Why do a lot of married men seem so miserable?

Ziploc

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It's either buyers remorse or the husband realizes that the promise of being fulfilled in your role as provider,protector and partner doesn't follow the so called script that was laid out for men and women.The only difference is that women are protected from the fall out if shyt don't work out and men usually have to figure it out while the provider role becomes a whip the woman gets to use whenever the former QB isn't following the play. I've never regretted starting a family with my ex and I am still grateful that I chose her to be the mother of.my children but marriage as an institution is like a record deal,the contract was never intended to be in your favor.
 
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Married to the wrong person and/or for the wrong reason and sees no way out. We are way less likely to initiate divorce because we are gonna be the ones paying out the ass, we are gonna be the ones visiting our own kids, and because we are taught to just deal with misery. Propoganda about marriage doesnt help either because it makes dudes think its supposed to be hard and that misery is part of the deal.
 

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Just breaking it down from my point of view a lot of dudes marry for the putang. While a woman does for social acceptance.

Once both satisfy their ego the women resent the man for being p*ssy whipped.

But what do I know.

I'm not sure there's always resentment towards the husband for being "p*ssy whipped," per se.

In some cases, these women in so called "miserable" marriages might not want to give up sex due to superficial boredom, lack of attraction, or because they used sexual deception & now resent being legally tied to an unhappy union.
 
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