why is getting laid such an impossible task for the avg guy

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Can we get some of the Coli ladies to chime in, because I have a strong feeling that a lot of cats are lying in here about their abilities

 

[old_timer]

did maurice cheeks stand around wondering why he couldn't rebound like moses??
no, he just got busy with his assists and steals
not everyone's built to automatically pull women
you can either do it or you can't

didn't mean cheeks couldn't grab a rebound or two each game
or malone didn't occasionally make a nice pass
but they each had a role
cheeks could've worked ten times harder trying to rebound
and he never would've outdone moses

 

[360dagod]

go to church

 

[PullOutGawd]

ive had nothing cept a bus pass, and some dingy ass motel on dundas in mississauga as a 21 year old and i was still getting dimes

and i've always been oblivious, i've always literally just walked into puzzy

i've nver been the dude sending 100 msgs on a dating site, or saying yo ma on the street, or changing who i am on some sort of chameleon

hell the last time i got laid i was just trolling in another city and she took it from there.

That's my GOAT mod

& fellow Canadian brethren

 

[King Poetic]

I say about 80 percent of women shoot me down..

The other 20 percent I get end up sexually getting punished for the dimes who tell me to

A lot of net dudes think they should have nothing but dimes and complain when they see bummy dudes with them. Just go to YouTube and see them complain

 

[Frump]

I sometimes take rejection too personally I need to just keep moving on instead of taking it too heArt.

I'm not going for just dimes by any stretch but at the same time id rather be alone and jerkoff then be with a women I'm not attracted to at all but settle because it's all I can get

 

[Momentum]

http://www.macklesonsradio.com

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

One min all women are hoes and thots the next min y'all talking bout how it's hard to get pusc. Make up your cot damn mind

depends which angle you look at it there are some dirty skeezers that will only fuk a nikka with money and fame,considering the average nikka has neither he will struggle to eat but that doesnt mean the women aint hoes because they turn broke nikkas down.

 

[Momentum]

There is no simple solution. This thread has a lot of bad advice.

 

[The Maverick]

I agree with this and I think this is the main problem alot of dudes have honestly. Their own lives aren't really where it needs to be but dudes still worried about getting chicks while they broke, unemployed, living in the basement, wanting a dime when they penny, etc. These are some of the biggest reasons cats are insecure they know they don't got much to offer somebody and come up with alot of bullshyt to justify it..

This is so fukking true that its crazy. You gotta look inwards. If you're afraid of approaching a chick, don't you wonder why? You're afraid because you think she has a reason to reject you. A lot of the reason dudes are struggling to eat good out here is because they're counting themselves out before they even try.

Women can feel the confidence. A dude with 100k, is in shape, and grooms well, is going to look in the mirror and think to himself that a woman has no reason to reject him. He's going in with the mentality that he has a chance with anyone. Dudes that aren't as fortunate or aren't there yet might not feel like that, and that's going to affect how successful he is in dating, and ultimately in life.

Folks gotta remember, women are not some foreign species. I was surprised by how little women actually get approached by a decent dude, and I mean approached, not harassed. They're just as willing to date as men are, dudes just gotta get over the mental block of approaching. Look around at the dudes you see eating, they're always putting the hook out there. Even if it doesn't go anywhere, at least you tried. Not every shot is a game winner, but they're all important nonetheless, brehs.

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

speak for yourself

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

cause you nikkas dont know how to communicate with women

Exactly! @Lewis Black knows how to communicate and therefore I got this on standby for him!

As a matter of fact, I'm gonna be on the Magnificent Mile this fall...

Hey Lewis!

 

[Guile]

A lot of dudes haven't realized that times have changed. Maybe several decades ago most guys were getting something consistent on a daily basis. But that just isn't the case anymore. Unless you have something that actively attracts women or actively learn how to attract women you won't be getting a ton attention from females, or at least the amount you think you should be getting.

I think, we as men, just need to accept this.

 

[Guile]

go to church

Short story. I live in a small town the only black church is one for those small organizations that has to rent a room out to hold service. The only girl who was my age and attractive was the pastor's daughter. She even went to the same college. But I was pretty sure she wasn't feeling me. Sort of sad.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

nikka I get bytchs on the daily I just don't have the car ,money,space to smash so i just pay them no mind.Any cat that don't live at home should be able to get a main chick or fwb shyt not hard.