why is getting laid such an impossible task for the avg guy

[Reality]

Girls are more picky. And the majority of men are not only ugly and overweight, but also timid. So its not that they can't get laid at all, they just can't get laid when they want to lol.

I'm above average and bytches gravitate towards me lol. I could fukk a different bytch every night if i wanted to. They wouldn't all be 8's, probably a lot of 6's, maybe some 5's, but i could easily get a girl right now. And any dude could put himself in my position by simply working out. I'm tall too which helps, but if you have a nice body you can pull pretty much any girl whose shorter than you, and insecure girls will literally be cake.

and its not about being buff and shyt, just workout. Play a lot of basketball, do pushups, hit the gym a little bit, go for runs. You don't wanna be bulky you just wanna look athletic.

And groom yourself. Learn to dress nice and conservative, but also look fresh and like you have money at the same time.

And learn how to approach women. Girls like dudes who intimidate them, not dudes who are intimidated by them. When you approach a girl you have to treat her like you're doing her a favor by even taking the time out of your day to talk to her. Don't be rude, be polite, but just act superior to her at the same time. Don't act like you want to please her or like she would have any reason not to be totally attracted to you. Act like you're the shyt and shes a groupie basically.

Close thread. It really is this simple.

 

[Scott Larock]

If you're going to bars and clubs on the reg and still can't pull anything. Take a long look at yourself for real.

You gotta be on point to work the club scene bruh, I'll say 10% of the guys can get something for the night, 90% cannot.. the club and bars usually aren't good becuase women have their guard up, I think it's not a good place for a average guy, key work average.

This is harder than you think. Holding a conversation that doesn't involve weed or some sex acts will get you called "lame" these days. bytches is retarded these days.

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I hate these type of threads to be honest cuz nikkas come in here with this "You gotta this and that" mentality, truth is, most guys don't have game to conversate and know nothing how to conversate, to conversate well, you gotta have stuff to talk about, to be blune this is a internet message board and alot of dudes don't live that exciting life.

ANd other nikkas will refuse to teach game to those in need. Such evil behavior makes the cycle THAT MUCH harder on the average guy.

The average guy is done in America, especially the average black guy to be exact, in the black community, black men aren't considered average, this is a big problem.

Sex > wealth to many dudes these days. Too few people eat good and far too many starve and make this society all fukked up.

True, myself and a couple dudes are 35 and up and single and to be honest, even though you can say some dudes need to get more money, when you're single you're thinking p*ssy. Also, do you expect every man to get at least 50k a year before they start dating? It's really only a western culture thing, but in a nutshell dating and sex has gotten harder in the last 10 or 20 years period, guys can come in here with this "hit the gym, have confidence" mantra but the facts are the facts.

Some guys will naturally suceed, others will have to literally fight for it.

 

[Spy]

It's too easy

Just be in good physical shape, know how to talk, and dress yourself appropriately to the situation. Also, keep your hair right, I shave my head bald so that's always easy. Eye contact like a sociopath. Also, as said prior, make the bytch feel you are doing her a favor by interacting with her. Men are the superior gender after-all. Present yourself like you give a damn about yourself as well, sell yourself. Ask her more questions than you tell her about yourself. Don't give out any compliments either.

 

[philmonroe]

True, myself and a couple dudes are 35 and up and single and to be honest, even though you can say some dudes need to get more money, when you're single you're thinking p*ssy. Also, do you expect every man to get at least 50k a year before they start dating? It's really only a western culture thing, but in a nutshell dating and sex has gotten harder in the last 10 or 20 years period, guys can come in here with this "hit the gym, have confidence" mantra but the facts are the facts.

Some guys will naturally suceed, others will have to literally fight for it.

Bold is part of the problem cause fukk no you don't need to have 50k to start dating but you have to realize your lane. Dudes be bums expecting dimes that's not the norm. Now if you can be an outlier more power to you and anybody else but for most you got stay in whatever lane your in. You not caking like that you gotta mess with chicks that's on that same level maybe a level below for the most part.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

*Checks in* I don't have this issue

 

[Scott Larock]

Bold is part of the problem cause fukk no you don't need to have 50k to start dating but you have to realize your lane. Dudes be bums expecting dimes that's not the norm. Now if you can be an outlier more power to you and anybody else but for most you got stay in whatever lane your in. You not caking like that you gotta mess with chicks that's on that same level maybe a level below for the most part.

But you can't expect all men to do that and you don't ask a woman to do that, women do what they choose, whether win or lose she'll take that chance dating a doctor even if she's gonna get piped and sent home.

And the majority of us black folks ain't rich so I don't know what you saying, if I make 40k and she make 50k she'll not over my head by much, truthfully women just have higher standards as opposed to what's really out there, nothing is wrong with that but you will see alot of losers in this game.

 

[philmonroe]

But you can't expect all men to do that and you don't ask a woman to do that, women do what they choose, whether win or lose she'll take that chance dating a doctor even if she's gonna get piped and sent home.

And the majority of us black folks ain't rich so I don't know what you saying, if I make 40k and she make 50k she'll not over my head by much, truthfully women just have higher standards as opposed to what's really out there, nothing is wrong with that but you will see alot of losers in this game.

Man don't go the chick route with the what about them shyt. If the thread was about chicks side of things I would talk about them too but its not. Keep focus sir and stop sounding like the stereotypical defeated Internet dweeb its not a good look. Worry about yourself not what the next chick/person doing cause they going to do them and truthfully you don't care anyway. Its just a way to justify bullshyt you do IMOIMO

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

If a chick doesn't give me a signal, then i'm not going to bother trying to talk to her. It just so happens that I don't get any signals at all

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

The way I see it, if you focus too much on getting laid, you won't. If you can be happy without sex or relationships then those things will naturally gravitate towards you and basically be a "bonus" on your existing life. I think the best advice is to just live life in a way that makes you happy. It helps to use a thought experiment:

Imagine a man who has grown up never seeing women. He doesn't even know they exist and he has spent his life around other men who don't know that women exist(and who aren't gay). Can that man still be happy?

If yes, then sex only adds to his existing happiness, and he could live his entire life not needing it and still feel good.
If no, then even if he did get sex, it wouldn't be good enough for him. He wouldn't ever be satisfied because he's romanticised this one thing and made it seem like the solution to his problems.

As many men have already said, work on yourself and just be happy doing you. Women will eventually cooperate and if not, you'll still be happy because you have other outlets for gaining thrills and companionship.

 

[mamba]

:iseeu:

 

[Wise]

Getting laid isn't an impossible task for the average guy, attempting a conversation is.

 

[Truth Hurts]

They make it hard for themselves.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

My conversation game ain't where it should be and that a big part that hurts me in the game


I just wanna fukk tho..... that's hurt ya boy to

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Because they make their thirst so apparent. They also confuse being aggressive with confidence. Just forget you don't know the bytch and talk to her like you known them for years

Talk to her like you already smashed

 

[hypo666]

No idea if someone else hasn't mentioned it, but there is a way to get guaranteed sex with almost any kind of woman, at any time, and you don't need to be great looking, have confidence or have a happening social life,if all you want is to get laid. Prostitution. Iam not talking the skanks on the street corner,although some girls at these nightclub aren't all that much of a step up in the STD a personal hyigene stakes. Iam talking escorts, and you will be surprised how cheap it is, especially in the UK now all the eastern europeans and their pimps have saturated the market .

It eliminates all the angst about trying to impress girls , one upmanship , and financial risk (you might take her out and get fukk all out of her) personal risk (girl could want more than a quick fukk and get angry when you don't call, starts to feel used causing you no end of problem , girl could have a boyfriend she hasn't told you about ,starts to feel guilty blames you, boyfriend will almost certainly blame you despite his slut for a girlfriend, etc etc) .The escort respects your confidentiality unless you are some politician or other powerful person , because it's in her interests to get a good reputation.

I think the reason prostitution is either on the fringes of legality or illegal depending on where you are, and is certainly seen as immoral still in society, is because if more guys especially young guys saw it as an option and didn't go down the more complicated route because they somehow felt less of a man if they have to pay for it , prices would be driven down even more, and then more and more guys would do it, and you would end up with women losing quite a bit of power in relationships, and also there would be less need for men to want to be in relationships. You might even find women treat their men better in relationships knowing full well there is an alternative option ,that is cheap, has plenty of variety , and will do almost anything to please and wont' be on your case all the time.