Why do college educated black women seemingly, immediately write off blue collar black men?

[AAKing23]

These dudes stay cappin. Mexican men were just going viral for working hard and being construction workers and providing for their wives. And these videos were going viral within black internet spaces. Black women were swooning. Fact of the matter is, "Blue collar" looks good on everyone except black men.

On other men, it signals "traditional masculinity/soft life for the wife" on black men it signals "broke/lowIQ/Unambitious". nikkas need to stop lying to themselves in these threads.

We watched for years how black woman in the boatloads called Kevin Samuels show and refused to accept settling for blue collar black men. Also when KS would ask them if they could live with a man making something like 75k (which is in the top 25% of BM earners BTW) these women would say no and that it wasn’t enough. But yeah let these nikkas keep lying

 

[Wiseborn]

When they do decide to date blue collar brehs it’s usually them doing the reach back to get a good man after they couldn’t get their 1st choice of dude to commit to them. And they usually have kids..but nikkas gonna deny this of course

My buddy dating the teacher making over 100K has a son. It doesn’t look like she’s buying dikk either

 

[Wiseborn]

Educated black women still want to get dogged out by a street dude.

They say that Hoe phases are healthy and necessary.

They’re not the only ones almost every Pawgset story is not a breh that she marries but they don’t loudly and proudly call it a hoe phase

 

[Wiseborn]

We watched for years how black woman in the boatloads called Kevin Samuels show and refused to accept settling for blue collar black men. Also when KS would ask them if they could live with a man making something like 75k (which is in the top 25% of BM earners BTW) these women would say no and that it wasn’t enough. But yeah let these nikkas keep lying

yeah not believe what Black women say out of their own mouths when inconvient brehs.

 

[Wiseborn]

Dudes have trouble getting women and blame this or that.

They just don't like you.

Lets examine this. There’s about 44 Million Black people in the US 24 million are Black women and girls and about 20 million Black Men and Boys

Most Black people are married to other Black people but even though 52% of Black Men are childless and officially single More Black Men are married then Black women. about 72% of Black women have children Black women have at least 1 million babies out of wedlock with non Black Men.

So we can conclude that the average Black Man is seen as unattractive to the average Black woman but the average non Black woman seems to think that the average Black Man is attractive at least physically, Black women seem to not even think that.


Black women talk a lot about colorism especially in dating. Could it be that they’re projecting their own preferences?

Black woman have always been available to non Black Men back in the day more because they were forced now by choice.

 

[Wiseborn]

Unfortunately I have to agree with you to a certain extent…. It’s almost like black wome these days take a long time to realize what they should have done years ago…. Takes em way to long to humble themselves… they wanna live like female rappers and these chicks on real housewives/love and hip hop… once they realize that it’s not beneficial for them, they try to do the reach back lol

This. The average hard working Black Man has given up the fake baller shyt in their teenage years.

 

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The majority don't

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

These dudes stay cappin. Mexican men were just going viral for working hard and being construction workers and providing for their wives. And these videos were going viral within black internet spaces. Black women were swooning. Fact of the matter is, "Blue collar" looks good on everyone except black men.

On other men, it signals "traditional masculinity/soft life for the wife" on black men it signals "broke/lowIQ/Unambitious". nikkas need to stop lying to themselves in these threads.

Are blue collar black men known for being providers, and getting married?

 

[Wiseborn]

Are blue collar black men known for being providers, and getting married?

couldn’t resist could you.

Again you’re supposed to be a Black Man and you’re running with a bushable Black stereotype?

It’s been proven that Black Men are the most involved parents in the country Black Men marry more single mothers than anyone yet you’re using the st0rmfr0nt stereotype about Black fathers.

Ask those Black mothers with their half white children if their fathers are in the picture.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

The Coli: Attractive and educated women need to be less selective, and date men they aren’t attracted to, or have things in common with, or share values with, and lower their standards for average looking and earning men who don’t want to buy them a meal for a first date, and submit to men who make less money than them

Also the Coli: We don’t want women who have been ran through, and passed around

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

I'm sorry for the generalization it's just what I see (mainly online) this is something I mainly hear on line, but in real life too I honestly see white collar black women dating blue collar brehs less than latinas and white women. Asian and black college educated women specifically seem against blue collar dudes for the most part


I know college women in general date/marry other college educated men obviously, but the dialogue I hear from a lot and mainly college educated black women is that they will NEVER date a blue collar/trade man. Why though?

It seems backwards cause if we're being fr in MOST places where black people live (like the south) the most financially secure black men are blue collar. But their biggest gripe with dating is seemingly "black men aren't earning enough".

Just from what I see, it looks like a lot of college educated/white collar black women genuinely look down on blue collar men. Obviously not all of them, but a good enough amount to notice it. I think educated women in general tend to lean against blue collar men but I specifically see mainly white collar black women talking down.

Respectfully

Think it’s more of a class thing

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

couldn’t resist could you.

Again you’re supposed to be a Black Man and you’re running with a bushable Black stereotype?

It’s been proven that Black Men are the most involved parents in the country Black Men marry more single mothers than anyone yet you’re using the st0rmfr0nt stereotype about Black fathers.

Ask those Black mothers with their half white children if their fathers are in the picture.

What does that have to do with getting married? You can be an active and involved father and still not be married to the child’s mother.

Most blue collar black men are not thinking about getting married in their 20s.

 

[Wiseborn]

The Coli: Attractive and educated women need to be less selective, and date men they aren’t attracted to, or have things in common with, or share values with, and lower their standards for average looking and earning men who don’t want to buy them a meal for a first date, and submit to men who make less money than them

Also the Coli: We don’t want women who have been ran through, and passed around

nikka yes. You’re acting like this is weird seriously are you a girl nikka?

nikka would YOU want a ran through?

All women have a past so a ran through is a bytch who can’t come to terms with her previous thottery.

I’ve said in the other thread about that average at best thick redskin hoe that I know several hoes that got married.

Tokyo Toni Blac Chyna’s Mom keeps a Man I remember her throwing strip parties in her Man’s crib in Largo Maryland. That particular guy was a Prince George’s County ( the county of Largo Maryland) Sheriff’s Deputy and she risked his job having stripper hoes in there.

The one thing I’d say is I’m not sure if she had a “VIP Room”. but tell that if the PGPD showed up.

Low key a stomp down hoe who settles down is the best wife to have truth be told and I wouldn’t wife one.

 

[Biscayne]

Are blue collar black men known for being providers, and getting married?

Are they not? And what determines what a race is “know for” besides prejudice and racism?

 

[Wiseborn]

What does that have to do with getting married? You can be an active and involved father and still not be married to the child’s mother.

Most blue collar black men are not thinking about getting married in their 20s.

Most Black women ain’t thinking about marriage in their 20’s.

Again I’m not trying to diss you but you posted a wild untrue stereotype.

I’m honest on here because people generally aren’t. As a 40 year old I never wear condoms. I can only confirm one pregancy.

I always seed unless a chick asks me to pull out and the usually don't

Why don’t I have 30 kids? Because they didn’t want to get Pregnant Either they are on depo, tubes tied take the morning after pill or they’re 40 and can’t get pregnant easily.