When Is It Beneficial to Ignore a Woman?

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Lol I don't expect a guy to be there for me ever unless he is an actually friend and even then, not like I would be for them. Also if we are in a real relationship. OP says is is his "Woman" so he has some responsibility.

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Any other chick I woulda deleted her damn number and expected her to hmu 3 months later on some "hey" stuff.
 

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but it will get better because once she gets tired of being mad she will learn that being passive agressive won't get her anywhere in life and that she'll get what she wants (comforting, attention, support) only when she genuinely tries to express herself and what's wrong. So it works in the long run.

That's the thing.
She normally does express herself but im guessing she has gotten so frustrated to the point where it seems like she is always sad.
I told her to eat some chocolate and she said no.
She needs some significant changes in her life.
 

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Any other chick I woulda deleted her damn number and expected her to hmu 3 months later on some "hey" stuff.
Which I wouldn't blame u for if it was a random. My expereince with women, and because I am one, it will come out eventually. Regardless of what it is about she will tell you about it whether you want to hear or not, when she feels like talking. So just show you are avaliable and go one about your business. If you keep pushing it will irk her.
 

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You know sometimes women act stupid and when you ignore them, things get back to normal. But if you talk it makes the situation worst.
I do know that If a woman is trying to argue, to just ignore her and not indulge in her foolishness.
Right now my woman said she is feeling sad but she doesnt know why. I try to talk to her and she gives me short answers. If I ignore her, I don't want her to be on some "he don't care" stuff.
*You know these womens be acting like that:mindblown:*
Everytime they are being difficult :yeshrug:
 

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but it will get better because once she gets tired of being mad she will learn that being passive agressive won't get her anywhere in life and that she'll get what she wants (comforting, attention, support) only when she genuinely tries to express herself and what's wrong. So it works in the long run.
True.............Or she could just think your a dikk.
 

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Which I wouldn't blame u for if it was a random. My expereince with women, and because I am one, it will come out eventually. Regardless of what it is about she will tell you about it whether you want to hear or not, when she feels like talking. So just show you are avaliable and go one about your business. If you keep pushing it will irk her.

Ain't got no choice but to wait for her to return to earth.

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I ain't gon ignore a chick talking stupid,ima shut her up by proving my point,its nothing better than a real life "bu bu but........"

But if she trolling a simple:childplease: or reverse trolling to entertain yourself should do the job:troll:

Her moms dying,grandma sick,hours gettin cut back and she ain't got a clue why she sad:rudy:?
 

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True.............Or she could just think your a dikk.
that's the emotion/ego that will think i'm a dikk. like i said, once she gets no pay off from being mad and gets tired of it, she will grow.

It's nice to be liked. but as her man, it's my responsibility to give her what she needs. Not what she wants. And sometimes the price to pay is to be viewed as an a$$hole. She may never even appreciate it. But that's the sacrifices a leader has to make sometimes...
 
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Pick up the signs

She's sad and doesn't know why. She not happy in the relationship but doesn't know why, even though everything is going great .

The classic its me not you

Folks not gon like the truths behind this post:whew:....I'm not even saying it is the relationshipp or him,but fact is she can't figure out why she unhappy apparently...so if another man comes along and gives her a glimpse of happiness no matter how short term she may find out it will be,if she finds herself momentarily "cured" from her unhappiness:manny:?...she very well might end up blaming you anyway and leaving the relationship:russ:....women are veeery unloyal in that sense.

One of y'all better figure out how to fix the problem,or another man can.:youngsabo:
 

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that's the emotion/ego that will think i'm a dikk. like i said, once she gets no pay off from being mad and gets tired of it, she will grow.

It's nice to be liked. but as her man, it's my responsibility to give her what she needs. Not what she wants. And sometimes the price to pay is to be viewed as an @sshole. She may never even appreciate it. But that's the sacrifices a leader has to make sometimes...

I know you used to watch a shytLOAD of O and A back in the day my nikka :myman:
 

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That's the thing.
She normally does express herself but im guessing she has gotten so frustrated to the point where it seems like she is always sad.
I told her to eat some chocolate and she said no.
She needs some significant changes in her life.
let it be breh. be there for her but give her space to deal on her own and cme to you when she feels like it. until then, ignore her.
 

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that's the emotion/ego that will think i'm a dikk. like i said, once she gets no pay off from being mad and gets tired of it, she will grow.

It's nice to be liked. but as her man, it's my responsibility to give her what she needs. Not what she wants. And sometimes the price to pay is to be viewed as an @sshole. She may never even appreciate it. But that's the sacrifices a leader has to make sometimes...
Very true
 
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