why is getting laid such an impossible task for the avg guy

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I sometimes take rejection too personally I need to just keep moving on instead of taking it too heArt.

I'm not going for just dimes by any stretch but at the same time id rather be alone and jerkoff then be with a women I'm not attracted to at all but settle because it's all I can get

I get rejected by a dime...it doesn't even bother me
Its all forgotten when im smashing..

But dudes lowering their standards to average looking girls and still getting rejected is soul burning ether

 

[the cac mamba]

Mostly cause the average nikkas want above average chicks. If they stayed in their lane they could get their body count up. Basically, nikkas want what's in the curly hair goddesses thread when they should be looking at the beauty of everyday women joint.

mothafukk that thread

 

[philmonroe]

we're gonna have to define what a "dime" is cuz most "dimes" I run across are broke themselves

Another person doing this dumb shyt. Most times when talking about "dimes" we are talking about looks unless otherwise stated not their financial situation since most guys don't care much like women do about men.

sorry your wrong, ive been to nearly 20 countries and its ludicrous to think women are pretty much the same everywhere. Hell I live in toronto and last month I went to vancouver same exact country and the women are totally different.

Hell women in small towns etc. are not the same as women who grew up in big cities.

I think what dude is trying to say is most dudes that have to leave the country to get women that are honestly readily available speaks to each dudes individual lack or belief that they lack something. When looking at the brazil documentary about leaving the country most of them dudes you could easily tell they weren't eating good here so of course they'd goto a third world country and pull a real life version of that movie the new guy. If you eating good why would you leave? Visit yeah but leave stop it that's just not the norm at all for people being successful somewhere.

This is so fukking true that its crazy. You gotta look inwards. If you're afraid of approaching a chick, don't you wonder why? You're afraid because you think she has a reason to reject you. A lot of the reason dudes are struggling to eat good out here is because they're counting themselves out before they even try.

Women can feel the confidence. A dude with 100k, is in shape, and grooms well, is going to look in the mirror and think to himself that a woman has no reason to reject him. He's going in with the mentality that he has a chance with anyone. Dudes that aren't as fortunate or aren't there yet might not feel like that, and that's going to affect how successful he is in dating, and ultimately in life.

Folks gotta remember, women are not some foreign species. I was surprised by how little women actually get approached by a decent dude, and I mean approached, not harassed. They're just as willing to date as men are, dudes just gotta get over the mental block of approaching. Look around at the dudes you see eating, they're always putting the hook out there. Even if it doesn't go anywhere, at least you tried. Not every shot is a game winner, but they're all important nonetheless, brehs.

Exactly cats know what the real is but as long as they have hang around dudes on their level they will be stuck unless they have a come to Jesus moment with themselves. The truth is right there if you choose to pay attention to it. Like you said most dudes that have stuff going for themselves don't have these problems and either do,the dudes with nothing to offer cause they like fukk it I don't have any other choice but to be bout it to eat.

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

Women are so damn thirsty these days, I don't know why all of y'all aren't getting your dix wet everyday... I am not particularly aggressive, so [when I was single] unless a dude stepped to me thoroughly, I wouldn't have a clue that he liked me. I had male friends, that I THOUGHT were just my friends. Nothing was wrong with them, it's just that SOME of them never spoke up... Close mouth don't get fed. Be yourself. You don't have to run game. Women in their 20s are THIRSTY AF...

 

[philmonroe]

Women are so damn thirsty these days, I don't know why all of y'all aren't getting your dix wet everyday... I am not particularly aggressive, so [when I was single] unless a dude stepped to me thoroughly, I wouldn't have a clue that he liked me. I had male friends, that I THOUGHT were just my friends. Nothing was wrong with them, it's just that SOME of them never spoke up... Close mouth don't get fed. Be yourself. You don't have to run game. Women in their 20s are THIRSTY AF...

Why y'all chicks like them lies of dudes as just your friends esp in your 20's and beyond for the most part? Its not much to chill with y'all for if your not a girlfriend. I have female friends but they are moreso for going out and stuff like that not actually my top friends. Its no chick most dudes are cool with like that except under a few conditions like they are a chump thats scarred, she a childhood friend, she ugly, and or she somebody else's girl. Outside of that the girl knows the real but lying to have that make energy for cheap rates IMO.

 

[Nemesis]

Getting laid is easy...... staying faithful is hard

 

[Truality]

its like anything

the more you do it the better you'll get

just focus on gettin bytches and you'll work your way up from low caliber to high

 

[Dreamzeedream]

its like anything

the more you do it the better you'll get

just focus on gettin bytches and you'll work your way up from low caliber to high

True

 

[Jesus]

I'm tall handsome and buff with a nice smile and still bat around 60%. Trey song looking nikkas don't have it easy and still fail. These don cheadle nikkas need to just go for it! Ain't no lower than the basement!

Ugly nikkas have to big echoes or just too coward to put themselves out there.

 

[TheArchitect]

Actually, Im a 1st generation immigrant... grew up in NYC.... went to a private school with diplomats' kids... been to Europe, Africa, Central America.... dated women from all corners of the globe

So yea, when I say all women are on the same shyt, I'm not talking out of my ass

Yes, running away.... women in America aren't responding to you the way you think they should, so you want to go to another country thinking women there will be any different. As if American women aren't all from other countries to begin with

You are thinking with your dikk, instead of your head. Really think through what you're talking about here. You move to Europe or something, those women there want the same things women here want, AND you have to fight cultural and language barriers. Plus Europe's economy is shyt, and immigration is a lot tougher there. So unless you have connections, getting a job is going to be impossible. I looked into it after me n wifey did our honeymoon in Europe and fell in love with it. Actually looking into it snapped us back to reality.

You move to a third world country, you put yourself in a catch 22. Women there like foreigners because foreigners have money locals don't. If you move there permanently, unless you can work here remotely, you will become one of those locals and be right back where you started, AND in a third world country. If there are good jobs there, the few folks who can get the education and experience there have them, and again they have the cultural and language advantage over you, even if your education and skills are the same.

If you go to one of these countries to bring a wife back, she will probably become Americanized, realize how lame you are, and clean you out, if you're not able to lead and be the anchor of the family. And the fact that you are looking to uproot your life in the *HOPES* of getting p*ssy says that as you are now that will be the case.

So yea, the whole, "im gonna get a foreign chick" is bullshyt. I have extensive experience with them from both sides (family and dating). It is all the same shyt. Stop projecting your lameness on the world around you and become "unlame". p*ssy is in abundance in the US... there is NO REASON any employed healthy young dude should have any problem getting women here.

Hmmm, I missed this....

You seem very condescending, with no real foundation for it. Where do you get this idea that nikkaz are leaving JUST for p*ssy? My career choice entails me traveling all over the world, so it's not like I'm on some stupid quest for foreign buns. I've seen real-life examples NUMEROUS times of foreign women vs. Western. So once again your talking bullshyt. So I'm "lame" because I'm not wasting my time playing the "game" like you? Grow up nikka, you sound like a fukking retarded jit in High School. I've played the game and won/lost; the shyt ain't worth it to me. If a bytch wants to call me lame just because I ain't adhering to bullshyt society has put forth, then fukk her....You sound like the type who looks down on others if they're not doing shyt the way you believe. Very annoying...and who said anything about bringing her back? Don't make assumptions like you've been doing, you only make an ass of u and me...

Yes you are indeed talking out your ass. Your back story tells me that your probably a spoiled trust brat with his head up his ass, talking nonsense on a message board about shyt you probably really know nothing about. Who should I listen to, the guy who's been to/lived in 20+countries, or some jerk-off New Yorker who's only been to a couple of places running his trap about shyt he doesn't know?

 

[godkiller]

Those french broads in Montreal from other parts of Quebec. Can't speak English for shyt but my confidence and aggressiveness won out.

Is there a good % of English speakers in Japan?

I tried hitting on two Montreal broads at the same time after a night of studying. It was a daytime, I smelled and my shirt was rumpled. One of them laughed at me when I tried to close

I'm working on another set through text though .

 

[The Don]

It isn't

 

[godkiller]

nikka I get bytchs on the daily I just don't have the car ,money,space to smash so i just pay them no mind.Any cat that don't live at home should be able to get a main chick or fwb shyt not hard.

You're ugly and have a small dikk so I know you need to tell the truth. What do females say when they see your little dikk? Is it a problem?

 

[-DMP-]

for all the hate he gets, Vado gave some good advice

-DMP-

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Hmmm, I missed this....

You seem very condescending, with no real foundation for it. Where do you get this idea that nikkaz are leaving JUST for p*ssy? My career choice entails me traveling all over the world, so it's not like I'm on some stupid quest for foreign buns. I've seen real-life examples NUMEROUS times of foreign women vs. Western. So once again your talking bullshyt. So I'm "lame" because I'm not wasting my time playing the "game" like you? Grow up nikka, you sound like a fukking retarded jit in High School. I've played the game and won/lost; the shyt ain't worth it to me. If a bytch wants to call me lame just because I ain't adhering to bullshyt society has put forth, then fukk her....You sound like the type who looks down on others if they're not doing shyt the way you believe. Very annoying...and who said anything about bringing her back? Don't make assumptions like you've been doing, you only make an ass of u and me...

Yes you are indeed talking out your ass. Your back story tells me that your probably a spoiled trust brat with his head up his ass, talking nonsense on a message board about shyt you probably really know nothing about. Who should I listen to, the guy who's been to/lived in 20+countries, or some jerk-off New Yorker who's only been to a couple of places running his trap about shyt he doesn't know?

If you are so well traveled/well-to-do you should have no problems dealing with American women. That some "jerk-off New Yorker who's only been to a couple of places" has no problems with "Western" women while you do says to me "Western" women are not the problem. Not sure what you mean by "adhering to society" either... had I done that I'd prob have been dead or way worse off.

I won't say you are lame, but writing off a whole society of people who somehow manage to get along with each other and folks of your background is a pretty lame thing to do IMO. "Western society" is not your problem.