. But I've never had a problem getting laid by hot women whenever I wanted. Just live life naturally hold your held up high and you'll literally fall into puzzy.
You don't carry yourself like the average dude breh.


OT: Man, this thread starting to turn into lies. Since when are all cities equal when it comes to getting women and the quality of women.
 

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as much as people like to hate on marriage. married men get laid for more often than single men.

it might be with the same woman each time, but hey :yeshrug:

if you're single and not the kind of person who has groupies. ie: singer,actor, sports
then your father prolly gets more p*ssy than you do.

married guys who cheat prolly get just as much p*ssy as d list celebrities.
:ufdup:

married guys complain when the wife isn't giving it up more than 3 times a week.
single guys go on month long droughts on the reg. :gag:
 

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I've learned you just have to get in where you fit in man.

Unless your money, mobility and looks are right it can be tough but you just have to lower your standards while you work on yourself a little bit


I've been broke at times.. And rarely have a truck to use:snoop:
Never had a problem getting them to cab it to my house and I'm 77 strong :yeshrug:
The game been good to me, word to PimpC:salute:
 

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as much as people like to hate on marriage. married men get laid for more often than single men.

it might be with the same woman each time, but hey :yeshrug:

if you're single and not the kind of person who has groupies. ie: singer,actor, sports
then your father prolly gets more p*ssy than you do.

married guys who cheat prolly get just as much p*ssy as d list celebrities.
:ufdup:
Looking at marriage only for sex is an one way ticket to fukkery. That fact that you would say this is crazy. Why are these thoughts on your mind?
 

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Looking at marriage only for sex is an one way ticket to fukkery. That fact that you would say this is crazy. Why are these thoughts on your mind?
marriage isn't only for sex. :russ:
i'm just saying sex life is better as married man than a single guy even tho the common perception in hollywood is that single guys get to come home with a different woman each night.

instead of focusing on "getting laid" just try to maintain/develop a solid relationship. a good sex life will be part of that.
 

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I've been broke at times.. And rarely have a truck to use:snoop:
Never had a problem getting them to cab it to my house and I'm 77 strong :yeshrug:
The game been good to me, word to PimpC:salute:

ive had nothing cept a bus pass, and some dingy ass motel on dundas in mississauga as a 21 year old and i was still getting dimes

and i've always been oblivious, i've always literally just walked into puzzy

i've nver been the dude sending 100 msgs on a dating site, or saying yo ma on the street, or changing who i am on some sort of chameleon

hell the last time i got laid i was just trolling in another city and she took it from there.
 

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marriage isn't only for sex. :russ:
i'm just saying sex life is better as married man than a single guy even tho the common perception in hollywood is that single guys get to come home with a different woman each night.

instead of focusing on "getting laid" just try to maintain/develop a solid relationship. a good sex life will be part of that.

wrong its always been said 20% of men sleep with 80 percent of women, married men have to deal with sexless marriages etc.
 

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marriage isn't only for sex. :russ:
i'm just saying sex life is better as married man than a single guy even tho the common perception in hollywood is that single guys get to come home with a different woman each night.

instead of focusing on "getting laid" just try to maintain/develop a solid relationship. a good sex life will be part of that.
Hollywood is entertainment, demonic entertainment at that. You can't base your life experiences off of others who are fantasy.

Most average and ugly men have always settled on marriage to get booty. I seen so many average to ugly white boys getting married with average to good to very good looking women. Man, if ya'll brothas want to eat, maybe take a different approach. Not everyone can be Marcus Graham. Always adjust breh. If you aren't eating, adjust. If you are slumping in Baseball, do you just say well, I just ain't that good. Heck no or everyone gonna look at you like a horrible player and person. You adjust. Ya'll look at women like a God right. As long as there is competition, there will consideration to prove yourself. I lost some, I won some. Always adjusting breh.
 
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