Why are women so obsessed with friendzoning dudes?

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Girls aren't interesting to the point where Id hang out with them if we aint official
I think a better question would be:

Why are people so adamant about dating someone who is obviously "out of their range"?

You would have less people being friend zoned/jump offs if people actually had better knowledge of self and stopped trying to stretch reality to match their imagination. :ld:
Wtf is up with the loser mentality? No girl should ever be out of your range.
 

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Wtf is up with the loser mentality? No girl should ever be out of your range.
Right, because all the women who ever served as my jumpoffs who wanted more from me are/were completely sensible women with winner mentalities and loads of confidence, not seeking my personal validation while catering to my needs while not getting what they wanted.

It's a very good idea to chase after people completely unlike you who don't have even the slightest idea of fulfilling your wants in mind. A great strategy for getting what you want in life has always been chasing after people who don't want to give it to you.

If you ain't stretching the limits out here then what the fukk good is your life breh? :childplease:
It's a difference between knowing your limit and seriously playing yourself. You obviously don't know the two.

Teach your daughters and sons to chase after people who don't want them brehs.

Be the ugly, homebody, quiet dude chasing after the socialite, outgoing dime brehs. You'll win. There's no way you won't get played. :laff:
 

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smash her friends see how long you remain in the friendzone
This is why you just go in all the way and make your intentions known. Its your fault for being in the friend zone. I've been friend zoned before because I thought I would eventually get the p*ssy but that's not how works really...even though it worked for me a few time. You just gotta be bold and bring closure to the situation. Ive stopped talking to several chicks this way but its good because those are chicks I just wanted to smash......if i wasn't bold id probably spend years taking them out on "dates" then dropping them off at the dudes house shes fukking. I have a few female friends but if you really think about...girls dont make good friends. They arent even good friends to each other. If a girl puts you in the friend zone just stop fukking with her because you get nothing out of it. It is good to have a few dimes as female friends though....its just a good look being seen with dimes and she can hook you up with her friends.
This. If the only reason why we are "friends" is because i initially wanted to date/smash and i got a "subtle" rejection, i just cut it off. No need to act like i care in the hope of her changing her mind - dont wanna be that guy that she is with because her first choice isn't interested in her.
 

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Right, because all the women who ever served as my jumpoffs who wanted more from me are/were completely sensible women with winner mentalities and loads of confidence, not seeking my personal validation while catering to my needs while not getting what they wanted.

It's a very good idea to chase after people completely unlike you who don't have even the slightest idea of fulfilling your wants in mind. A great strategy for getting what you want in life has always been chasing after people who don't want to give it to you.

It's a difference between knowing your limit and seriously playing yourself. You obviously don't know the two.

Teach your daughters and sons to chase after people who don't want them brehs.

Be the ugly, homebody, quiet dude chasing after the socialite, outgoing dime brehs. You'll win. There's no way you won't get played. :laff:
I don't think that you and I are talking about the same issue.
 

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There is no such thing as a male friend
At least for me the type of females I would consider friends are:
Ones I can't see my self fukkin
Ones I personally don't find attractive
Ones that I grew up with that are basically like sisters
Females you meet while in a relationship
And of course Jump-Off's that you had before you get into a relationship

If their not in any of the above I have no reason to talk to them.
 
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At least for me the type of females I would consider friends are:
Ones I can't see my self fukkin
Ones I personally don't find attractive
Ones that I grew up with that are basically like sisters
Females you meet while in a relationship
And of course Jump-Off's that you had before you get into a relationship

If their not in any of the above I have no reason to talk to them.

A lot of my guyfriends are like my older brothers. They protect me from the thirst buckets when we go out, they like smoking weed and playing multiplayer on COD, they like to go outside and play frisbee, basketball. They do things that my girlfriends won't do. It's a different dynamic between my guyfriends and girlfriends. I can be straight up and brutally honest to my boys then with my girls when I'm around them I'm on my :whoa: shyt.

I mean the same people that are saying girls and guys can't be friends...what the f were you doing in elementary school? Just talking to your guyfriends? :beli:
 

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I think a better question would be:

Why are people so adamant about dating someone who is obviously "out of their range"?

You would have less people being friend zoned/jump offs if people actually had better knowledge of self and stopped trying to stretch reality to match their imagination. :ld:
Hey, you never know what you could get out of it if you don't take a risk. :yeshrug:
 

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There is a difference, because there are different types of friendzones. If a chick is just gently rejecting you it's ok and actually considerate because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.It will probabpy hurt your ego, but it happens to everbody and in such a case it's ok to settle for friendship if you get along with her and are not fooling yourself thinking that she eventually might change her mind.

But if she is one of those bytches who is constantly leading you on and giving you mixed signals or tries to keep you around as a fallback, then you just need to cut her off. And the retarded thing about these broads is that they will most likely end up on your dikk if you do so because their ego can't handle that shyt.
 

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A lot of my guyfriends are like my older brothers. They protect me from the thirst buckets when we go out, they like smoking weed and playing multiplayer on COD, they like to go outside and play frisbee, basketball. They do things that my girlfriends won't do. It's a different dynamic between my guyfriends and girlfriends. I can be straight up and brutally honest to my boys then with my girls when I'm around them I'm on my :whoa: shyt.

I mean the same people that are saying girls and guys can't be friends...what the f were you doing in elementary school? Just talking to your guyfriends? :beli:

Any female that I liked or wanted to fukk I would only talk to them If I was trying to get at them. Otherwise any other female I talked with I considered only a friend and nothing more.
 

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Hey, you never know what you could get out of it if you don't take a risk. :yeshrug:
I think you tards are missing that I'm not saying "don't take a risk" or "have a loser mentality".

I'm not saying any of that.

I mention the word adamant for a very good reason.

It's one thing to take a "risk". It's another thing to take a risk, have someone deny you or be indicative of intentions other than your's, and then you steadily keep putting yourself out there as a pawn for them to play with.

What's so hard to understand about this? If the measure by which you think you will acquire this person are so extreme to the point where output and input are lopsided, then that person ain't for you, period.
 

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i remember back in my 1st yr of uni..i seen dis sexy azz broad dat i had to bag. Shorty had hips, thighs, tittays and an azz (not to mention a cute face to go wid it). 1st week i had to check da vibe of da class and her so i didn't wanna do anything just yet. Hit her wid some eye-contact though as did she so i knew i cud kinda bag her. 2nd week i purposely came to class late and seen her sitting in the back of da class wid no one next to her. I made my move and sat down next to her and da rest was history.

dis shyt went on for 4 months. Rumours were floatin about and dudes kept askin me if i smashed it yet, but i ofcourse said naa. I was disillusioned to the fact that i was probably friendzoned after da first few times we were together and i didn't step to her like dat. But i gotta admit, she played da kid good. She always texted me first, paid for some shyt for me, waited for me after class and ditched her girlfriends and shyt..but when i eventually DID step to her and put her on game..she all of a sudden hits me wid 'she has a boyfriend'. :usure:

i said 'ahh a bf...cool'. Turned around and walked straight outta dat b!tch. Drivin home shorty texts me 'i hope this doesn't change things between us..you're really sweet _______ (da nickname she gave me)'

all i said bout 6 hrs later was 'no biggie'. Needless to say rest of da semester or da next we never spoke to each other apart from a hallway run-in wid each other about few months later. I see her around sometimes, but i ain't checkin for her or speakin to her either. :manny:

But da chemistry me and her had was some good shyt. Chemistry so good dat, i know sooner or later she gonne come around, i'mma play her azz, finally get in em draws and den hit her wid da :salute:.

In a way i appreciate her for playin me like dat cuz had it not been for that i cud be 24 and on dat friendzone tip styll. :patrice:
 

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I don't know, it's weird but while in Germany several people explained to me that both men and women are able to be friends without any sexual interest. So this "men and women can't be friends" thing must be exclusive to America.
 
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