When I was in high school, most of the bad bxtches was dating grown ass men

[The Solid One]

I remember during the summer of my sophomore year, I played rec league basketball at a community center a few blocks from my house.People of all ages would go there to do recreational shyt.They had free lunch programs, dance class, talent shows, swimming pools..etc etc.There was this one particular girl who took a liken to me.She was a lil cutie, but come to find out, she was only in 7th grade! I've always been one of those Captain America "Do the right thing!" type of guys, so I totally ignored her.It wasn't that hard because she was too bashful to interact with me directly.She would always send her girlfriends to do her bargaining.I just kept ignoring her.No eye contact.Never acknowledged her existence.You know what the fukk happened after 2 weeks of doing that? HER MOM CAME UP TO THE COMMUNITY CENTER TO CONFRONT ME!"You know you like my daughter! Stop fronting! You hear me lil boy!? You like her!Stop lying to yourself!" And this was during a game.She was on the sidelines heckling me.I just shrugged my shoulders & yelled out "She's too young" "Bullshyt!"

Moms wasn't having it.

How old was you?

 

[You Win Perfect]

The age of consent is a social construct. Yes it's a much needed social construct, but it's not natural.

its 16 in a lot of places.
i remember i use to get hit on by high school girls all the time when i was in my early 20's. its not needed at all. girls want what they want, and whats crazy is i still get hit on by high school girls and i'm 30. i still look the same since high school. girls don't care how old you are. if you look good they want you. how many teenage girls lust over older celebrities and such. same shyt.

 

[Sccit]

I think the human mind isn't fully developed until 24...(I think there are studies to support this)...

I just want her to be fully conscious, developed, and aware.

A WOMAN WILL NEVER BE FULLY AWARE SINGLE.. EVEN IN HER 30S. THE YOUNGER SHE FIND A GOOD MAN TO LEAD HER DOWN THE RIGHT PATH, THE BETTER.

 

[Sccit]

Yeah,but thats how we viewed them because we was hating.

"He cant get a woman his own age?". As he drives off into the sunset with the finest girl in school.

 

[Gloxina]

I know, my daughter is 21, and she developed at a very young age, so even though We’re not black, I understand, and there is a lot that I had to learn being a father. I see some of the stuff that goes on, and I just want to rip heads off.

I encourage you to talk about it with family and friends and be a fierce protector of your daughter. You see it!

Now imagine what happens in a community where a lot of girls are growing up without dads in their lives? The young girls get blamed instead of protected.

Imagine your daughter floating out here without your guidance and protection?

 

[Jean Jacket]

A WOMAN WILL NEVER BE FULLY AWARE SINGLE.. EVEN IN HER 30S. THE YOUNGER SHE FIND A GOOD MAN TO LEAD HER DOWN THE RIGHT PATH, THE BETTER.

That's your perspective Brother.

If you have a daughter, mold her with that thinking.

I'm telling mine to consider marriage between 25 and 30.

Before or after that range is a crap shoot.

 

[Still Benefited]

Again not giving passes, but miss me with that they don’t know, i knew good and damn well them girls the same age as me shouldn’t be with an older nikka, but yet they didn’t know Like i said no one is innocent in this, nikkas was fukkin with young girls for their reason and they were fukkin with older nikkas for their reasons

You excusing the girls and that’s where i have an issue, they actively knew what they were doing, I’m not saying it’s cool, but I’ve always said no one is innocent in this, and i used to watch girls that had dads and some that didn’t do this, if i knew at 14-18 you shouldn’t be fukkin with a nikka that’s in his 20’s driving, that wasn’t some anomaly, and If folks are honest and look at their parents or grandparents they will see large gaps too

Thats a tough statement to make even though I get your point. Id rather take it on a case by case basis. Some girls were taken advantage of by older men with advanced mouthpiece,who were already experienced in manipulating grown women. And also used their status as an adult "authority" figure,which may have made it harder for girls to say no.


But there were also situations where the girls were simply attracted to the guy. May have approached him,may have initially lied about her age. Or like I said,not every young girl is innocent and a square. Some girls are advanced and manipulative as well for their age. Some were using the men for money,rides,freedom from parents to be grown. And some wouldnt even see themselves as victims if you tried to put that on them.

If you feel like you were a victim of something. Maybe you were,maybe you werent. If you dont feel like a victim,maybe you werent,or maybe you were.

 

[Gloxina]

Again not giving passes, but miss me with that they don’t know, i knew good and damn well them girls the same age as me shouldn’t be with an older nikka, but yet they didn’t know Like i said no one is innocent in this, nikkas was fukkin with young girls for their reason and they were fukkin with older nikkas for their reasons

You excusing the girls and that’s where i have an issue, they actively knew what they were doing, I’m not saying it’s cool, but I’ve always said no one is innocent in this, and i used to watch girls that had dads and some that didn’t do this, if i knew at 14-18 you shouldn’t be fukkin with a nikka that’s in his 20’s driving, that wasn’t some anomaly, and If folks are honest and look at their parents or grandparents they will see large gaps too

Not excusing. Are there younger girls who are aware they are doing something they shouldn’t? Sure! But the difference is a 15YO girl is being rebellious for the sake of being rebellious and won’t be able to fully understand what she’s involved in until she’s looking back when she’s older.

A 30YO man, though, DOES know what is going on and that they’re doing something wrong. Him possibly knocking up a 15YO is way different than possibly knocking up a 20YO in our current society.

 

[MALWARE]

You tried to clean that up quick!

Clean up. Why would I need to clean any of it up? All of what I said is the truth.

 

[Sccit]

That's your perspective Brother.

If you have a daughter, mold her with that thinking.

I'm telling mine to consider marriage between 25 and 30.

Before or after that range is a crap shoot.

ALL TO THE GOOD

 

[Jean Jacket]

its 16 in a lot of places.
i remember i use to get hit on by high school girls all the time when i was in my early 20's. its not needed at all. girls want what they want, and whats crazy is i still get hit on by high school girls and i'm 30. i still look the same since high school. girls don't care how old you are. if you look good they want you. how many teenage girls lust over older celebrities and such. same shyt.

It takes maturity to see immaturity.

Props.

I've seen a friend take an 18 year old while 33.

19 year old baby mama. How the fukk is he gonna get a good night's sleep for at least 10 years...

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

I remember being in the 9th grade and the 12th graders taking our chicks....I was a hater.

From 10th to 12th grade - it was the college dudes and grown dudes.

Funny enough - some of us brehs had girlfriends in older grades.

If you had a bytch from an older grade - you were a real player

That last line though... damn. A few cats did it, but you only recalled/cared for the ones that pulled heat/the fine older classmen.



My game didn't arrive until my late 20's



*Remembers his homies going to the theaters on Fridays with their dates while he went home to watch The Grind and beat off to it*




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[Jermio]

nikkas just mad and jealous dudes a few years older than them smashed their high school crushes

Coli posters really put their feelings over the greater good of society

Taken advantage of? These hoes were very willing participants. They were determined to fukk some older guy. That's what's disturbing about it. Macaulay Culkin in The Good Son was just a good boy? Y'all need to stop with this babying minors like they can't be twisted.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

shyt like up until the 1900s it was common for a man to marry a 14 yr old.

I can't understand wanting a damn teen though.

Black and white celebs even it was common to have a 17yr old on deck...especially in the 70s and 80s.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Girls was out here getting picked up from school by 27 year old men, they used to brag about it too

Their moms knew what was going on too

My high school prom was empty as hell because the school had to make a rule that your date could only be 20 or younger

I lost a girl to a 30 y.o. man. I usedto pick her up for for dates only to drop her off to him. He sold dope though, so he paid me well.