You're a black dude with a job in Atlanta struggling to get black women.....again, in Atlanta? That seems pretty odd
All forms of online dating are to be taken with a grain of salt. That's especially for free sites like POF and OkCupid. That's triple for apps like Tinder and SoulSwipe. I give more credit to paid sites like Match and Black People Meet because people generally are serious about meeting someone when they're paying to do so. And the quality is much better on those sites.
Tinder and Soulswipe are 10% about dating and 90% about attention whoring.
1. Most of the women on there rarely logon. If you look at their time stamps, most of the women, especially the most attractive ones, haven't logged in for more than a week.
2. Most of the women are already dating or in relationships. Much of the female population on these sites are already with someone, so they use these apps the same way they use social media....for attention. They're not really looking to meet up.
3. Most of the attractive women on these sites have way too many dudes to sift through. Most dudes on these apps swipe right more than left. Most women on these apps swipe left more than right. What does this lead to for the average half way decent looking female? She has WAY MORE matches than she can handle because for every dude she swipes right on, she's probably a match. Sounds great, but that's a bunch of attention in a very short period of time. Very easy to get lost in the sauce.
4. Most women have online standards that they don't keep in real life. Women will have a laundry list of things they want when meeting someone online. From certain kind of look, to type of job, etc. But then you find her boyfriend or ex-boyfriends and they meet only a few or maybe none of her "standards" she has posted on her profile. Online, she only dates tall men. In real life, her dude is 5'7."
Yeah I have to c/s this. Some of these chick are just trying to up their IG and snapchat numbers. They're not really trying to meet anyone. Just starving for attention. Plus a lot of the good looking girls on Soulswipe rarely login.
My 1st three broads i smashed after moving to ATL (all black) was a result of cold approaches. 2 at walmart and 1 at the DMV. Jus gotta be on the prowl and open ya mouth. Basicly you gotta be aggressive and a lil "thirsty"
Too many single ladies out here for you to be online making threads like this. Its highkey pathetic
Online dating is alright, but it shouldn't be ones main source to meet women. Cold approaching is straight. Like someone said you need to have the proper gift for gab though. IDK how some of these coli dudes act like cold approaching is lame. Like how do some of yall meet women if you not approaching them
Yeah, we're getting trolled
Seems like it