Why are women so obsessed with friendzoning dudes?

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No kicks. I just sincerely didn't like them beyond friendly terms. I personally have never fked with a guy I friendzoned. Friendzone for me = I don't like you like that. Period.
 

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Why is it called the frirndzone when what the make is doing is the opposite if a friendship.

All the make is doing is hanging around until he sees there is a chance to make a move on there girl.

It's basically like the make is trying to manipulate her through niceness or something.

That's not a friend
 

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It's probably been said already......but here's my theory.

Dudes are taught from a young age to honor and respect and put females on this invisible pedestal......no matter what.
Females are taught from a very young age that they are princesses and queens.

This combination blurs the vision of the male.
To me, that means most dudes will blindly do things for females to win their favor.
And most females will allow this to happen for as long as possible because they feel entitled.
The dude is thinking, "Sooner or later, she will see how awesomely charitable I am and fall in love with me."
The female knows what's happening. She has that "a$$hole" boyfriend, but she does like to receive "free" shyt from the friendzone victim.



This thread reminds me of Sweet Dreams by the Eurythmics.

"Some of them WANT to use you. Some of them WANT to get used by you.".
 

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she gonna come around. especially since she initiated shyt and sexted.

In the meantime, keep it nonchalant and move onto other broads BUT don't count her out just yet. She gotta sweat...like straight up walkin in the desert for 40 days typa sweat before you SLOWLY creep her back onto the team and eventually lay the d!ckens in her.
Word she giving mixed signals. that shyt threw me off like :huh:.
she be hitting me up talking about she misses me or telling me to call her later after I see her.
 

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This is what happens when weak minded guys and opportunistic women collide. I recommend guys to only go after freaks who have sex by the second date.
 

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It's probably been said already......but here's my theory.

Dudes are taught from a young age to honor and respect and put females on this invisible pedestal......no matter what.
Females are taught from a very young age that they are princesses and queens.

This combination blurs the vision of the male.
To me, that means most dudes will blindly do things for females to win their favor.
And most females will allow this to happen for as long as possible because they feel entitled.
The dude is thinking, "Sooner or later, she will see how awesomely charitable I am and fall in love with me."
The female knows what's happening. She has that "a$$hole" boyfriend, but she does like to receive "free" shyt from the friendzone victim.



This thread reminds me of Sweet Dreams by the Eurythmics.

"Some of them WANT to use you. Some of them WANT to get used by you.".

Honestly, treating a female with a small dose of decency in any instance is the perfect way to turn off a female with the quickness. But treating her like total shyt turns her on and furthermore, she will have the utmost respect for you. I know there are women who will deny this pattern, but the proof is in their actions to what they positively respond to and clearly, they do not want to be treated with decency period. So, guys need to acknowledge this and adapt accordingly.
 

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It's probably been said already......but here's my theory.

Dudes are taught from a young age to honor and respect and put females on this invisible pedestal......no matter what.
Females are taught from a very young age that they are princesses and queens.

This combination blurs the vision of the male.
To me, that means most dudes will blindly do things for females to win their favor.
And most females will allow this to happen for as long as possible because they feel entitled.
The dude is thinking, "Sooner or later, she will see how awesomely charitable I am and fall in love with me."
The female knows what's happening. She has that "a$$hole" boyfriend, but she does like to receive "free" shyt from the friendzone victim.



This thread reminds me of Sweet Dreams by the Eurythmics.

"Some of them WANT to use you. Some of them WANT to get used by you.".

You can treat a woman kindly, and also have a spine and backbone. The two arent mutually exclusive.

Lets keep it real, cats aren't being "nice" to a female out of the goodness of their heart in this scenario. They are doing it to get up in them guts, and being nice is the strategy they're going with. Lets not act like the man in this situation is acting altruistic. Both parties are self-interested.
 
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People keep saying this shyt but it's not true. Both parties get something out of the sex and some women are perfectly fine bein a jump.

I MEAN FROM THE WOMAN'S PERSPECTIVE. WOMEN PROBABLY LIKE TO COLLECT "FRIENDS". USE THEM FOR WHATEVER AND KICK EM TO THE CURB WHEN THEY STEP OUT OF BOUNDS.
 

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You can treat a woman kindly, and also have a spine and backbone. The two arent mutually exclusive.

Lets keep it real, cats aren't being "nice" to a female out of the goodness of their heart in this situation. They are doing it to get up in them guts, and being nice is the strategy they're going with. Lets not act like the man in this situation is acting altruistic. Both parties are self-interested.

I agree with the second portion of your post. However, it should be noted there are genuinely respectful dudes who were raised to be that way (kindness/respectfulness and niceness are not the same because niceness by definition is naivety) and thought that being respectful to everyone in general was a good thing, but encountered females moreso than dudes who would try to take their respectfulness for weakness.
 
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