Why do so many men not take care of their kids?

[Medulla Oblongata]

Stop having sex. Problem solved.

 

[gangreen]

Women, Y' all are vindictive, plus y'all nag and bytch too much in order to achieve perfection or at least your definition of it

Some Men are not geared to take that part of child rearing so they avoid it. Its unfortunate.

 

[hood b. goode]

don't spread ya legs for thugs

 

[cam>]

I'll answer.

Because they're poor/unemployed/under-employed.

They are embarrassed that they are a men, yet unable to be a protector or provider.

They don't feel connected to the child or the mother of their children.

So they run off, because it's easier than dealing with reality and responsibilities.

Behaving like an adult male requires work, commitment and honor - traits they don't have.

 

[charmander]

have you spent anytime around kids lately

fukk that

 

[charmander]

stop giving a nikka with no job a blow job

let me eat bro

 

[Uncle Trill]

Because they only wanted to fukk you they didnt want some snotty nose kid. Kids suck and take all your money. Plus its easier to run away if your the man coz it aint like the baby was attached to you for 9 months.

 

[JLova]

Typical Coli. Blame women for irresponsible men.

 

[Gains]

I wish there was more birth control options for men.

there is

 

[Axum Ezana]

I'm a church pianist/keyboardist so I know all too well about these ratchet ass women and the kind of men they prefer.

They usually find God (not that it's a bad thing) when they are 30 plus with a whole bunch of kids and stretch marks.
Also when they come up to sing they usually sing off key.

They love them some thugged out nikkas.

Black women with baggage love the church. You can usually tell how much baggage a Black woman is carrying just buy peeping her church attendance. If she's a lifelong member of a church or some shyt, that doesn't count. She's probably OK.

But, if you find a bytch who "suddenly" starts getting churchy or bounces around from church to church, chances are she's a whore.

I bet your pastor gives those ratchets many private prayer sessions in the comfort of their homes.

My biggest mistake in life was not becoming a preacher. shyt is too easy, breh.

 

[Raava]

there is

Well then.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Same reason why females keep having kids by dudes they know aren't father worth.

 

[Blackout]

That's why this thread was made though breh. I don't have answers and don't know if anyone here does. But I was looking forward to learning something in hear besides prevention of the pregnancies all together.

Hear this.

Those men will not change until they themselves choose to change or they cant get p*ssy anymore.

As long as they get what they want nobody can stop them.

There is no other answer than that.

We cant force them to take care of their kids nor can we shame them any more than we are doing now. All we can only hope for is women to do their part to help us fight the issue and not be deadbeat dads ourselves.

Words dont get shyt done. Actions do.

 

[Axum Ezana]

like everyone said stop asking nikkas who don't got babies everywhere.

go ask them dead beat nikkas....shyt every black male is different and has been through different shyt

ill speak on my life though. my dad left my mom but he actually still tried to be in my life. the problem was my mom got married again and the step father would cause a big fuss about him being around. but naw my dad did alright in trying to make an effort of being there.........

but naw I do not have any kids out there fatherless and I never will. so that's why I can only give examples of others. im not a bum ass deadbeat dad.


but if you want a simple answer then the man is a deadbeat that needs to do better.(also he probably needs to mature)

I think why a lot of the so called deflection might be coming from men who wonder why the women want choose them, so if the woman ever messes up he say "good for ya dumb ass...shoulda picked me hoe....."etc.

then you got men who will get turned down and keep pursuing but they also accept their dream woman with step kids.

I also know men who will stay married until their kid is off to college then divorce their wife........

 

[Krazy]

I dunno how other dudes can be okay with another man being called daddy by their seed and being raised by another man.
I dont have kids but that feeling gets me mad inside, I dare a nikka try that shyt