I can somewhat relate to this.
I rarely approach women unless they give off obvious signs mainly because I have a huge ego but also because I admittedly have zero game. I don't know the keywords to get the drawers, I just try to be myself & see if she reciprocates my energy. Being attractive usually helps seal the deal but it also intimidates a lot of women, mainly black. They see a pretty, 6ft, light skin brotha & automatically assume I'm either getting all the bytches or only date white women. :Kellzhuh:
I used to have an inherent fear of rejection so while nikkas "uglier"
than me where getting all the thick dimes I was busy smashing flat backed thirsty beckies or busting nuts to Xhamster videos until Tinder changed the game.