Why are women so obsessed with friendzoning dudes?

[Fatboi1]

I'm nice to females on my own terms and that's hardly.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Honestly, treating a female with a small dose of decency in any instance is the perfect way to turn off a female with the quickness. But treating her like total shyt turns her on and furthermore, she will have the utmost respect for you. I know there are women who will deny this pattern, but the proof is in their actions to what they positively respond to and clearly, they do not want to be treated with decency period. So, guys need to acknowledge this and adapt accordingly.

This is ABSOLUTELY untrue. Any woman who gets turned on by disrespect is emotionally damaged and you're gonna fukk with the wrong chick and get killed with that mindset. It's not that they are attracted to ACTUAL a$$holes, they are turned on by THEIR definition of a$$holes. To a lot of these overly entitled women an a$$hole is a guy who hasn't been affected by social conditioning, who doesn't say "How High" when the nearest female says jump. These are guys who have been unplugged from the matrix and understand that feminism has been turned from something that preaches equality for the sexes in to a system that benefits women and puts them in a tier above men. Chicks have called me an a$$hole for refusing to have sex with them because I was busy or for calling a statement they made stupid instead of kissing their asses. I am the definition of a nice guy but I do not bend over backwards for women or treat them like they are above me, I love and respect women (just like everybody else) but I refuse to conform to the current standards of them all being princesses, they are not Queens, Goddesses, or any of that other Simp bullshyt. They are the opposite sex, thats it, neither above or below us and thats how they should be treated.

 

[Cat piss martini]

try to friendzone me and i'll make you hate yourself.
her: piss youre like family.
me: I agree.....sup with your homegirl
her: which one
me: the bad redbone with all the ass
her: you could do better
me: I know but I gotta get her naked.
her: I have a better body
me: fix me a drink would ya
her: i'm gonna model this lingerie for you i got
me: is your homegirl a freak?
her:

 

[Groanman]

Honestly, treating a female with a small dose of decency in any instance is the perfect way to turn off a female with the quickness. But treating her like total shyt turns her on and furthermore, she will have the utmost respect for you. I know there are women who will deny this pattern, but the proof is in their actions to what they positively respond to and clearly, they do not want to be treated with decency period. So, guys need to acknowledge this and adapt accordingly.

The wife and I had a young married couple at our house for dinner a few weeks ago. And the young lady was teasing me about my age. My wife was laughing....the young couple was laughing their ass off.

So, I turned to the young man and said, "You know? As men get older, our overall value increases. But when women age, their overall value depreciates. You always see a young hot chick with an old man. But you'll rarely see a young muscular dude with an old shriveled up retired cougar."

The women in the room stopped laughing. The young dude stopped laughing and started nodding his head in agreement with me.

Sometimes, you have to flex your inner Tariq on these broads man. They need to be reminded from time to time that you are the shyt. Not them. You. Flip the script on their asses.

 

[Jason B]

This is ABSOLUTELY untrue. Any woman who gets turned on by disrespect is emotionally damaged and you're gonna fukk with the wrong chick and get killed with that mindset. It's not that they are attracted to ACTUAL a$$holes, they are turned on by THEIR definition of a$$holes. To a lot of these overly entitled women an a$$hole is a guy who hasn't been affected by social conditioning, who doesn't say "How High" when the nearest female says jump. These are guys who have been unplugged from the matrix and understand that feminism has been turned from something that preaches equality for the sexes in to a system that benefits women and puts them in a tier above men. Chicks have called me an a$$hole for refusing to have sex with them because I was busy or for calling a statement they made stupid instead of kissing their asses. I am the definition of a nice guy but I do not bend over backwards for women or treat them like they are above me, I love and respect women (just like everybody else) but I refuse to conform to the current standards of them all being princesses, they are not Queens, Goddesses, or any of that other Simp bullshyt. They are the opposite sex, thats it, neither above or below us and thats how they should be treated.

I was once an individual who believed in treating men and women alike an equal level of respectfulness due to how I was raised. But now, I no longer show an ounce of respect to women because everytime I did that, they would try to play me. So, I only show that respect towards men.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

I agree with the second portion of your post. However, it should be noted there are genuinely respectful dudes who were raised to be that way (kindness/respectfulness and niceness are not the same because niceness by definition is naivety) and thought that being respectful to everyone in general was a good thing, but encountered females moreso than dudes who would try to take their respectfulness for weakness.

Right....I think you answered yourself in your own paragraph. There is a fine line between kindness and naivety/weakness.

I think I can safely say that pretty much everyone, across gender lines, has been burnt or played by someone of the opposite sex in some form or another. Its just the cost of doing business, and love is a battlefield. With anything, you have to learn from your experiences and adjust accordingly. Establish personal boundaries and value systems, so that if a female is interpreting your kindness for weakness, you can recognize it and not allow yourself to get worked.

 

[philmonroe]

The wife and I had a young married couple at our house for dinner a few weeks ago. And the young lady was teasing me about my age. My wife was laughing....the young couple was laughing their ass off.

So, I turned to the young man and said, "You know? As men get older, our overall value increases. But when women age, their overall value depreciates. You always see a young hot chick with an old man. But you'll rarely see a young muscular dude with an old shriveled up retired cougar."

The women in the room stopped laughing. The young dude stopped laughing and started nodding his head in agreement with me.

Sometimes, you have to flex your inner Tariq on these broads man. They need to be reminded from time to time that you are the shyt. Not them. You. Flip the script on their asses.

Not going to lie bruh you just sound hurt. Lol Thats not cool just take the old man jokes in stride like most people do.

 

[Groanman]

Not going to lie bruh you just sound hurt. Lol Thats not cool just take the old man jokes in stride like most people do.

I'm not ashamed to admit when I'm hurt by someone.

After I said what I said, the young lady asked me, "Why would you say that to him?"
Meaning her young husband.

She looked like she was about to cry. So I told everyone that I was only joking. But everyone at the table knew I just told a truth.
We all moved on but that night, seeds were planted.

 

[MikelArteta]

There is nothing wrong with being nice

I'm a extremely nice person, out of work can't afford groceries I'll help you out, no I'm not being nice to get in your pants, or hoping to get a date or something .

 

[YouLoveMe]

There is nothing wrong with being nice

I'm a extremely nice person, out of work can't afford groceries I'll help you out, no I'm not being nice to get in your pants, or hoping to get a date or something .

This is me.

 

[JasonSJackson]

fill bytches voids while she avoids filling yours brehs

 

[philmonroe]

I'm not ashamed to admit when I'm hurt by someone.

After I said what I said, the young lady asked me, "Why would you say that to him?"
Meaning her young husband.

She looked like she was about to cry. So I told everyone that I was only joking. But everyone at the table knew I just told a truth.
We all moved on but that night, seeds were planted.

Well at least you can admit it so props on that cause I know a lot that will hide behind a lot of bullshyt to justify what you said to that chick. Props for that but I just let shyt like that roll off cause hell I've done it to those older (still do) they have it done to them. It's just life and at least you lived to be old some dont get that chance.

 

[YouLoveMe]

fill bytches voids while she avoids filling yours brehs

This made me laugh

 

[Groanman]

Well at least you can admit it so props on that cause I know a lot that will hide behind a lot of bullshyt to justify what you said to that chick. Props for that but I just let shyt like that roll off cause hell I've done it to those older (still do) they have it done to them. It's just life and at least you lived to be old some dont get that chance.

Alright now nikka I'm not that old!

 

[philmonroe]

Alright now nikka I'm not that old!

Ok I didn't say you were just was saying it is a vicious cycle regardless of how old a person is there you go with that defensiveness again lol.