When I was in high school, most of the bad bxtches was dating grown ass men

[Koli_Kat]

It's interesting a lot of you guys have more bitter energy for the underage girls that were being taken advantage of than the men who were being predators. I came from the 80s. It was nasty then and it's nasty now.

nikkas just mad and jealous dudes a few years older than them smashed their high school crushes

Coli posters really put their feelings over the greater good of society

 

[Sccit]

My bad. Didn't know. Of course, you're an easy target.

An example...

Prostitution is a woman's game because your vagina has a trade value.

A lot of adult grown men gain "intimacy" from power or control... but a girl doesn't understand what control or intimacy is at 18.

Thereby manipulating her "power" of sexual autonomy...

Until a woman truly understands her power... not transactionally like a prostitute, she can take power from her position and demand respect for intimacy.

If a girl survives till 25 without STDs, pregnancies, or marriage...she's won.

THE FACT THAT YOU THREW MARRAIGE IN THERE IS BACKWARDS

 

[Koli_Kat]

She still won...

She got 5 years to lose weight and get therapy and get her finances right and live her life to the fullest, childless and healthy.

And if she doesn't....

 

[TheSuperkick!]

The age of consent is a social construct. Yes it's a much needed social construct, but it's not natural.

You tried to clean that up quick!

 

[Sccit]

Exactly,people talking about "How the hell did R Kelly get away with that. Because he was rich and could sing?"

No,it was broke and talentless dudes doing the same thing back in the day. But you cant really explain to people who grew up in a different era. The older dudes was just seen as lames for not pulling women they own age. Or perverts at the worst. But nobody viewed them the same as we view pedophiles. Unfortunately for Kellz,his famous friends wont be coming foward to admit they was doing the same thing. And people are reluctant to tell these kids this was "normal". And calling the girls victims is a stretch.


I knew girls who was using these grown ass nikkas for money and rides. Because they knew they was simps

YUP

AND TO KEEP IT A BUCK SOMETIMES THEY WASNT EVEN SEEN AS LAMES

AS A MATTER OF FACT, A LOT OF TIMES THEY GOT TREATED LIKE THEY SCORED A W BY THE HOMIES

 

[Gloxina]

My bad. Didn't know. Of course, you're an easy target.

An example...

Prostitution is a woman's game because your vagina has a trade value.

A lot of adult grown men gain "intimacy" from power or control... but a girl doesn't understand what control or intimacy is at 18.

Thereby manipulating her "power" of sexual autonomy...

Until a woman truly understands her power... not transactionally like a prostitute, she can take power from her position and demand respect for intimacy.

If a girl survives till 25 without STDs, pregnancies, or marriage...she's won.

 

[Jean Jacket]

THE FACT THAT YOU THREW MARRAIGE IN THERE IS BACKWARDS

I wouldn't want my daughter marrying before 25.

 

[Sccit]

I wouldn't want my daughter marrying before 25.

WHY NOT?

IF ITS A RESPECTABLE MAN DOIN RIGHT THEN THATS A W

BECAUSE WITOUT THAT SHE LEAVES HERSELF OPEN TO LOTS OF EVIL INCLINATION DURING HER LATE TEENS/EARLY 20S

 

[fact]

Naw see, for many Black girls, our bodies start developing in those middle school years. At that point some men don’t care about what’s happening in our minds or our maturity level. They don’t see how frantic things get when little girls get caught up and impregnated or broken-hearted dealing with a man who is running circles around them mentally. Dudes don’t see it until it’s their little sister coming home pregnant or their daughter getting text messages from a grown man.

I know, my daughter is 21, and she developed at a very young age, so even though We’re not black, I understand, and there is a lot that I had to learn being a father. I see some of the stuff that goes on, and I just want to rip heads off.

 

[Jean Jacket]

And if she doesn't....

She'll be 30 years old and in this current society... her value is diminished...and has an uphill battle attract/keep a (Black) man that's compatible.

 

[feelosofer]

This is why I was so serious in that DL Hugley thread. A lot of people “adultify” young girls and don’t take their pain or inappropriate situations seriously. Because men are sexually attracted to her, she has to know what the deal is and be fully aware of his intentions, how to protect herself and how the scenario is going to play out.

We adopted the White Supremacist tactic of sexualizing underaged boys and girls to our detriment. My wife is a psychologist and administrator and works in the school system and the things elementary school aged children deal children deal with is insane.

 

[Jermio]

You have tons of suburban white boys on Tik Tok talking about the same thing tho


Yuh got Dudes from the suburbs, hood, and country side saying a lot of the same thing

Cause it's facts. High schools with playgrounds for children? I was 12 and shaking my head at that bullshyt. I remember distinctly being in 7th grade, and this latina girl sitting next to me in science class mentioned having a boyfriend who worked at the auto body shop. She was fine too, and kept flirting with me like Elizabeth Hurley in Bedazzled. shyt was crazy.

 

[Jean Jacket]

WHY NOT?

IF ITS A RESPECTABLE MAN DOIN RIGHT THEN THATS A W

BECAUSE WITOUT THAT SHE LEAVES HERSELF OPEN TO LOTS OF EVIL INCLINATION DURING HER LATE TEENS/EARLY 20S

I think the human mind isn't fully developed until 24...(I think there are studies to support this)...

I just want her to be fully conscious, developed, and aware.

 

[DropTopDoc]

Are we talking like 15 or younger, because it’s sounds crazy to me, like kids want to do a lot of grown shyt when they are kids, I just don’t think a child’s mind is developed enough to be held accountable or blamed for being taken advantage of

Again not giving passes, but miss me with that they don’t know, i knew good and damn well them girls the same age as me shouldn’t be with an older nikka, but yet they didn’t know Like i said no one is innocent in this, nikkas was fukkin with young girls for their reason and they were fukkin with older nikkas for their reasons

Naw see, for many Black girls, our bodies start developing in those middle school years. At that point some men don’t care about what’s happening in our minds or our maturity level. They don’t see how frantic things get when little girls get caught up and impregnated or broken-hearted dealing with a man who is running circles around them mentally. Dudes don’t see it until it’s their little sister coming home pregnant or their daughter getting text messages from a grown man.

You excusing the girls and that’s where i have an issue, they actively knew what they were doing, I’m not saying it’s cool, but I’ve always said no one is innocent in this, and i used to watch girls that had dads and some that didn’t do this, if i knew at 14-18 you shouldn’t be fukkin with a nikka that’s in his 20’s driving, that wasn’t some anomaly, and If folks are honest and look at their parents or grandparents they will see large gaps too

 

[Still Benefited]

YUP

AND TO KEEP IT A BUCK SOMETIMES THEY WASNT EVEN SEEN AS LAMES

AS A MATTER OF FACT, A LOT OF TIMES THEY GOT TREATED LIKE THEY SCORED A W BY THE HOMIES

Yeah,but thats how we viewed them because we was hating.

"He cant get a woman his own age?". As he drives off into the sunset with the finest girl in school.