why is getting laid such an impossible task for the avg guy

[RealAssanova]

10 pages discussing something as trivial as getting laid. Really?

this shyt ain't a science. Every nikka gonna have a different story or different game for himself. Cuz its just that...for HIMSELF. You get rejected, ok cool. Realize that woman that just rejected you....there is someone hotter than her, without a doubt. Now, whether that hotter woman may like you depends. But that depend could be a lot of things, some which may not even be in your control. That depend could even be a blessing in disguise and you may never know. At the end of the day, it happens to everyone. Don't worry about nikkaz bragging and shyt or saying what you should do or shouldn't do. You don't kno their story and reading/seeing stuff will hurt you more than do you good, especially if you ain't that good to begin with.

End of it all, when it comes to women....if you overthinking and overanalyzing shyt into a science or study, you doing wayyyy to fukkin much. Make your life simple. Find shyt that will tailor to you. What you say, the women you go for, the places you take them, etc. It's all apart of the bigger picture of developing your own self-game. Not your homie's, brothers, cuzzins or some PUA clown.

Under this umbrella of self-game also includes staying fit and healthy, being financially sound and independent and grooming. These aren't even stuff people would tell nikkaz to do or learn, as they are essentials. Once those are pat down, then women really shouldn't be a problem.

But if you find yourself questioning the situation, yourself or the person you tryna be intimate with....there is a big problem.

 

[Luke Cage]

wrong its always been said 20% of men sleep with 80 percent of women, married men have to deal with sexless marriages etc.

sexless marriage is an exaggerated hollywood idea.
the fact that viagra is such a booming industry means that people are having sex well into their twilight years. and old men are usually not picking up woman left and right. they're settled with one woman.

 

[Krazy]

Ima take some notes
Conversation and confidence ain't all that these days obstructing a nicca meat

 

[360dagod]

sexless marriage is an exaggerated hollywood idea.
the fact that viagra is such a booming industry means that people are having sex well into their twilight years. and old men are usually not picking up woman left and right. they're settled with one woman.

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You really think nikkas don't get tired of hitting the same p*ssy for 40 years?

 

[semtex]

There is no one way to get laid because all broads are different.

 

[Luke Cage]

Hollywood is entertainment, demonic entertainment at that. You can't base your life experiences off of others who are fantasy.

Most average and ugly men have always settled on marriage to get booty. I seen so many average to ugly white boys getting married with average to good to very good looking women. Man, if ya'll brothas want to eat, maybe take a different approach. Not everyone can be Marcus Graham. Always adjust breh. If you aren't eating, adjust. If you are slumping in Baseball, do you just say well, I just ain't that good. Heck no or everyone gonna look at you like a horrible player and person. You adjust. Ya'll look at women like a God right. As long as there is competition, there will consideration to prove yourself. I lost some, I won some. Always adjusting breh.

i agree with you for the most part.
but its still pretty apparent that you get more sex with one woman than you do with constantly being on the hunt for new women.
i never hear people in a commited relationship complain about a lack of sex life as often as i do with these so called players/perennial bachelors. (they might complain about the quality but thats a whole other issue)

 

[Luke Cage]

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You really think nikkas don't get tired of hitting the same p*ssy for 40 years?

they prolly do but thats a separate issue.
trying to spice up your sex life>>>>than trying to create one where none exists.

i'd rather have a woman come in and tell me she wants to try a threesome because shyt is boring
than beating my meat raw because nobody is checking for a flabby 55 year old playa.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Uhhh, actually they're not. You sound like the typical ignorant American. I'm pretty sure anyone who's been around the world or from somewhere else besides the States would say otherwise (as it has been for as long as I can remember on this board). I'm willing to bet you've never even really stepped off of American soil.

Actually, Im a 1st generation immigrant... grew up in NYC.... went to a private school with diplomats' kids... been to Europe, Africa, Central America.... dated women from all corners of the globe

So yea, when I say all women are on the same shyt, I'm not talking out of my ass

"Running away?" More like going someplace where shyt's better. Why the fukk would I want to stay here if I don't have to? Are you trolling, or just that ignorant?

Yes, running away.... women in America aren't responding to you the way you think they should, so you want to go to another country thinking women there will be any different. As if American women aren't all from other countries to begin with

You are thinking with your dikk, instead of your head. Really think through what you're talking about here. You move to Europe or something, those women there want the same things women here want, AND you have to fight cultural and language barriers. Plus Europe's economy is shyt, and immigration is a lot tougher there. So unless you have connections, getting a job is going to be impossible. I looked into it after me n wifey did our honeymoon in Europe and fell in love with it. Actually looking into it snapped us back to reality.

You move to a third world country, you put yourself in a catch 22. Women there like foreigners because foreigners have money locals don't. If you move there permanently, unless you can work here remotely, you will become one of those locals and be right back where you started, AND in a third world country. If there are good jobs there, the few folks who can get the education and experience there have them, and again they have the cultural and language advantage over you, even if your education and skills are the same.

If you go to one of these countries to bring a wife back, she will probably become Americanized, realize how lame you are, and clean you out, if you're not able to lead and be the anchor of the family. And the fact that you are looking to uproot your life in the *HOPES* of getting p*ssy says that as you are now that will be the case.

So yea, the whole, "im gonna get a foreign chick" is bullshyt. I have extensive experience with them from both sides (family and dating). It is all the same shyt. Stop projecting your lameness on the world around you and become "unlame". p*ssy is in abundance in the US... there is NO REASON any employed healthy young dude should have any problem getting women here.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

sorry your wrong, ive been to nearly 20 countries and its ludicrous to think women are pretty much the same everywhere. Hell I live in toronto and last month I went to vancouver same exact country and the women are totally different.

Hell women in small towns etc. are not the same as women who grew up in big cities.

I broke down why the "foreign women" thing is bullshyt in another post.

Yea, women are different to some degree, but ultimately if you are lame you are going to have problems pulling women from anywhere. They all like dudes who are confident/interesting/well-to-do. A dude who cant pull women closest to him culturally is going to struggle pulling women anywhere.

 

[Surreal]

Lol young people
Old cliche..just be urself
If u a cornball, be a cornball and ect

 

[Gains]

lower your standards

or step your game up

 

[Diondon]

nikka focus on yourself and stop worrying about p*ssy
By 25 a man should have mastered p*ssy

 

[USSInsiders]

No idea if someone else hasn't mentioned it, but there is a way to get guaranteed sex with almost any kind of woman, at any time, and you don't need to be great looking, have confidence or have a happening social life,if all you want is to get laid. Prostitution. Iam not talking the skanks on the street corner,although some girls at these nightclub aren't all that much of a step up in the STD a personal hyigene stakes. Iam talking escorts, and you will be surprised how cheap it is, especially in the UK now all the eastern europeans and their pimps have saturated the market .

It eliminates all the angst about trying to impress girls , one upmanship , and financial risk (you might take her out and get fukk all out of her) personal risk (girl could want more than a quick fukk and get angry when you don't call, starts to feel used causing you no end of problem , girl could have a boyfriend she hasn't told you about ,starts to feel guilty blames you, boyfriend will almost certainly blame you despite his slut for a girlfriend, etc etc) .The escort respects your confidentiality unless you are some politician or other powerful person , because it's in her interests to get a good reputation.

I think the reason prostitution is either on the fringes of legality or illegal depending on where you are, and is certainly seen as immoral still in society, is because if more guys especially young guys saw it as an option and didn't go down the more complicated route because they somehow felt less of a man if they have to pay for it , prices would be driven down even more, and then more and more guys would do it, and you would end up with women losing quite a bit of power in relationships, and also there would be less need for men to want to be in relationships. You might even find women treat their men better in relationships knowing full well there is an alternative option ,that is cheap, has plenty of variety , and will do almost anything to please and wont' be on your case all the time.

Dating coaches hate him

 

[sfgiants]

if u have a big group of friends its a lot easier to get ur dikk wet because ur introduced to a lot more bytches that way.
if u dont have a lot of friends its a little harder.
if u have hipster friends who throw hipster parties at their hipster houses, you're gona eat
the sooner u learn to stop taking rejections personally, the faster u get over it and move on to the next target
i compare it to baseball. look at this piece of shyt chris davis, batting average like .196. yes he's a piece of shyt. yes his average sucks. but it doesn't mean he's gona stop swinging.
and neither should u

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

wrong its always been said 20% of men sleep with 80 percent of women, married men have to deal with sexless marriages etc.

Aren't 80% of women only interested in only 20% of men? Women can get laid easier than men.