When Is It Beneficial to Ignore a Woman?

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i'm not being difficult at all. we just seem to have different purposes. Thread question was "when is it beneficial to ignore a woman?" my answer in a nutshell was "when she's being moody to get attention". you replied "this won't work". but to me if i'm at peace within then it's "working". that's why i asked what you meant by "work"
Oh ok
 

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I didn't mean u were being difficult I mean the other guy was because he was acting like he couldn't understand what I was saying
I'm not acting like anything. I just want to know what you meant by "work". do you mean making her less sad/happier? do you mean figuring out what's wrong with her? i sincerely didn't understand what you mean by saying that or else i wouldn't have asked.
 

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I'm not acting like anything. I just want to know what you meant by "work". do you mean making her less had/happier? do you mean figuring out what's wrong with her? i sincerely didn't understand what you mean by saying that or else i wouldn't have asked.
I mean that it won't make her express herself by you ignoring , the situation would be even worse because now she is mad at another thing.
 

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When they start trying to hurt your feelings. It may be necessary to tell them to shut up. Its best to leave if they're in one of their trolling moods and dont want to hear logic or reason but just want to be annoying with frivilous language and annoying laughter.
 

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when she open her fukking mouth

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I asked her what was wrong and she said that she doesnt know. She just feels sad.
I told her maybe its the stress *she been having problems at work* but she said "no".

If she hits you with that one word answer bullshyt she wants you to pester her and keep prying about it, like others said just tell her "i'm here if you need to talk to me or whatever but miss me with that one word bullshyt, cause i aint wit it"
 

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Yup true

But me personally girls counting on me to be there like missing rubbers recently
Lol I don't expect a guy to be there for me ever unless he is an actually friend and even then, not like I would be for them. Also if we are in a real relationship. OP says is is his "Woman" so he has some responsibility.
 

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I mean that it won't make her express herself by you ignoring , the situation would be even worse because now she is mad at another thing.
but it will get better because once she gets tired of being mad she will learn that being passive agressive won't get her anywhere in life and that she'll get what she wants (comforting, attention, support) only when she genuinely tries to express herself and what's wrong. So it works in the long run.
 

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Lol I don't expect a guy to be there for me ever unless he is an actually friend and even then, not like I would be for them. Also if we are in a real relationship. OP says is is his "Woman" so he has some responsibility.

Hmm makes sense

Ohh well I guess you win some and lose some long as the outcome is income :manny:

And me personally I come alive in the night time..... so any girl I'm with her I treat her like the main meh
But don't you think its funny how someone else success brings pain?
 

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Hmm makes sense

Ohh well I guess you win some and lose some long as the outcome is income :manny:

And me personally I come alive in the night time..... so any girl I'm with her I treat her like the main meh
But don't you think its funny how someone else success brings pain?
:heh:
 

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i'm not being difficult at all. we just seem to have different purposes. Thread question was "when is it beneficial to ignore a woman?" my answer in a nutshell was "when she's being moody to get attention". you replied "this won't work". but to me if i'm at peace within then it's "working". that's why i asked what you meant by "work"

Im guessing she's saying that ignoring her completely wont WORK, as in cause problems to be solved until she acts right.
 

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but it will get better because once she gets tired of being mad she will learn that being passive agressive won't get her anywhere in life and that she'll get what she wants (comforting, attention, support) only when she genuinely tries to express herself and what's wrong. So it works in the long run.

werd, females only act the way they do because nikkas have taught them they can get what they want in life by acting so
 
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