Why are women so obsessed with friendzoning dudes?

[havoc]

A lot of my guyfriends are like my older brothers. They protect me from the thirst buckets when we go out, they like smoking weed and playing multiplayer on COD, they like to go outside and play frisbee, basketball. They do things that my girlfriends won't do. It's a different dynamic between my guyfriends and girlfriends. I can be straight up and brutally honest to my boys then with my girls when I'm around them I'm on my shyt.

I mean the same people that are saying girls and guys can't be friends...what the f were you doing in elementary school? Just talking to your guyfriends?

There are different people with different experiences. Not all guys and all women could get along as friends. You maybe have a success in having friendship with the opposite sex, but I guarantee many women beside yourself have had bad experiences mixing their friendship with pleasure with their guy friends.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

IF YOU GET FRIEND ZONED ITS YOUR OWN FAULT....

nikkaS CRYIN ABOUT "GETTING FRIEND ZONED" SOUND STUPID AS fukk.

YOU GET FRIEND ZONED LIKE YOU GET DRESSED IN THE MORNING. IT'S 100% VOLUNTARY

 

[havoc]

As other posters have said, if you get in the friend zone then you deserve to be there. I've been in a few situatons where I felt like I was drifting towards the friendzone and I checked that shyt with the quickness.

I either tried to:

-Holla at one of the chicks friends
-Made a bold move to try to smash
-Hollerd at other females in front of the chick that was tryin to friendzone me
-Completely cut the chick off (stop callin/textin)


Many times when I have done the above actions I ended up smashin the "friendzone" chicks. I simply played the game how it was supposed to be played

IF YOU GET FRIEND ZONED ITS YOUR OWN FAULT....

nikkaS CRYIN ABOUT "GETTING FRIEND ZONED" SOUND STUPID AS fukk.

YOU GET FRIEND ZONED LIKE YOU GET DRESSED IN THE MORNING. IT'S 100% VOLUNTARY

That some cold-hearted truth , breh

 

[DaChampIsHere]

just another thread for @DaChampIsHere to talk about how cool and social and extroverted he is.



pass

Where am I saying anything about myself at? The shyt I'm saying applies to everyone. You nikkas and your insecurities are something else. Im making general statements (don't keep putting yourself out there for someone who doesn't match you/want what you want. I think that's something everyone can agree with).

You don't think that applies to me to? I'm not the one putting myself on a pedestal or talking about myself here or trying to discuss my personal life/situations as if I'm any different. You are. Hop off and go get some confidence.

 

[BuyandSave]

i remember back in my 1st yr of uni..i seen dis sexy azz broad dat i had to bag. Shorty had hips, thighs, tittays and an azz (not to mention a cute face to go wid it). 1st week i had to check da vibe of da class and her so i didn't wanna do anything just yet. Hit her wid some eye-contact though as did she so i knew i cud kinda bag her. 2nd week i purposely came to class late and seen her sitting in the back of da class wid no one next to her. I made my move and sat down next to her and da rest was history.

dis shyt went on for 4 months. Rumours were floatin about and dudes kept askin me if i smashed it yet, but i ofcourse said naa. I was disillusioned to the fact that i was probably friendzoned after da first few times we were together and i didn't step to her like dat. But i gotta admit, she played da kid good. She always texted me first, paid for some shyt for me, waited for me after class and ditched her girlfriends and shyt..but when i eventually DID step to her and put her on game..she all of a sudden hits me wid 'she has a boyfriend'.

i said 'ahh a bf...cool'. Turned around and walked straight outta dat b!tch. Drivin home shorty texts me 'i hope this doesn't change things between us..you're really sweet _______ (da nickname she gave me)'

all i said bout 6 hrs later was 'no biggie'. Needless to say rest of da semester or da next we never spoke to each other apart from a hallway run-in wid each other about few months later. I see her around sometimes, but i ain't checkin for her or speakin to her either.

But da chemistry me and her had was some good shyt. Chemistry so good dat, i know sooner or later she gonne come around, i'mma play her azz, finally get in em draws and den hit her wid da .

In a way i appreciate her for playin me like dat cuz had it not been for that i cud be 24 and on dat friendzone tip styll.

Yea, you're obviously not checking for her you sucker

 

[RealAssanova]

Yea, you're obviously not checking for her you sucker

what can i say, my d!ck has a mind of its own.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Life is too short to not spend it with people with mutual interests...

If you want to fukk and she doesn't... why would you keep hanging out with her???

Not to say all women are good for is sex... but if that's the goal, work towards it

 

[Coco Loco]

Because some of you don't know how to walk away with pride. Friendzoning is the only way some of you will understand I don't want to smash.

 

[OPTiMO]

Where am I saying anything about myself at? The shyt I'm saying applies to everyone. You nikkas and your insecurities are something else. Im making general statements (don't keep putting yourself out there for someone who doesn't match you/want what you want. I think that's something everyone can agree with).

You don't think that applies to me to? I'm not the one putting myself on a pedestal or talking about myself here or trying to discuss my personal life/situations as if I'm any different. You are. Hop off and go get some confidence.

aight man..

 

[Chill]

As other posters have said, if you get in the friend zone then you deserve to be there. I've been in a few situatons where I felt like I was drifting towards the friendzone and I checked that shyt with the quickness.

I either tried to:

-Holla at one of the chicks friends
-Made a bold move to try to smash
-Hollerd at other females in front of the chick that was tryin to friendzone me
-Completely cut the chick off (stop callin/textin)


Many times when I have done the above actions I ended up smashin the "friendzone" chicks. I simply played the game how it was supposed to be played

This sums it up right here. The only reason why the friend zone is so bad is because dudes are still trying to fukk the same girl. Just be friends and take advantage of the options she gives you.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Uh yes there is, I have several and before you say anything

• NO I wouldn't fukk any of them
• NO I'm not attracted to them
• NO they are not attracted to me
• YES we have shared hobbies and interests
• NO I didn't friend zone any of them

You must be under the age of 21, and more than likely your "friends" are too

 

[Lana Kane]

You must be under the age of 21, and more than likely your "friends" are too

I'm 23, all my friends are my age or older so...

 

[DaChampIsHere]

aight man..

That's what you were doing, clown. Nothing in here I typed had anything to personally do with me, but for some reason you (and only you, apparently) took it as such.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

A lot of my guyfriends are like my older brothers. They protect me from the thirst buckets when we go out, they like smoking weed and playing multiplayer on COD, they like to go outside and play frisbee, basketball. They do things that my girlfriends won't do. It's a different dynamic between my guyfriends and girlfriends. I can be straight up and brutally honest to my boys then with my girls when I'm around them I'm on my shyt.

I mean the same people that are saying girls and guys can't be friends...what the f were you doing in elementary school? Just talking to your guyfriends?

Uh yes there is, I have several and before you say anything

• NO I wouldn't fukk any of them
• NO I'm not attracted to them
• NO they are not attracted to me
• YES we have shared hobbies and interests
• NO I didn't friend zone any of them

I'm 23, all my friends are my age or older so...

My instincts are telling me

But its whatever

 

[Lana Kane]

My instincts are telling me

But its whatever

I'm born in 1990 lol. #factsonly
I'm kinda socially awkward so I seem a lil young though.