Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
I look at love a little different than most. Love is a choice. It's a verb. I don't subscribe to the Disney versions of love. Love is what I do. It's me sacrificing for you. It's me giving you my time. Etc
Why do a lot of married men seem so miserable?
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Saysumthinfunnymike
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50% of marriages end in divorce but some coli posters tryna tell yall all the married men are happy Lol 
I've been given this same tone of advice multiple times
Amare's Right Hook
Southeast World Champion
Give this man a drink !!!
Doesn't seem too much different from what I said, but i feel that
#BOTHSIDES
All Star
cuz they didn't go foreignWhy do a lot of married men seem miserable and dead inside?
I straight up bump into a lot of older guys that tell me unprompted not to get married and enjoy being single.
They be looking like this in the face when their "better half" is around.
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WaveMolecules
Superstar
good sir i can confidently say that in my experience, me personally, its a 95/5 good/bad split.
the rare times its "bad" its due to dealing with her problems. her anxiety, stress, drama, etc. she doesnt cause me strife to be honest.
just having someone to share your time with is wonderful. time spent together. having someone to confide in, to feel vulnerable with, to trust, to depend on is priceless.
being a husband is a responsibility but i love that responsibility and i take it seriously.
Well shiiiiiiiid sounds like you to a major W, hats off and may peace, prosperity, and progress bless your union and the fruits it produces
WaveMolecules
Superstar
thank you sir. btw someone negged me for that postWell shiiiiiiiid sounds like you to a major W, hats off and may peace, prosperity, and progress bless your union and the fruits it produces
Kingofthereal
King of kings
I’m happily married myself but…. I also didn’t rush to get married like most nikkas do that end up having bad marriages. My advice to anybody on marriage is this…. Make sure you got your shyt in order or getting it in order, make sure that p*ssy good for some years before you put a ring on it! Also, get to know a person for over five years. I say the last part because in five years you’ll get to experience the good and the bad of a person. Marriage isn’t all good though, gotta learn what you can tolerate.
Kingofthereal
King of kings
That’s good advice, I waited over a decade before I got married but…. Don’t get mad if she can’t wait with you.
Greenhornet
A God Among Kings
you are bound to be in a shythole situation when a women decided to take power and lead
in a society, based on women not winning. Unless you can find the level headed woman like some in here have.
You are always gonna have a combative bytch... and you will have to bend to her insecurities and power struggles forever
add kids, finances etc... kiss the game goodbye
most people have no actual lives and just be doing shyt
but then they realize, now they are stuck digging a hole forever
or they need to go 50/50 to survive, so it seems like it makes sense...traditionally
life is what you make it
either you got the time for this
or you got the time for that
if most people had an actual life... they wouldnt have been put in that position in the first place. So most men have to admit, they are half of the problem for not making better choices, regardless of if the woman changes over time or not. Stupid games, stupid prizes.
If you got enough bread to provide for a family... why dont you have shyt in your name and have your family live with YOU
if your girl or wife is in control of everything... then maybe you are the wife in the relationship ... have some foundation and backbone
the mistake from the jump is that you are capable of owning and leading, but you step into a contract... hoping to own and lead afterwards... instead of before.
in a society, based on women not winning. Unless you can find the level headed woman like some in here have.
You are always gonna have a combative bytch... and you will have to bend to her insecurities and power struggles forever
add kids, finances etc... kiss the game goodbye
most people have no actual lives and just be doing shyt
but then they realize, now they are stuck digging a hole forever
or they need to go 50/50 to survive, so it seems like it makes sense...traditionally
life is what you make it
either you got the time for this
or you got the time for that
if most people had an actual life... they wouldnt have been put in that position in the first place. So most men have to admit, they are half of the problem for not making better choices, regardless of if the woman changes over time or not. Stupid games, stupid prizes.
If you got enough bread to provide for a family... why dont you have shyt in your name and have your family live with YOU
if your girl or wife is in control of everything... then maybe you are the wife in the relationship ... have some foundation and backbone
the mistake from the jump is that you are capable of owning and leading, but you step into a contract... hoping to own and lead afterwards... instead of before.