why is getting laid such an impossible task for the avg guy

[#1 pick]

It's still possible to 'get laid' as a man but it's very very random and not just looks, confidence is needed but also luck. For instance, a few years back I fukked a cop who was in my town for a few days ,she was from london you see and not in uniform but was sent there to arrest someone, I got talking to her when she asked me for directions in the street. ,and I ended up going to have coffee with her, and then we went back to her hotel room and we fukked and had a great time (well at least I did!, she seemed to but Iam not a great reader of women) . I have no idea if she was married , or what, never saw her or heard from her again after.

Now that was totally random,but also there was quite a bit of luck involved in my part, happened to be there when a woman who see's sex similar to a man was around, not only that a woman who probably because of her job ,she was detective had the confidence and communication skills to inititate it all with a random stranger. I do not believe many women would do that,certainly not sober and not without friends there . People are just so inward looking these days, and many have lost the ability to talk to strangers,thanks to the internet,mobile phones, scare stories in the press.

You talk too much. Problem #1. Solve that, you fixed half your issues.

 

[BigMan]

What are your redeeming qualities and shyt you do that people think is an asset?

breh i don't even know

 

[#1 pick]

Slept on post actually.

You don't have to go all unethical and go for scumbag game (but if you get desperate, might as well take the gloves off). But most dudes do limit their options and handicap themselves with their mindsets.

It be nikkas out here who practically virgins talking about "I'm not gonna approach her, she might think I'm thirsty" like dawg, you ARE thirsty.

Beyond that there are plenty of examples

- Dudes who don't shoot past 6's and 7's (not realizing these are the most contested women of all cause everyone think's they're "in their league")
- Dudes who let their porno girls shoot their standards past anyone they'd approach IRL
- nikkas who stand around the club waiting for "the right song" to go at something
- Being too zero'd in on a single girl they talking to / talking to one woman at a time
- Folks who think their too grown to flirt and seduce women....but still want p*ssy
- Guys cutting off women like their roster is 20 deep when they got an empty bench

hell if it's that deep just lie if you got to. say you related to someone famous

This is the only one I can't agree with for anyone. You fukk around a put someone on a roster who got you like as a 6th man and she's your ace isn't a roster spot. A woman who's on the roster should ALWAYS be ranked as high on your rosters as you are on her roster or higher on her roster than yours. If you are ranked lower on her roster, you better be fukking her or you aren't really doing anything but killing your time.

 

[#1 pick]

breh i don't even know

Breh, you gotta find your thing man. You find that thing you love and are passionate about, you can build off of that.

 

[Zero]

Make a pathetic thread and claim you can get bytches breh.

:iseeu:

 

[Wild self]

Not quite, people in general have lost the ability to communicate with each other.... Thanks to mobile phones and the internet, people especially younger people,who are most likely to be wanting to date, have the lost the art of communicating with people outside their social circle, if your social circle is limited, well.... Internet dating is a fukking joke, weirdos, serial killers, people cheating, people frauding their pictures, work? some workplaces really dislike employee's getting in a relationships for one, second, it isn't all that wise to shyt on your own doorstep, nightclubs? They get old real fast, and sex is only easy to obtain there if you like that lifestyle, I for one ,when single certainly didn't, I am like a fish out of water in them.I far preferred a quiet country pub drinking a pint of warm beer, even in my late teens, because Iam boring and think clubbing and all that goes with it,is very stupid.


Once you leave school ,university etc etc, if some of your friends get hitched, and stop going out as much, and their idea of a 'night out' is a dinner party with other families on a saturday evening, I believe men just focus on it more, because we think about in sex in a different way to women, but I know for a fact many young women are in the same position, hell most people don't even talk to their neighbours anymore... Women might be able to get sex easier than men, but an actual relationship? especially as the years advance?

society is fukked.

THat is true. Best advice is to go to networking events or some type of place where you meet ambitious women that actually work to get yourself a quality chick.

 

[Couth]

Girls are more picky. And the majority of men are not only ugly and overweight, but also timid. So its not that they can't get laid at all, they just can't get laid when they want to lol.

I'm above average and bytches gravitate towards me lol. I could fukk a different bytch every night if i wanted to. They wouldn't all be 8's, probably a lot of 6's, maybe some 5's, but i could easily get a girl right now. And any dude could put himself in my position by simply working out. I'm tall too which helps, but if you have a nice body you can pull pretty much any girl whose shorter than you, and insecure girls will literally be cake.

and its not about being buff and shyt, just workout. Play a lot of basketball, do pushups, hit the gym a little bit, go for runs. You don't wanna be bulky you just wanna look athletic.

And groom yourself. Learn to dress nice and conservative, but also look fresh and like you have money at the same time.

And learn how to approach women. Girls like dudes who intimidate them, not dudes who are intimidated by them. When you approach a girl you have to treat her like you're doing her a favor by even taking the time out of your day to talk to her. Don't be rude, be polite, but just act superior to her at the same time. Don't act like you want to please her or like she would have any reason not to be totally attracted to you. Act like you're the shyt and shes a groupie basically.

 

[Mac Brown]

Mostly cause the average nikkas want above average chicks. If they stayed in their lane they could get their body count up. Basically, nikkas want what's in the curly hair goddesses thread when they should be looking at the beauty of everyday women joint.

Truthiness

 

[Mac Brown]

shame women for having sex....ask why the average guy has a hard time getting women to sleep with him.

Who is that in your avi?

 

[Ashley Banks]

Who is that in your avi?

Leigh-Anne Pinnock from Little Mix.

 

[DrX]

It depends what bracket you in is all. In my bracket. Majority thots and hoes and I can't build something plentiful and long term with these broads. I am just hoping to strike rich with the next one. Please not a hoe. Please be a good girl who's ready mentality, spiritually, and emotionally.

Then you got DrX. No one really checking for him. No swag, no confidence, no goals, just a lame ass nikka. Those nikkas starving like Marvin.

hey coli this the guy that yall wanna take advice from....

 

[Guess Who]

Girls are more picky. And the majority of men are not only ugly and overweight, but also timid. So its not that they can't get laid at all, they just can't get laid when they want to lol.

I'm above average and bytches gravitate towards me lol. I could fukk a different bytch every night if i wanted to. They wouldn't all be 8's, probably a lot of 6's, maybe some 5's, but i could easily get a girl right now. And any dude could put himself in my position by simply working out. I'm tall too which helps, but if you have a nice body you can pull pretty much any girl whose shorter than you, and insecure girls will literally be cake.

and its not about being buff and shyt, just workout. Play a lot of basketball, do pushups, hit the gym a little bit, go for runs. You don't wanna be bulky you just wanna look athletic.

And groom yourself. Learn to dress nice and conservative, but also look fresh and like you have money at the same time.

And learn how to approach women. Girls like dudes who intimidate them, not dudes who are intimidated by them. When you approach a girl you have to treat her like you're doing her a favor by even taking the time out of your day to talk to her. Don't be rude, be polite, but just act superior to her at the same time. Don't act like you want to please her or like she would have any reason not to be totally attracted to you. Act like you're the shyt and shes a groupie basically.

There is a lot of good material in this post.

Maybe I'm just saying that because I can relate.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

part of the problem is dudes dont wanna run the risk of messing everything up.
you gotta make her feel a certain way, try not to run her off, take her on 2 dates, try not to do this or that, say the right things, etc.
Its alot of work

Cant just say LETS fukk and thats it.

 

[#1 pick]

Mostly cause the average nikkas want above average chicks. If they stayed in their lane they could get their body count up. Basically, nikkas want what's in the curly hair goddesses thread when they should be looking at the beauty of everyday women joint.

Let's not lie, if they nikkas was even getting the everyday jawns, this thread wouldn't be here. I was in the everyday thread as I admire all women and with makeup on, some of them looked damn good and he had men way beyond those who created this thread via their facebook.

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/editing-beauty-of-everyday-women.150213/

 

[philmonroe]

ANd other nikkas will refuse to teach game to those in need. Such evil behavior makes the cycle THAT MUCH harder on the average guy.

Man its more than enough stuff online if you looking for help if you being serious.

Sex > wealth to many dudes these days. Too few people eat good and far too many starve and make this society all fukked up.

I agree with this and I think this is the main problem alot of dudes have honestly. Their own lives aren't really where it needs to be but dudes still worried about getting chicks while they broke, unemployed, living in the basement, wanting a dime when they penny, etc. These are some of the biggest reasons cats are insecure they know they don't got much to offer somebody and come up with alot of bullshyt to justify it.

Wealth ain't that easy to achieve. This ain't the tech boom era in the late 90's where being smart was a ticket to success for anyone. Even smart cacs having to grind.

Wealth is hard but easier than people make it seem esp since most people don't even attempt to get that type of wealth anyway. They just like looking at those that have done and speak on them.