Why are women so obsessed with friendzoning dudes?

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This is why you just go in all the way and make your intentions known. Its your fault for being in the friend zone. I've been friend zoned before because I thought I would eventually get the p*ssy but that's not how works really...even though it worked for me a few time. You just gotta be bold and bring closure to the situation. Ive stopped talking to several chicks this way but its good because those are chicks I just wanted to smash......if i wasn't bold id probably spend years taking them out on "dates" then dropping them off at the dudes house shes fukking. I have a few female friends but if you really think about...girls dont make good friends. They arent even good friends to each other. If a girl puts you in the friend zone just stop fukking with her because you get nothing out of it. It is good to have a few dimes as female friends though....its just a good look being seen with dimes and she can hook you up with her friends.
smash her friends see how long you remain in the friendzone
 

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The days of a man being friend zoned should end by your Jr year of college. If you get friendzoned after, it's your fault. You should have learn from you putting chicks in the friendzone.

I personally think it's loneliness and desperation that can put a man or woman in that. You should just take what you can and sit even if you got nothing and do you. If you ain't got much, go back to the drawing table.
 

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the better question would be why do dudes who want romantic relationships with a chick settle for friendship when the chick tells them she's not interested?

Had to move on from one of my homegirls from high school like this. I wanted more, she didn't. Oh well. It's one thing when you are want to be and are cool with just being friends, but if you want more and she's like nah, it's time for the


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Gotta know when you gotta move on.
 

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Tell your "friend" (wink wink) that being friendzoned is nice way of being rejected. Next time be more assertive with your intentions of romance instead of being her play bother.
this. always make sure you let her know from jump that you're sexually interested. better to be too aggressive and get rejected than being too timid and ended up as "the bestie"
 

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It's both. Passive dudes get friendzoned. Dudes girls have interest in get friendzoned as well, for standby. Either way it comes down to how you finesse the situation.

basically what you said breh. some dudes who are put in the friend zone end up smashing in the end
 

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I think a better question would be:

Why are people so adamant about dating someone who is obviously "out of their range"?

You would have less people being friend zoned/jump offs if people actually had better knowledge of self and stopped trying to stretch reality to match their imagination. :ld:
If you ain't stretching the limits out here then what the fukk good is your life breh? :childplease:
 

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As other posters have said, if you get in the friend zone then you deserve to be there. I've been in a few situatons where I felt like I was drifting towards the friendzone and I checked that shyt with the quickness.

I either tried to:

-Holla at one of the chicks friends
-Made a bold move to try to smash
-Hollerd at other females in front of the chick that was tryin to friendzone me
-Completely cut the chick off (stop callin/textin)


Many times when I have done the above actions I ended up smashin the "friendzone" chicks. I simply played the game how it was supposed to be played :youngsabo:
 

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As other posters have said, if you get in the friend zone then you deserve to be there. I've been in a few situatons where I felt like I was drifting towards the friendzone and I checked that shyt with the quickness.

I either tried to:

-Holla at one of the chicks friends
-Made a bold move to try to smash
-Hollerd at other females in front of the chick that was tryin to friendzone me
-Completely cut the chick off (stop callin/textin)


Many times when I have done the above actions I ended up smashin the "friendzone" chicks. I simply played the game how it was supposed to be played :youngsabo:
or jus send the dikk pic . what do you have to lose?? :yeshrug:
 
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There is no such thing as a male friend

Uh yes there is, I have several and before you say anything

  • NO I wouldn't fukk any of them
  • NO I'm not attracted to them
  • NO they are not attracted to me
  • YES we have shared hobbies and interests
  • NO I didn't friend zone any of them
 
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Tell your "friend" (wink wink) that being friendzoned is nice way of being rejected. Next time be more assertive with your intentions of romance instead of being her play bother.
 
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