Why are women so obsessed with friendzoning dudes?
- Thread starter Shameonyou
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A few of your male friends wanna cave your guts in....
Remember who told you first
PhonZhi
Veteran
and how exsactly do you know they arent attracted to you?
Well, one told me straight up but that's another story lol.
aXiom
Maximized Potential
Awwwwwww... you're so delusional it's cute
90 percent of the time...you right. There's always exceptions, but vast majority absolutely.
and this is excactly where the insecurity in dudes is born. deep down they doubt their ability to get another chick on the same level and they make it a do or die issue. chicks sense this and feel disgusted by the dude's lack of confidence in his own ability.From her point of view she's thinking "what makes him worthy of me if he doesnt believe he could get another chick on my level?"Who cares? If you get put in the friend zone, just move on to the next one...if you can get a next one
dudes need to start believing and being aware of their value as a man. The power of your will, the power to say no, the courage and fortitude to set your own path and lead, the control you have over your emotions, the power to choose who you want to lead and allow in your kingdom and most importantly the power to castaway people from your kingdom for disrespect.
Now understand this fellas, everyone (both male and females) can do the things above on some level. Some females are better than some males at controling their emotions. But in general, if you have everything i said on lock, they will choose and you wont have to worry about friendzones. matter of fact, you'll be the ones who just wants to be friends/friends with benefits. However, with great power comes great responsibility fellas...
PrinceDeeDer
Rookie
ummm how about u not talk to her no more after u haven't had sex in the first week?? You get friendzoned by being to nice and not pushy enough. You lame nikkas will keep trying to buy her or NICE the p*ssy out a bytch 
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PabloEscobar
Banned
can we still be friends after i rape them?
It's not necessarily doubting your abilities. Sometimes, and especially when you are younger, it's just that you develop a huge crush on the woman in question and stop seeing other woman. I got put in the friendzone twice in my life, and both times I was inexperienced, messing with manipulative chicks and at the same time in an emotionally vulnerable state for reasons that had nothing to do with the girls I was dealing with at the time. The first time I had just ended a long term relationship and was new to the city i was living in, so that I felt lonely. The second time I had to deal with several deaths among my family and friends. And in both cases it wasn't that I couldn't have had other girls, quite to the contrary, there were girls I rejected because I wanted those who were leading me on. In hindsight I realized that it was a combination of being emotionally vulnerable and a hurt ego that led me to pursue them, even though I should have known that they were attention whores. And especially the ego part gets those who can get woman, I've seen it happen again and again. They are used to conquering all these broads and then all of a sudden there is this one girl they cannot have. And that is when they start simping thinking that what they are doing is being persistant.
I deleted a chick number last night because she told me we not having sex after SHE initiated heavy flirting and sexting. Told her straight up I'm not gonna waste my time. Her telling me she not having sex is like Mcdonalds telling me they not hiring.
Rayzah
I'm Everywhere you ain't never there
If you aren't interested in them romantically but you still want to be cool with them than u got to put people in the friend zone. So are you supposed to sleep with or date everyone that is interested?I will instantly friend zone a guy if I don't want him. And most women are attention seekers so you know they just love guys just lusting for them.
It's an easy concept.
What would be an even better option would be to just say to the nikka, you are not what im looking for, but would still like to hang out, is that cool? that way there is no room left for him to be uncertain about your intentions. I think women are never straight to the point because they want the dude to stick around with out fully understanding the situation. Because we dont ever approach women because we think they might be a cool person to hang out with. What I'm saying is STOP OVER VALUING your "friendship" or company to us, if you dont like me fine but dont make it seem like we should be friends because i was trying to impress you in a way to get the box.
A lot of my guyfriends are like my older brothers. They protect me from the thirst buckets when we go out, they like smoking weed and playing multiplayer on COD, they like to go outside and play frisbee, basketball. They do things that my girlfriends won't do. It's a different dynamic between my guyfriends and girlfriends. I can be straight up and brutally honest to my boys then with my girls when I'm around them I'm on myshyt.
I mean the same people that are saying girls and guys can't be friends...what the f were you doing in elementary school? Just talking to your guyfriends?
I bet when you get a BF all that hanging out with your "guy friends" stops. You aint gonna spend no time with those dudes anymore, because you would have found one person to give you all that attention and your going to be content with just spending time with him.
RealAssanova
Ethnic Vagitarian
she gonna come around. especially since she initiated shyt and sexted.
In the meantime, keep it nonchalant and move onto other broads BUT don't count her out just yet. She gotta sweat...like straight up walkin in the desert for 40 days typa sweat before you SLOWLY creep her back onto the team and eventually lay the d!ckens in her.