I want to make progress though.
That lil 10% aint gone do too much of nothing.
Maybe when you just banging some chicks but not with your WOMAN.
I get giving your woman some leeway and understanding during a difficult time but...she has to learn that this is not a way to handle her problems or to sustain your support. Maybe she doesn't want you to support her through this explicitly, but she's in a relationship with you and has to account for how she handles all her relationships in life.
Shutting down is not an adult solution and both of you can address problems better if you're on equal footing and she's willing/mature/courageous enough to express what the problem is and how it's affecting her.
All this 'one-word' answer sh*t depletes her relationship to YOU, my friend. Otherwise, you wouldn't be in here stressed and talking about it.