When Is It Beneficial to Ignore a Woman?

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you should ignore her if she is using her negative mood or behavior to seek attention from you. If you give her attention when she is being that way, you are teaching her that acting that way will get her attention from you.

also, ignoring her when she's doing bad is only half the equation. You should also reward her with positive attention when she makes a genuine effort to express herself and what's wrong.
This won't work with a woman. It will make it worse.... It's one of those things that seem logical to do but will back fire.
 

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This chick sounds like a pain breh id drop her and find someone better
 

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Maybe she's actually suffering from clinical depression?

How active is she? even when she's not feeling sad?
 

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Maybe she's actually suffering from clinical depression?

How active is she? even when she's not feeling sad?

Active as far as what?
I know she works a lot and when she gets home she deals with her grandmother who she doesnt get along with, her mother is sick, she's the only one who works, her ratchet cousin causes trouble in the house, and friday they cut her hours hard. Thats why I think she's doing this but she says NO.
 

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She would hit the wall if you did that i bet, another male being treated like shyt at the hands of his woman
 

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She not talking about the relationship.
Friday she had some new issue at work and when she got home she was upset.
The next day she was hitting me with one word answers and said she's not happy.
Has nothing to do with a relationship.

Don't entertain son.He's miserable and hates women cuz a chick hurt him years ago.Misery loves company
 
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