It's a lot easier to find someone with a great personality when you are attracting more people. You can be an amazing person and be around amazing people, but if the attraction isn't there, the odds are you won't find out how amazing they truly are. People don't scan each other with lasers that define their personalities and then approach. It's all about the physical. Does being attractive GUARANTEE finding someone with a great personality? Not at all, but if you think that an attractive woman doesn't have it easier finding a mate than other people you are highly mistaken. An attractive woman has options. She can sort through all the rift raft. If you aren't attractive you kind of take what you get. Does being rich guarantee you'll find a better neighborhood? Not at all but it gives you options. Attractive women have OPTIONS. People forget that shyt. Women are the gate keepers. And that's a whole other topic but we all should know by now that women have to say yes in order for a relationship to go down.
The options are there, but it's a 'needle in a haystack' type situation. I'll meet good looking men, who have all the physical qualities that would make a beautiful kid, but the dude hasn't read a book since grade school.
Then I'll meet a dude who is intelligent, but he is bad with money and is either mildly unattractive and/or obese.
Finding a well rounded quality dude, who would be a good role model, father, responsible life long companion and who I would also be sexually attracted to, is not easy.
I've managed to find that dude, but trust, he aint that cute... and my family and friends do clown.
Believe it or not, some women are single because they haven't found the right guy. It's not that easy.
Aiiiiiiiiiight, I'm done derailing.
Oh and as far as the thread... yeah those chicks are attention whores and have no idea how their negative and whiny posts repel people. But it aint my job to save them. That's for the internet simps to do.