why is getting laid such an impossible task for the avg guy

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cause you nikkas dont know how to communicate with women
This. I never knew how important your word game was until I tried to game here in japan. If you really wanna test your game, try pulling bytches with no way of having a decent convo with em. My looks and :stylin:skills still got me to pull though.
 

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This. I never knew how important your word game was until I tried to game here in japan. If you really wanna test your game, try pulling bytches with no way of having a decent convo with em. My looks and :stylin:skills still got me to pull though.
Those french broads in Montreal from other parts of Quebec. Can't speak English for shyt but my confidence and aggressiveness won out.

Is there a good % of English speakers in Japan?
 

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:salute:that's the mentality you have to have. like someone said earlier a lot of these chicks aint getting approached like that so its a breath of fresh air when a man can confidently approach.
You holding it down in the home of the Big Chicken homie?
 

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Mostly cause the average nikkas want above average chicks. If they stayed in their lane they could get their body count up. Basically, nikkas want what's in the curly hair goddesses thread when they should be looking at the beauty of everyday women joint.
It's the internet generation.

Most guys want girls who looks like pornstars, not the average girl.

If guys lowered their standards, they could get laid anytime they wanted.

Not anymore. Even the average bytches I know gass themselves up thinking they're entitled 10/10. You can thank IG and the filter features for that.
 

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Yep

nikkas gotta find their comfort zone. I personally suck with women in group settings but I am a star when I can pull one to the side and get 1 on 1 time alone. Find your niche. I tried my homie method of getting women just to see if I get a quality upgrade in this still new city. I didn't, so I went back to good ole me. You always learning. Different cities got different vibes. Different women types always respond different to others. You gotta know what you are dealing with. It comes down to confidence.

Look at Softball. When I first played softball this year in over 10 years, I was :flabbynsick: I was just trying to get my steps and hands right, fukk hitting a ball. But once I adjust, got some hits, I started feeling confident. I wasn't close to the best anymore but I was at least dependable. It takes practice but it takes confidence. You need some success. If you not getting enough at home. Try something different, train at the gym etc. I would say travel. Man, my confidence went back up again ten fold when I went to Montreal. I was back to the old me even :flabbynsick: at the time.

Profound statement :wow: Too add on to my original statement. He also didn't know how to present himself when it was our crew and female crew hangin' out...that's where the Survival of the Fittest comes into play...it was either 1 you ended up with one of the chicks for the night 2 u went back to your dorm to get drunk and roam the rest of the night :wow:
 

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who are you tryin' to hit on breh
on some real shyt. this chick had her master degree she work at some accounting firm or some shyt, but that's what she wanted to talk about all the time. When I looked at her like she was stupid she said I was lame and boring.
 

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cause you nikkas dont know how to communicate with women
Not quite, people in general have lost the ability to communicate with each other.... Thanks to mobile phones and the internet, people especially younger people,who are most likely to be wanting to date, have the lost the art of communicating with people outside their social circle, if your social circle is limited, well.... Internet dating is a fukking joke, weirdos, serial killers, people cheating, people frauding their pictures, work? some workplaces really dislike employee's getting in a relationships for one, second, it isn't all that wise to shyt on your own doorstep, nightclubs? They get old real fast, and sex is only easy to obtain there if you like that lifestyle, I for one ,when single certainly didn't, I am like a fish out of water in them.I far preferred a quiet country pub drinking a pint of warm beer, even in my late teens, because Iam boring and think clubbing and all that goes with it,is very stupid.


Once you leave school ,university etc etc, if some of your friends get hitched, and stop going out as much, and their idea of a 'night out' is a dinner party with other families on a saturday evening, I believe men just focus on it more, because we think about in sex in a different way to women, but I know for a fact many young women are in the same position, hell most people don't even talk to their neighbours anymore... Women might be able to get sex easier than men, but an actual relationship? especially as the years advance?

society is fukked.
 

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thread is very relevant to me and most guys my age in my school. There will be guys that don't even attend my school or university pulling all the girls cause most of us too scared to talk.

Thanks for the advice though.
 
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