why is getting laid such an impossible task for the avg guy

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on some real shyt. this chick had her master degree she work at some accounting firm or some shyt, but that's what she wanted to talk about all the time. When I looked at her like she was stupid she said I was lame and boring.
:snoop: How often were you talking to her and did you try to get her to hang with you off-site? When it's co-workers, I don't like to invite them to shyt unless it public access. 1 on 1. We better be at my place or your place. How did you handle this?
 

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:snoop: How often were you talking to her and did you try to get her to hang with you off-site? When it's co-workers, I don't like to invite them to shyt unless it public access. 1 on 1. We better be at my place or your place. How did you handle this?
We chilled. we fukked a couple times and all but I mean. Idon't care about weed. I don't smoke it, but why is you always want to smoke. Why you always want me to say what I want to do to you sexually? I mean I expect that from hood girls, that's all they fukkin know. But somebody who is supposed to be professional. I really didn't dig it.
 

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thread is very relevant to me and most guys my age in my school. There will be guys that don't even attend my school or university pulling all the girls cause most of us too scared to talk.

Thanks for the advice though.
LOL, I used to stay recruiting chicks from other schools in college. :banderas:

To eat in college involves three things:

1. Attraction
2. Status
3. Coolness

Attraction- Looks, style, etc.
Status- Athlete, Greeks, party promoter.
Coolness- Communication skills w/ladies like Vado, you cool with the party hoes so you get drunk p*ssy, campus rapper, you doing something and you look like you got a future ahead of you, You swagged the fukk out, you got drinks and weed and hoes love that shyt. Ladies, not so much but they look communication and they want to think you cool.

If you don't fit into 1, 2, 3. Your dikk gonna be dry af. You won't even get the average chicks. If you average or worse, you better find a way to get into 2 or 3 in college since money ain't really something you got and if you do, it ain't enough unless she looking for a trick.
 

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We chilled. we fukked a couple times and all but I mean. Idon't care about weed. I don't smoke it, but why is you always want to smoke. Why you always want me to say what I want to do to you sexually? I mean I expect that from hood girls, that's all they fukkin know. But somebody who is supposed to be professional. I really didn't dig it.
Oh, an office hoe. Yeah, drama. I can see why you off that. That shyt put your money at risk.
 

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one chick was like "I have a friend but we can talk". I got up like have a nice day. I'm really not into bullshyt. I had enough of it. I just want to live the rest of days as peaceful as possible.
 

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It's still possible to 'get laid' as a man but it's very very random and not just looks, confidence is needed but also luck. For instance, a few years back I fukked a cop who was in my town for a few days ,she was from london you see and not in uniform but was sent there to arrest someone, I got talking to her when she asked me for directions in the street. ,and I ended up going to have coffee with her, and then we went back to her hotel room and we fukked and had a great time (well at least I did!, she seemed to but Iam not a great reader of women) . I have no idea if she was married , or what, never saw her or heard from her again after.

Now that was totally random,but also there was quite a bit of luck involved in my part, happened to be there when a woman who see's sex similar to a man was around, not only that a woman who probably because of her job ,she was detective had the confidence and communication skills to inititate it all with a random stranger. I do not believe many women would do that,certainly not sober and not without friends there . People are just so inward looking these days, and many have lost the ability to talk to strangers,thanks to the internet,mobile phones, scare stories in the press.
 

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LOL, I used to stay recruiting chicks from other schools in college. :banderas:

To eat in college involves three things:

1. Attraction
2. Status
3. Coolness

Attraction- Looks, style, etc.
Status- Athlete, Greeks, party promoter.
Coolness- Communication skills w/ladies like Vado, you cool with the party hoes so you get drunk p*ssy, campus rapper, you doing something and you look like you got a future ahead of you, You swagged the fukk out, you got drinks and weed and hoes love that shyt. Ladies, not so much but they look communication and they want to think you cool.

If you don't fit into 1, 2, 3. Your dikk gonna be dry af. You won't even get the average chicks. If you average or worse, you better find a way to get into 2 or 3 in college since money ain't really something you got and if you do, it ain't enough unless she looking for a trick.

damn i ain't got none of the three
 

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Dating in this country has taking on the spirit of capitalism

For the nikkas @ the top to eat 5x their share

5x as many folks at the bottom gotta starve

That said though, it's out here if you want it. People just got too much ego, fear or both

Sex > wealth to many dudes these days. Too few people eat good and far too many starve and make this society all fukked up.
 

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Sex > wealth to many dudes these days. Too few people eat good and far too many starve and make this society all fukked up.
Wealth ain't that easy to achieve. This ain't the tech boom era in the late 90's where being smart was a ticket to success for anyone. Even smart cacs having to grind.
 

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Sometimes you have to swallow your pride and do things you see as unethical to reach your goals. The average man has a code they abide by.

Slept on post actually.

You don't have to go all unethical and go for scumbag game (but if you get desperate, might as well take the gloves off). But most dudes do limit their options and handicap themselves with their mindsets.

It be nikkas out here who practically virgins talking about "I'm not gonna approach her, she might think I'm thirsty" like dawg, you ARE thirsty. :heh:

Beyond that there are plenty of examples

- Dudes who don't shoot past 6's and 7's (not realizing these are the most contested women of all cause everyone think's they're "in their league")
- Dudes who let their porno girls shoot their standards past anyone they'd approach IRL
- nikkas who stand around the club waiting for "the right song" to go at something
- Being too zero'd in on a single girl they talking to / talking to one woman at a time
- Folks who think their too grown to flirt and seduce women....but still want p*ssy
- Guys cutting off women like their roster is 20 deep when they got an empty bench

hell if it's that deep just lie if you got to. say you related to someone famous :yeshrug:
 
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