When Is It Beneficial to Ignore a Woman?

[Turbulent]

Just be like if she want to talk or whatever you are there, then leave her alone. That way you have shown you care but not trying to pester her since she isn't trying to talk.

i agree with this. show support but don't try to chase after her because then it becomes about appeaeasing your insecurity and curiosity of what's wrong with her (which is actually more selfish) instead of giving her what she needs.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

Dat feel good breh.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Don't entertain son.He's miserable and hates women cuz a chick hurt him years ago.Misery loves company

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Just be like if she want to talk or whatever you are there, then leave her alone. That way you have shown you care but not trying to pester her since she isn't trying to talk.

Yeah but if she don't say nttn for 3 days ima be bored.
*yes i keep myself somewhat busy at work for Mon-Fri*

 

[HoloGraphic]

She not talking about the relationship.
Friday she had some new issue at work and when she got home she was upset.
The next day she was hitting me with one word answers and said she's not happy.
Has nothing to do with a relationship.

Give her some time to cool off, gather her thoughts and come to you when she's ready to talk about it. Sucks cause you just want to get to the bottom of it but just wait it out. If you think it's about work and has nothing to do with the relationship, then don't worry about it. You may end up "fixing" something that isn't broken.

 

[KinksandCoils]

I be trying to.
Sometimes she won't reply or if she does its one word.

Well at least you are trying. Wait until she comes around. I would be annoyed too if I were you.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Give her some time to cool off, gather her thoughts and come to you when she's ready to talk about it. Sucks cause you just want to get to the bottom of it but just wait it out. But if you think it's about work and has nothing to do with the relationship, then don't worry about it. You may end up "fixing" something that isn't broken.

I feel you.
Its gone be hard though.
I got OCD.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Ignoring her won't work

what do you mean by "this won't work"?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Well at least you are trying. Wait until she comes around. I would be annoyed too if I were you.

 

[Turbulent]

Ignoring her won't work

yes, i meant what do you mean by "work"?

 

[HoloGraphic]

I feel you.
Its gone be hard though.
I got OCD.

Lol, same breh. I can't leave well enough alone. But sometimes that's what you got to do. Keep calm, carry on. This is when you have to be her rock.

 

[KinksandCoils]

yes, i meant what do you mean by "work"?

Nvm you are being difficult

 

[Turbulent]

Nvm you are being difficult

i'm not being difficult at all. we just seem to have different purposes. Thread question was "when is it beneficial to ignore a woman?" my answer in a nutshell was "when she's being moody to get attention". you replied "this won't work". but to me if i'm at peace within then it's "working". that's why i asked what you meant by "work"

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Just be like if she want to talk or whatever you are there, then leave her alone. That way you have shown you care but not trying to pester her since she isn't trying to talk.

Yup true

But me personally girls counting on me to be there like missing rubbers recently

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Nvm you are being difficult

How?
Nothing ever changes so tonight is like tomorrows night