Why do a lot of married men seem so miserable?

[dr. pill biden]

nikkaz be miserable with themselves and its convenient to blame it on outside things like being married (external locus of control) rather than fixing a problem within themselves. thats everybody and it don’t just apply to marriage

personally my marriage isn’t miserable it’s a joy and like 98/2 good/bad but people also like to project that same inner misery they have single married or whatever status they are onto others. thinking all married folks are secretly miserable aligns with what they already want to believe

 

[rabbid]

Its work. There's joys and successes in it, but also challenges and routine that you just have to deal with. a lot of women and men are "quiet quitting" after a certain point

 

[↓R↑LYB]

50% of marriages end in divorce but some coli posters tryna tell yall all the married men are happy Lol

Also women initiate 70-90% of all divorces. These nikkas not only gotta live in misery and obey their women for decades, but then she leaves and take half his shyt

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Numerous studies have shown this. In fact, nearly 70 percent of divorces are initiated by women. This is according to a 2015 research study conducted by the American Sociological Association (ASA) which suggests two-thirds of all divorces are initiated by women. Among college-educated women, this number jumps up to 90%.

 

[Guess Who]

I wouldn't say miserable per se. But being a desirable, yet married man comes with a lot of temptation. Especially a black man.

Swear to God I'm not trying to boast, but being a handsome, 6 figure breh isn't the flex you think it is when you can't act on the attention. Women understandably hate to hear that shyt but being faithful when it's thrown at you constantly goes against everything your brain is telling you to do. It's not as simple as "Love shoulda brought you home."

I said this to my wife once, to not expect me not to slip up. She was pissed and got insecure.

Couple years later she came back and said she understands. Just don’t be messy about it or fall in love with somebody else.

 

[Astroslik]

I said this to my wife once, to not expect me to slip up. She was pissed and got insecure.

Couple years later she came back and said she understands. Just don’t be messy about it or fall in love with somebody else.

She not fukking nobody else right?

 

[LadyJ2]

Marriage is boring and financially and emotionally draining.

This is why men cheat. They feel like what they sacrifice is not met with equal concern for his happiness and sexual fulfillment.

 

[Guess Who]

She not fukking nobody else right?

Nopeee. She just lost her libido after the baby

 

[Astroslik]

Nopeee. She just lost her libido after the baby

Damn word? She def should be understanding then.

 

[The ADD]

Nopeee. She just lost her libido after the baby

Would you trip if she did?

 

[BlaccSunrise]

Folks get married for the sake of being married.

Unrelated to the thread, but when the bytch in your avi lost her voice box and threw her chainsaw

 

[Guess Who]

Would you trip if she did?

Dunno tbh. I wanna say no but haha.

 

[maxamusa]

They chose wrong then........never understood people who stay in dead relationships....just get divorced and charge it to the game...life is way too short for the negative vibes

 

[Peak]

you aint ever lied.......my cousin
who's like a brother to me is the same way.

him: man this bytch make me wanna kill her.
me: want a cold one?
him: yeah man.......apreciate it.
me: I met this bad mutha fukka at whole foods.
him: this bytch dont cook and dont clean shyt.
me: she owns a boutique and a nail shop.
him: got any pics?
me:
him: she bustin it open for you already?
me:
him: 3 daughters with this stupid bytch.
me: she copped the flat screen.
him: My life is a black fukkin hole....you got some tequila?
me: most def.
him: man when are you gonna settle down man
me:

 

[Peak]

I remember my senior year of high school
I worked the summer at the lumber mill my pops worked at

And all the married dudes kept giving me speeches about
Never getting married
And how the husband has to sacrifice his happiness just to keep the wife from being a bytch

1 nikka damm near had tears in his eyes talking to me


nikka was like
His wife a bytch even though he buy her everything
His kids was a$$holes cause he always at work to provide
So they constantly only with the wife and look at her for communication and emotional support

nikka said the only reason he aint killed himself or his wife was cause he was cheating

 

[Dave24]

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